Real Talk

Real Talk is about humanity and identifying with individual truths; in our choices, actions and what we choose and with whom. And before Angel L began this blog I took many life notes and lessons from people all over the world. That was destined to change this world. So therefore we as a people of all cultures can see our real life stories. So I'll start with me

I am not perfect. I have made a few good choices and many mistakes stemming from my stubborn ways. Until I learned perfection is what someone thinks theirs  is. So I am timeless in all of my beauty; I am my own poetry in motion. I am pillar of strength but weak when I choose to be.  I am a gift to the recipient who has earned his or her reward. I am voice in silent words. I am mind that refuses not to think. I am soul of laughter, submission and critical thinking. I have not always been right but not afraid to be critiqued.   I make up one body in how you see me. But the reality of what God intended me to be. I am confident within my own space. I am the timekeeper of my priorities. I am the gate keeper over who has been assigned to me. I continue in being a caregiver but at times I have nothing left to give, but my understanding and patience to listen.  I am the hunter where I’m the prey.  I once robbed Peter to pay Paul, until I figured out what systems were implemented to shut some people down. I am known for being a peace maker in situations; where people would normally continue confrontations. I have been judged for being opinionated by people who refuse to spill the real deal. I don’t claim to know everything. But I do not hide the facts of what I can see of “BS”. I’m no longer seeking the interest of new friends. Why, because it was hell trying to separate from the people that caused me grief in my past life.   

I am called a Workaholic, guilty of being a Good Samaritan, seen as being lonely because of a lack of interest in hunting down a relationship, but viewed as a person of high interest. Which really means; I’m not the person people would like me to be.  

I hear people say “he or she, thinks they are better than me”, and to be honest that may hold some truth. But you don’t have the time to invest into what other people are going through. So one day I was challenged because I showed lack of interest. In what has been going on for centuries “people seeking for attention”. And it’s not because I do not have compassion. It's because for half of my life I have fed into the world. And for the remainder of my life I am a person of interest who has learned their role and position.  

Real talk I am shy but to some extreme. I am a motivator who sales encouragement. I am known to be talkative, and overly compassionate. But not everyone will appreciate my branded and groomed space. So I don’t cater to people according to status, categories or request. I speak and treat people like they deserve to be treated.

aNGEl l-assumption is assuming what you do not really know   

One Day

I saw a quote the other day. And it set my mind at ease. It read "If you're missing me it's not because I walked, away. It's because you let me go".

There were moments in my life when I selfishly thought God could have provided me with better provision and remove more than a few of selfish people from my life. In order for me to have changed the choices I made at that time until one day my heart and mind re-positioned in line. So I humbly decreased more of myself. In order to accept the struggles God placed ahead of me to only strengthen me.

One day through my trials and anxiety God revealed to me my purpose and destiny. And on that day I began to write from personal places of my and real people's lives. Why, to share the pain and joy we cause one another in this life. Then maybe one day when you choose to examine God for yourself and assume your relationship is rock solid. Keep in mind your past and present behavior has not been overlooked just because you ask for some forgiveness.  Never be disappointed about certain emotions that and repetitious cycles that will arise in your life. Where you have managed to move forward from past decisions with someone else that you can now share the better person of whom you have become to yourself. And what I mean is until we get it right "inside" people in life will move around to their next. But God clearly see's through all of our intentions, motives & choices. So that we can alter ourselves with internal change and who it will occur with; is where God has more of a sole purpose. 

The Sermon

As I complete the finishing touches to my Angel L. rough drafts. I wanted to share one last sermon. Now this sermon may not be accommodating if you like a safe space because not all people are interested in sermons that reflect human activity. 

I found out something about myself over the years. When I realized how I became what some people say “you’re a smart ass” in the way you say things. But let’s not judge so quickly, until you process all the information accurately. In how people project and act. But they are not always happy with the response that is reciprocated back. Now this is how the sermon began:

Have you ever been called a “smart ass” or maybe someone has said “he or she thinks they know it all” are how about “that person is always in somebody else’s business”. Funny isn’t it? How we spend the majority of our lives searching for answers in people that judge our lives.

