Let's be clear; where there is the attraction. In the eyes and mind of the beholder. Eventually sparks are bound to fly. Before diving in & out of places & spaces. That First require; patience, understanding, continuous work & quality time. Before we speak the words; I love you. From ones own mouth. Into the expectations of another's; fragile heart.
In real places. Of many faces around this world. Pleasure awaits; for a boy and girl. Woman & Men (repeat over again). And time will reveal in All. Of the participants that needed the maturity in the physical & mental. For once the feelings of guilt occurs. In these choices and decisions. That are not always a mistake. But in decision making follows. A sigh of relief if not emotional; heartache. Why, until boundaries are set in limitations is placed. Our understandings become more about; what's being given. or hoping to be received back; of an emotional feeling through an act.
In one moment that seems so real. How is it. One feels cheated if not both fulfilled. For the pleasure was an investment of; the physical and mental act. Based on our willingness and desires. In which we both engaged in knowing. or not if we were well prepared; to learn before releasing. Of what to keep sacred. Or release of these emotions; that run deep in our mature or mastering of love languages.
There are many types of love languages. Where in falling in love; there is the least of many. That may never experience the ultimate level of satisfaction. Of What a few have reached to fullest in of; self expressions, two-way communication. and the desire of respecting in each other's; passion.
Why, because of this word love. Requires many levels of unselfish emotional human acts. Of those emotions in this World. That range out and in control. In ways that is claimed of years in experience. And of understanding of ones anatomy. But what about understanding what is involved in surrendering? To avoid breaking down barriers. That exist of insecure or secured boundary's?
Some will fumble in words & actions to figure out; which of you is out or in control of yourself. As some will give up so much more. Some will drown due to anxiety in anticipating; an emotional response. As experience teaches to not overcompensate pleasurable acts. Without first establishing; how to sustain the Respect. In order to maintain a relationship with communication.
Some will say age and maturity is factored. Or maybe not. If the physical was the first; attraction. Then what is expected to occur; next? As some will display insecurity stemming from struggles to commit. Some have reasoned with; time outgrew what was once desired; of the attraction because of the lack in affection. Some will distinguish; when that fire dims. Let's replenish the passion that first started it in the both of US; to burn.
In the End. Man was not created for a life of lonliness. Categorized by design into groups and norms. Of titles labeled; Singles, Couple's, Mutual attractions are casual Hookups. Occuring all over the world. And The end result is this; it's in human nature. A type of attraction has or will continue to exist.
