"LL" Love Lessons

The warning signs are clear to see if a woman or girl would like to know the truth to why her  heart  is not being fully satisfied but denied the LOVE from a man who really has no real intentions of making her a part of his plan. Because no woman was created without the idea of a man involved to replenish the earth and share her life with. But the reality is some men choose to pleasure themselves in any type of relationship. Which leaves some women broken hearted.  And this may not apply to all women but there is a reason why; some girls and women choose the other side, and confide in other women about there intimate lives.

Women are nurturers born at birth but often forget their worth. Women are quick to sacrifice for a man but often fail to receive the same in return. Some women pray for a man while others prey on a man. Women will root their faith and fight for a man until the dual end. But often deal with not forgiving themselves in knowing this man has no intentions of “changing” who he really is.  

Celibacy is a gift. Courage is not being afraid to wait, loneliness is only a opportunity to evaluate what is a mandatory requirement in your life including standards and expectations to starting off with proper communication. Because no one is capable of 100% in a life of  occasional disappointments.

Women just incase a man chooses a younger  mate count your blessings because life will not allow women or men to physically remain the same. Simply stay on top of “your game” because one man’s lack of visión and performance is another man’s Harvest.   

A good girl can be turned bad in many ways. A bad girl can turn good in many ways. Simply remember how MEN HUNT THEIR PREY!

Women there are men who will shower you with no intentions just one mission. And it's up to you in showing this man how you appreciate the things he will do to earn your trust with trips, gifts and more stuff.

A mans multitude of excuses does not equal to; what he makes of a promise to change for you.

A woman can have a man who finds time to do what is on his mind. But a woman who sets her expectations in place is almost destined to conceal that man’s heart and space.  

A man is capable in identifying his family or a woman's need. So therefore this man does not require a lead to proceed in providing for the obvious things.  

A man knows exactly what to say; at any given moment on any given day. And he does not require you to prompt him on what to do to persuade you into the groove. In all due respect of  song writer "R Kelly” he mastered a technique with little words to speak . Therefore watch closely to see what a man has to say; but never finds a way.

A woman can birth a child. But a mother takes responsibility of ensuring that child has a solid environment and family. So when a man requires a portion of your parental time it’s time to re-evaluate what will eventually cause you heartache. 

Ladies once a man say's he requires time out from your relationship or he is not happy in a present relationship. Understand exactly what is being said; not what you would like to hear in your head.

A woman's intuition notices the change in her man. Especially the little things like “acknowledging birthday’s, holidays, compliments and love making”. So when a man fails to recognize what is of importance of making a sparkle in your eyes; it’s time to accept the truth in what this man has no intention to do.

Woman and men will get lonely even with someone by their side. And the reason why is because it does not mean everything is  GOING “all right”.

A female is limited to time in a small space. A woman of interest is carefully planned to fellowship with family and friends. And casual sex is just a booty call which really means dont get relaxed with confidence.

Finally, women and young girls be careful of envying women who are always engaged but never married. And women who brag about their 3rd or 4th marriage. 

Experience is the reason why I can testify to burying what was dead of "brokeness". So now I clearly see how a man will either initiate you in his plan or leave you wondering; where and why, do I or not, stand in your life.  

Isaiah 4:1 Reads “In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, "We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace

Money Riddles

The intent and motive in having money does transition people for the good or bad. Because money allows all people to develop and survive in real life situations.

The riddle is clear to see how a human being can aggressively or escalate transformation in change with some or no money. And someone will find confusion in any statement of what takes place in this human race. Move on and proceed with what you have to say because time is not on our side to debate 'reality'.

The intent and motive behind money is the key in unlocking what humanity desires of controlling money and in some situations; Aka 'GREED' depending on the space you're in with intention and motives.

Today was a normal business at the company  which brought another extended opportunity. The invitation was made to 1 dress due to overwhelming acknowledgment of a brand in Office etiquette. To dine amongst 20 Foreign and American suites collaborating on their next global investment move to blend their millions for more billions.

Today my wisdom allowed me to humbly embrace the signifigance in knowing the difference of what it means and takes to be content, struggle, powerful and rich.

Today I invested something authentic with one intention.

