Marital Hardships

 “The art of loving making begins with communication. But a person scorned will do you no good, only harm”

Once a woman and man cordially meet the physical attraction immediately brews “HEAT” but make no mistake about the statements you miss in not mentioning all the parties involved including the spouse and kids. Because someone one is not looking forward to risking it all for a temporary sexual fantasy in place of their reality. And although eye candy is packaged nice and tight it does not necessarily mean you are going to be satisfied because you try.

How amazing it is to think people have the perfect life because of a fantastic husband, gorgeous wife, intelligent kids the biggest cribs and fanciest cars. You would think someone hit the jackpot of establishing it all. But did someone fail to mention the “BS” attached to it such as “the long business trips, late night events, forced alimony checks, missed calls, STD”s are just a few examples of how the married couple becomes at risk once the spouse decides they require an upgrade in their relationship by adding Ashley Madison or another set of eyes to witness what should be in privacy of their HOLY MATRIMONY.

In the real world you can believe or be deceived in what is or not seen is why single people can only assume the reasons married couples stray but  in reality it could be the simple things that change if the person they first met feels neglect or deep in their heart the relationship is really growing far apart. And there are some married people who will stay committed regardless of their discrepencies while the remainder of married people escape from their own “REALITY”.

I’m not insinuating marriage is not great just making a point of why people unnecessarily break:

Some people will marry and endure good and bad times with no regrets, some people will share their mates, some people seek to entertain other peoples mates, some people will marry young because they are afraid of growing into their old age and some people will suffer from loneliness because they waste time attempting to figure out a remedy for a married persons committed responsibility .

-Naughty By Nature

Pieces of a Dream

Somewhere someone is waiting for their lives to begin. A place deep down in their souls is waiting for them to take full control by releasing their emotional guilt trip to seek trusting in what other people can only advise of figuring out their lives.  Because the truth of the matter is all people were created with different fears and when in doubt we often seek instant gratification from other people to bail us out. Which sends a ripple effect that clashes  those high expectations of family, strangers and friends who may or may not quickly agree with the plan we hope to implement. Now witness how those high expectations quickly “END" where your assumption was once this  person figures out how to carry my load; it’s time for me to get comfortable. 

So today make time between doubts to reorganize how you will Piece together Your Life to avoid what other people may or may not do instantaneously for you.    

Finding FAITH, Having FAITH, Losing FAITH

There are two things we can count on for sure “life and death” are situations in which we cannot adjust time but we can take the initiative to better our individual lives by choosing what will be our final tour guide.  And in this situation you must individually meditate and ask yourself what are my expectations of finding faith, how do I maintain the faith through life’s struggles and good days and if I were to lose this faith today how would my life drastically “CHANGE“.  

Once we begin to ask ourselves the questions that are conducive to our individual lives then we can identify with why religion has a significant purpose in life. And we’ve seen the signs that specifically read without God our lives or ok which is that person’s individual choice in how they find peace beyond any other person’s chosen desire to believe. So if you are struggling with life today understand tomorrow may be too late to PONDER with “FAITH”

Rebel Children

What would cause a child to rebel against a sacrificing and loving parent?  The answer is clear “life was already predestined to take a toll on their once innocent souls; leaving them no choice but to trample on our loving hearts. But if they would better appreciate how a parent shows concern it would save them time instead of wondering through life full of anger and strife. Destined to experience a shorter life. Where strangers prey they can lead them astray, to an early GRAVE.

ONE message I took to heart "life will teach all of us the significance of obedience, and if we fail to listen and learn; it will deal with each and everyone one of us through a short or long term. Despite the fact of being young or old this is how life's story will go. While some people silently think “who is she to tell me about life” and my response will be; what my elders often shared with me” keep attempting to challenge life your way eventually you will pay by turning grey in your young or middle age”. A small reminder of how time does not refuse to reprimand smart ass children. Even if your parents pray it’s about time you pay closer attention to the signs before it's to late. And you join the place where your friends lay never to awake.

Life purposely chose the journey we would take, time allowed us to appreciate our lives and disobedience would close the chapters of our minds.

The American Hustle

Only time will tell who and why a person will show disloyalty in your life because in the real world everyone has two face one you love and the other you will hate.  Why, because it takes all of us to get it wrong before we eventually get it right. So stay tuned to identify with who is struggling to find a “BALANCE” in this life and if they are capable to survive the test of time with the possibility of temptation leveraging their minds and burdened hearts because is was already predestined to ensure we fall short of meeting the expectations of one another's disloyal hearts. Maybe this behavioral pattern could stem from our inner fears of not possessing the American Dream “money, power, sex, respect and some type of recognition to validate “a real pulse rate”. Which means “I am somebody with my own identity”?