Breaking the Chains

The short passages written in “Breaking the Yolk, Turning You Around” shares real testimonials about where we were and where we are now.

The President of America Barack Obama made an interesting observation in a statement which said “how can we expect a black child to understand macroeconomics if all he has ever witnessed is his mom being beaten” and have daddy run away to another state. Only to avoid what should not be a fear of to pay or a father and son relationship.

And I’m not implying every black man avoids his responsibility because that would leave out all men of any nationality that chose or chooses to walk away, over taking accountability, of raising their sons responsibly. So why is the black child “condemned” because of situations inflicted on his life and “targeted by “interest” because of his birth right? A question no one has ever answered to without losing their cool. Why because “internal hate” does not evaporate.       

The concept of logical thinking is crucial right here in the USA where all children of color learn, live, laugh and play. So how can a black child be cast out of society but labeled with a “failure identity” and judged for his infirmities, blocked of a fair opportunity to obtain “economic accessibility” beyond systematic gadgets set in place to limit his black mobility.

It’s strange how people in this new day and age continue to focus on black poverty, the single black mother, the 1.5 million missing black men in America. With no accountability for the synchronized transition to intentionally penetrate one state of mind in the black race. Which is a “controlled state” a frame of mind that will determine how they will maneuver and progress throughout time.   

If this does not apply to you still consider there are many ways that still remain to sustain.

To a child of color pull up your pants, deal with the issues of your heart, love your black self before bearing the burden of anyone else, respect your black woman and children, pick up a book and read, flip the hustle into an investment plan and prove to yourself your “stronger and better” than a screwed up situation. Regardless if you’re the born black product of a premarital or marital relationship you were destined to a life of “reform” and leadership. One reason why "chains have been broken from your lives” now comprehend why and how your Black History is the contributed makeup of American History.   

 

 

 

 

 

CANCER IN WOMEN

Cancer is a topic to be approached on a positive note with clear understanding of its cause and effect due to an “Abnormal Mammogram or Pap Test”.

Cancer does not discriminate. It can occur at any age but with early detection lives can be saved. So what are some of the risk if you miss detecting it by ignoring the warning signs your body will not hide?

Rest my youngest beloved cousin, Jameisha '2024', you have endured this race.

 “Cancer is a disease in which cells in the body grow out of control. Cancer is always named for the part of the body where it starts, even if it spreads to other body parts”. http://www.cdc.gov/cancer

There are several types but the most common are rarely identified. Why, because of the fear of what is growing inside.

Breast Cancer stages is usually expressed as a number on a scale of 0 through IV — with stage 0 describing non-invasive cancers that remain within their original location and stage IV describing invasive cancers that have spread outside the breast to other parts of the body.

HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection (STI). HPV is a different virus than HIV(http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics) and HSV(http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm) (herpes). HPV is so common that nearly all sexually active men and women get it at some point in their lives. There are many different types of HPV. Some types can cause health problems including genital warts and cancers. But there are vaccines that can stop these health problems from happening.

But the good news is detecting any type of CANCER does not mean it’s the end of your life. No matter if you’re a young girl, young lady or woman. Less stress, lifestyle change and a Diagnosis of the warning signs simply means you took the accountability of understanding the importance of “Loving your Body”.

To my youngest SISTER sometimes we may view things differently in this life. But remember I will forever STAND, RUN AND FIGHT wherever and whenever you need me in this LIFE.

Our inspiration is because of the women in our lives who chose to “FIGHT AGAINST CANCER” with PASSION and THE STRONG WILL TO SURVIVE!

 

Goodmorning

Legal guardians, who love and take the responsibility of sheltering, clothing, feeding and providing security. To a child, young adult or children the following topic is detrimental to humanity but needs to be addressed accordingly with an open mind and maturity. So please understand the real issues at hand:

A parent should never have to bury a child unless they are terminally sick; not due to disobedience or homicidal evidence

A parent should never fear their children; and accommodate them with being their friend.

A parent should know where there teenage or young adult children roam; and age has no relevance when they act and show signs of; immaturity, sneakiness and failure to report in.  

A parent should know their children’s friend at any age; just in case they are caught up in a situation where friends can’t benefit them.

A parent should never be disrespected in their own home; but remember respect is earned not given back if the parents are demonstrating questionable acts.

A parent can be heart broken and broken down; only if they allow their grown or children to run interference in their lives by creating situations to eat up their minds and money over time.

A parent is not entitled to spoil their kids at any age; but once you decide emotionally to give your kids what they have not earned; do expect some disappointment that will test your patience in that parent and child relationship.

Parents ungratefulness is not acceptable if you run your household.

Parents “MARRIAGE” and having babies is a beautiful thing. But so is being on the same sheet of music which means two people traveling in the same direction, committed to one another at the same time, growing with the same intension to accomplish one goal “building a life” side by side. But what we fail to accept and realize is that People will change over time.

No WOMAN, CHILD OR MAN should possess enough power to selfishly take advantage of someone else who loves them enough to ensure the choices they make; won’t cost them a life filled with ‘HEARTAHCE”.

Good Morning it’s time to wake up.

 

 

 

BREAST MILK

Once a seed is released into a woman’s womb progression takes place and within those 9 months a life is born. And if we apply logic to development the measurements of human life can only progresses in stages over time.                

Reference Jeremiah 1:5

One day a male species will implant a seed into a woman species womb and within trimesters this seed will progressively grow until there is no more space in the mother’s womb to grow. Which is when conception will take its course and life with be revealed from inside of growing in moms hive.  Is when the developmental pattern begins never to return into moms womb again.  

A newborn has his or her first taste of life once they realize there is light and lay upon a mother’s breast to be fed which reciprocates the rest of what will happen next in the early stages of child development. Eventually this newborn grows into an infant stumbling to take his or her first steps with less or no desire of the feedings from mommy’s breast. Next is the adolescent stage of  puberty and figuring out what independency is all about. Is when this child will begin to recognize their fullest potential of using their "hands, feet,  mouth, ears and eyes. And the last stage is "ADULT" years. So what is the possibility that medicine can reverse the maturity of child birth? None, and the reason why is woman and man were created with time to replenish the earth with new life.
 
And just incase any child, woman or man feel as if you can go against mother nature's plan with your own GROWN UP PLAN "THINK AGAIN" because growth progresses at a rapid pace once you're conceived from mommy's space. 


Growing Up Can Be a Pain but if you're so grown; why not leave the breast milk alone.

 

 

Folk Tales

Today I took account of my own environment before referencing global differences. Immediately one topic caught my eye  religious beliefs which was “Christianity is not a religion it’s a life style” so what can also be associated with Government, Corporations, Brotherhood, Gangs, Ministry, Music and Private “Associations” in which we blend our “Attitudes” with societies mood.

People interact throughout the world everyday with the “free will” of “Attitude” identifying ourselves through what we know of “FOLK TALES” and if you’re not candid, careful and knowledgeable about your association within any type of “people organization” trust that “Temptation” will lead your soul under “another’s control”. And strength and weaknesses will be bargain with.    

Communication through media has a sophisticated way of keeping the world informed of what is or has yet to come, Government was formed with people in mind throughout the duration of time, Religion is an extension of peoples personal belief and church is a building they meet to congregate in sharing their faith, Corporations monitor product and demand by consumption, Brotherhood is a bonded relationship identified with a symbol that bares secrets, Gangs are organized with people who seek refuge from their own lives, The Music Industry has created years of beats and some people have experienced a dark side where the “arch angel hides” and the Private Associations is a formation of relationships bonded in society that symbolizes humanity; where people depend on other people to manage or survive in this Folk Tale life.     


The title Folk Tales identifies with the truth that lies somewhere in between Associations, Attitudes & Identities.
  

Bottom Line

I wear a smile regardless of what is weighing me down. I chose to pray for wisdom when people thought that they had gained by playing mind games. I chose to laugh over being sad. I chose to be responsible regardless of who decided to walk away. I chose my peace in the midst of life's adversity. I chose to respect my time not what people desire to waste of it. I chose to understand how a situation affects every party involved. I chose to have an open mind over being blind. I chose to love over hate. I chose to change where people stayed the same and found someone else to entertain. I chose to give advice & respect the decision making of my friends, family and any strangers I meet regardless if we don't agree. I chose when to walk away from so called friends who showed one face and acted another way. I choose to be faithful when times get tough. I choose to share my gifts wisely now and seek nothing in return. I choose to cordially voice my opinion instead of keeping SILENT.