The truth of the matter is any persons real intension will always change whether you are rich or poor the mind play games. So remember this we are all subjective to being read another reason  to clear the throat and tracked nostrils then maybe you can clearly think ahead not behind the  minds that have lost track of real time, the feds who are up all night on top of your game where a dog will never track a smell they cannot detect and to stillborn your curiosity I only gained knowledge to stay free, the attorney who is banking on you calling in and it's not in the interest of being your best friend,  hackers depend on you buying back in, people only trust in what they can see, people will intentionally plan to rob you blind if you don’t detect the shift in their eyes, and there are those people who will lie pathologically to get bye just to taste a piece of the American pie.  

Hustling is dead but Angel L’s stories are self-explanatory" based on real current events demonstrated by all races of men, family and friends.

Life Savers

Someone can agree to this statement today that “either a family member or friend assumes “you are the life saver who will always save the day”. And the reason why is because of people like you and I that always give without thinking twice about making the first and last sacrifice. So if you are going through some emotional times, a job loss, relationship binds, rebellious kids, dealing internally with life or because you’re down too the last dime start focusing on bettering you and not the people that do possess the capability to keep you falling on your knees praying for energy.

Today has its own worries and tomorrow is not promised to anyone so when life has challenged you with the best of test say to yourself it’s not the worst. Because I know the difference between hopelessness and low self- esteem  and having wisdom with the strength to continue in giving but knowing the difference of why people either strive to have more or depend on others only to have less. While riches may buy a temporary dream there are some folks who can’t find that one simple thing “peace in this life” to buy them time.

 

 

 

Famine to Feast

There is an old cliché   “You gone learn today” that life was never meant  to be easy.  

Who would have thought of a divine plan to allow famine in this land. Who enjoyed a feast and was later deceived of royalty, but instead sacrificed one life so men of all nations would finally get this thing right.

Society believes in order to survive your either wealthy rich or the walking dead. It just depends on what you will allow of confusion to fill up your heads. See how a plan can divert your attention span once there is no hope. People will struggle before letting go of what brings them down to "balance zero".

Question is there really a first place or is it just people of all cultures trying to keep up one pace sorrounded by greed and the make believe. Eventually the story will end like the tortous and heir; it may seem like your days of famine won’t go away beyond every 23 days. Simply calculate at your own pace with faith and you will see a feast is really in what you manage to believe and achieve. And at the end of the day you can finally say “I’m luvin it” in a special way because you have finally figured out; Famine to Feast was only always manmade doubt.

Apartment Lease

The term lease according to Webster's dictionary is referred to as "a fixed periodical return made by a tenant or occupant of property to the owner for the possession and use" of an allocated space. That's not meant for a life long term stay. But accommodated at a negotiable rate with additional fees if you plan on being late.

A long time ago establishing home ownership or a temporary place of residence was a great opportunity to establish what we call now America's captivity "credit lines. We can no longer barter with" in greedy times maybe a reason why many people speculate; companies are no longer hiding their true face of property management. In regards to their assumption that renters are seeking a charity case. By interrupting their pace to meet the bottom line that rotates between who ever can accommodate the qualifying "YTD", located on your bi-weekly or monthly pay. While builders are pushing up daisies and charging for amenities, when you push your wants not necessary needs. So if you have not harvest enough in your life take notes young people to what I am about to say it will save you some time from a mental break. Your only option will be to sign a new lease but beware of the stifling increase, water usage and if any 

discrepancies contact TCEQ. Also, it would behoove you to watch the company you keep. And where you park your property to avoid late night towing fees.

Congratulations to the homeowners who have accomplished to invest in 30 years or refinance of your mortgages. Just prepare your kids to be responsible over what retirement will not allow you to pay beyond default days.

They say knowledge is power. Then having proper direction will only lead you into the TRUTH from a lie to survive living The American Dream in this life. 

Letterhead

The letterhead guides the reader into the body of a text area of information that could be a major setup or minor setback, depending upon the “letter head”. All across the globe people communicate in various ways physically and verbally every single day. So the concern is why do we neglect the effectiveness to understand when a clear statement "has been said" and digest the confusion that ponders in our weary heads.

I ask a young man do you care whether you live or die because young people can no longer justify their actions due to hard times only to make the headlines of "runaways" countrywide. This young man’s response was people will leave you in adversity, parents will either pray or give you away and society is quick to place judgment with their prejudice ways. I proceeded to say “don’t let the confusion crowd your mental space” your days ahead or greater than you think if you will invest some time to read between the lines to see how and why people conspire the drama they “hate’ but often “love to make”.

I understand why and how people of all races are struggling in hard times. Because you either have barely enough to accommodate your basic needs or more than enough controls your limits to maintain a normal roll. And that is why ordinary people want to win the lottery where unordinary people sometimes profit in stake or mismanage their whole fortunes before its to late.

I overheard students celebrate their accomplishments of passing a horrific test. In order to get their brokers license and the message was loud and clear that people love to be sold dreams so why not accommodate them with what they want not necessarily what they will read of information about their land and the disclosures in reference to their homesteads. And what will take place not under warranty no later or sooner than 5 years.