I choose my own happiness over what some people chose not to respect in me on this journey which is my "Love & Peace".

 

The greatest lesson I learned was to be more responsible for myself before seeking accountability  from someone else.

 

 

The Bottom line is what do you choose to "LIVE"?

HUMANISM

Humanism was written based on overall characteristics demonstrated in the “privacy of our own homes and modern day society” as people collectively or individually air their individual personalities of strengths and weaknesses.

The truth of the matter is every person was born with a special gift. The only difference is how people choose to utilize it; whether compulsively, naturally, sparingly and or grudgedly. And you don’t have to be an expert in phycology or sociology to have an open mind of acknowledging how we choose to either accept, deny or ‘Meditate and Think” about the wise, good or bad choices we make. So no one can proclaim that “God did not create the choice of free will in this life” because people will always FIND A WAY TO JUSTIFY their own “REASONING IN DOING GOOD OR BAD IN THIS LIFE”.  

And if you’re burdened down by minor set-backs, heartaches, a broken relationship, lack of money or simply having a bad day from toggling with the struggles of life; seek some inner peace to restrain from dealing with “HUMANITY” and its self-inflicted adversity.

Why, because we as people will continue to seek peacefully or invite other people in our lives to help us accommodate what we will or not change in the choices we make.
 

A stranger approached me today in a “free will space” to ask; is it my imagination that people are grumpy and mad. I slightly smiled and said it’s because of their heavy luggage. The gentleman slightly grinned with curiosity and asked what did I mean by that;  I responded to say "I carry the weight of JOB of other people’s problems and broken promises on my shoulders every day" simply because I chose to carry dead weight. And the man smile to say "I think I understand how you manage to laugh everyday" it's because of people who choose to walk around and never empty their luggage out.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Power & Electricity

Energy introduces the graph that fluctuates and in return the consumers are obligated to pay electric providers for negotiated rates according to the terms and conditions, regulated in your state. Where a module has been created with the prospective configurations and future plans intended to ripple effect down to the consumer’s hand. That began once energy was purchased then priced by carrying companies, calculated and then based on a head count and usage per day in each family. Of what consumers attest of "inflated energy distress".

So for those consumers who are unaware of the terms Power providers and Electricity carriers it’s time to read the billing statement you receive before paying rates that will continue to inflate of the following fees; Energy cost, Delivery Charge, Taxes, Late fees, disconnection fees and more fees.

Is there a possibility “consumers are footing the bill” as others seek an alternative resolution to conserve our earth's natural resources beginning with “energy” a necessity for the entire world "to see'.  While the government is offering some assistance to purchase products  of “solar energy” which has not finalized the theory of what the world will actually need “to see, survive and eat" accompanied  with  water, oil and meat. Earths final call to us all, where people are finally starting to realize, that “time is not on our side”.


Small talk will gather people to draw conclusions. Opportunity will invite investors into the light. Innovators will create paths. And utilizing  informative information will guide you to “www.POWER TO CHOOSE.com” or simply tap into http://www.puc.texas.gov/. Where the remainder of you should initiate option 2 “search engine your demographics” to investigate who is climbing and installing the pole lines. And why it contributes to the increase of your bottom line utilities.
    

LOST

There is a sinner who would like to believe, there is a non believer who takes pride in his or her ways, there is a saved individual who reads to understand. And either of these choose to worship with God or Man. On their journey of lies verses the truth and how we seek in finding the difference of the two; will stretch us in different ways, of having some or no faith. So when the mind takes control and the heart strays in a different direction from what you seek of the truth or a lie. Just remember God is not a creator of confusion but allows us to demonstrate our good, holy or questionable ways. Every single day is when I decide not to cease in prayer, or give up on faith, but instead for my sins "I pray desperately" that God would hear a sinners prayer everywhere.     
As I exit angellit1.blogspot.com "Life's Diary I, The Burdens of A Heavy Heart" and enter into angellit2 "Life's Diary II,  Breaking The Yolk". Read to identify how the stories relate to you and I. In a different space, same time as we direct the soldiers we breed to survive not die; through our generation of bloodlines.