I experienced my first earthquake today and many on the west coast will say "that's nothing unusual this way" but it may be the reason why the earth will eventually shift apart mass land where riches stand "in the faith of buildings on unstable land". Is why people should follow up on the headlines to not wonder but ask what are they drilling for under those old property lines and whose entitled to compensation for cracked foundations is when you will or not benefit from obtaining homeowners insurance.

I glanced across the globe to see beautiful Italy. And to my surprise someone acted on the misinterpretation of a persons right to freedom of speech by reading a written headline to execute innocent lives. You have to wonder why religion still causes people to loose their entire minds.

There are dating sites, singles ministry and different social networking places to mingle freely but why is it so troublesome to find love? Because people desire to love someone else first, people prioritize fantasy over real life, people think sex is 100% of a non existing relationship, people are caught up in the fantasy of possessing material things while the other partner has taken what they need, some people wait to show their true face while other people pray and wait.


Why are we consumed to think through what other people have decided to do?  Why are we over optimistic about what will happen next "good or bad" in another persons life if we have yet to get our own right.

What if life's real purpose is only to reveal ourselves to one another. Then individually we could better see one another collectively by identifying the messages we act out everyday so clearly.

Before any man challenges another mans faith by asking what kind of God allows his people to suffer and always come in last place. Tell that man to his face it is the same God who is the creator of all the heaven and earth that in the End will remember ME FIRST.


 

TIME

 
The definition of time according Webster's dictionary means "the thing that is measured as seconds, minutes, hours, days, and years. And the question is what are two things that move in motion "PEOPLE AND TIME" where people either act on time or not care about the time they waste but seek refuge only in what they believe.

Time will not allow you to repeat yesterday because you must be willing to move on beyond doing things the same ole way.

Time will not allow you to re-raise grownup children who become adults in age, because time will deliver you into an early “GRAVE”.

Time will not allow you to therapy a broken relationship, especially if you are not qualified to replace what’s broken inside.

Time will not allow our young women and men to seek out get rich scams, because of the investors who benefit off the choices they make to get rich “QUICK”.  

Time will not allow you to continue working double shifts, because the body is not equipped to handle the brutal beating it gets.

Time will not allow everyone to win the lottery. Because the portions that are paid is distributed in faraway states where someone gets an enormous tax break while schools continue to “WAIT”, for the check to clear it’s bank. So manage what you have accordingly.

Time will not allow you to spend what does not exist even if you think you have more than enough of it. Because someone is always looking to either take over control of it or a letter from the IRS, to audit it.

Time will not allow us to continue giving birth to innocent children that we only seek for love in someone else. Because time will remind us children are here to stay, but love is either real or temporary.

Time will not allow us to continue orchestrating the sermon in sold out shows only to rebuild businesses forgetting the real purpose of winning souls. Because God is watching and taking notes of everything we do “BELOW”

Time will not allow us to know longer pay off mortgages because of new developments, time will not allow us to reach retirement because of the office mole and downsize of employment for bonuses to the upper management. So prepare your youth for what is their truth unless you are blue blood rich, maintained an upper class of social relationships or believe in a higher power that can change this mess.  

Time will not allow us to exasperate ourselves over debt. So if you have made the choices to assist someone else; pray against the collection agencies because God does remember all the things you sacrifice for someone else in this life, “I can testify”. But if your choices are based on negligence and selfish acts it’s time you wake up to the facts “what you want is not always a necessary need” and time will age you because of your intensity to possess “MATERIAL THINGS”.

Time will not allow the murderer to continue their evil feast to feed the inner beast. Because of the story of Cain and Abel where one brother took the other's life, but God reigned and cursed the murderer’s life as  his eyes remained "OPEN WIDE".

Time speaks about the people with holes their pockets, the rich man, false prophets, liars, nonbelievers, thieves, forgiveness, whoremongers, racism, fornication, incest, bribery, hypocrites, and all human acts that are taken place throughout the world today. Keep in mind it’s only a matter of time to answer for the things that will not be ignored but already done the same way in past history. Even if you don't believe, one day every living being will bend down on their knees because of seconds, minutes, hours, years and days like these.

Merry Christmas 2014

The story  of Joseph and Mary occurred  on a special night when the world denied these three a place to lay, peacefully.

This Christmas Season should be a time to celebrate with family and friends, or take the time to understand your real purpose for being here. But for some people there will be no Christmas gifts underneath the tree, for some people they will mourn for the love ones they miss of family, some children will cry because mommy and daddy left them alone this year, some children will be grateful just to have grandparents, mommy and daddy near, some people will donate their time to the less fortunate, some people will deny the reason for the season. But the story is Joseph and Mary traveled though the night a father and mother to be who could not find one place that would  allow them a room to sleep. Because of  people in this life who refuse to make one sacrifice. And the only space available for the three was in a manger where Mary gave birth to a king.

I’ll allow you to read the rest because the story is only personal for those who have the interest of understanding why this Christmas is more meaningful than money and gifts. This Christmas was meant for us to celebrate “the birth of the king”.  So whatever your reality is this day, we will either give acknowledgement or continue to deny the birth of Jesus Christ who is the only real reason to why; we are still here and alive .