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See some people are mindful and clueless at the same. I have no doubt I myself had to figure me out. Some people are mindful of what they say and do; regardless if it’s hurts you. But society labels this action as being real.  Some people coerce there words to prompt your actions; only to make it all about their narcissistic personality in testing your vulnerability. Some people look for advice but you may not answer them right. Some people like to be heard and it does not always require your initiation to fix their situation. Some people need you to say what is on your mind; because they don’t a have lot of time. Until they need you on their side. Some people have experienced similar situations and cannot process listening to recycled information.  Some people hint to ask for help; but may not like the way you assist in accommodating what they are exhausted with. Some people like to air their private business because they want you to indulge an extra interest. Some people will act as if they have a physical or love interest in you; just to get out of you what they can’t get their mates to do and if you watch how people are quick to judge your “smart ass”. It’s only because you see through the “BS” their serving you.  So what are the chances that a smart ass exists in every one of the following sermons-messages, regardless of who delivers it?

The Associate who only shares with you information they want you to know. And that is how far that association goes.

The boyfriend and girlfriend or the domestic partners who have established certain arrangements in their relationships; but adding third parties does not always work in dysfunction. And someone in humanity is living this life silently.

The Boss, Team and Hierarchy who always expect for workers to operate on their timely emotions; and if anyone was to do some thorough research it would be delightful to know who is really productive in their work. Not shifting stacks of papers and emails placed in draft.   

The Friendships that last or demise over time; all because you were not catering to what everyone desired something out of you; so think twice before compromising yourself to satisfy people’s fantasies that change out of the blue.

The Lawyer and Judge who makes the final distinction based on your character; but everyone else is the smart ass, except the person who may or may have not initiated the choices.

The News reporter who people love and hate; but how and where do they find the stories they write?  

The Preacher who delivers the message of salvation; but does every tone carried out over the congregation receive an "amen or disarrange facial expression"? When referencing our human good or naughty behavior.

The Slave owner who impoverished many innocent lives then one day in history people continued to fight one another; over whom was wrong or right.

The Spouse and The Mistress or the Transgender lover; but nobody questions the actions while everything is unseen but happening.  

The Family member with addiction or always making crazy choices to get attention; but nobody is positively talking about how they can help them out.

The Credit Collector who calls up to 9 pm; and challenges you to make a payment for what your financial choices.  

The Stranger who is watching your every mood, but nobody’s talking about what kind of attention some of us are drawing people into.

The adviser in whom you shared all your problems with; and believe it or not some of the information is hard to process, of self- inflicted madness.  

The negotiator hired to find a balance in a disagreement. Between two parties who continue in resuming an argument. Simply because, it just makes sense to not have proper communication.

The people in humanity that for ages prolong the fight over religion, voting and equal rights see that they are exhausted with themselves overtime Instead of standing in line.   

Shouldn’t attendance at the next voting pole be more conducive in our lives in figuring out who is really humble about turning this system around?

I will assume humanity has identified with where this passage left our past straight back into our future. So if any human is called a “smart ass” take this from me as a lesson learned; always be prepared to be critiqued, judged and blamed for taking some responsibility in how you translate to humanity.

-Angel L “silence or speak out loud”

Love, Marriage & Children

One day a man observed this woman and admired her characteristics and beauty. One day this woman saw this man and admired his strength and desired to worship him. And here is where the story begins, but it never ends:

One day a man decided to no longer feed his appetite of pleasuring many women at one time. So he placed away his artillery and began a new journey. One day this woman decided she required more from this man so therefore she placed a pad lock on her Pandora ’s Box, and immediately reprimanded some requirements & expectations of him. Then eventually this man began to understand the summons made by this woman. In order for him to have what he wanted from her. There would be a compromise on his behalf, of giving into her requirements.

One day man and woman found themselves in a situation where they were both in love with the idea of creating a family. In which they both agreed and established with loyalty. But deep down inside someone knew a piece of their past was unfinished business. So now listen and pay closer attention to the following message:

Men and woman were born with desires. But not all desires are revealed. Because different people tend to bring out of you “what it is you feel”. So when you decide to select your mate or mates monitor them over time to see what has changed. In men and women who take for granted the smaller things. That once made them both happy. And I know most of you are thinking they both made a vow. But this gets a little deeper than wedding vows. We’re discussing individual desires that people act out, but struggle to figure themselves out. So I’ll share a real story that took place from the beginning of time and it should alert most of us to re-evaluate our morals, values and trust.   

One day it happened again “man and woman’s greatest temptation” appeared in her beauty and his color and strength. And I’m not saying every desire is contemptuously fed. What I’m saying is that every temptation that is buried is not always dead. And this is how Love, Desire, Marriage with Children got complicated: 

Have you ever felt on an urge to escape then returned with some or no regrets, because your deepest temptation was finally met. Have you ever had a ravishing fever through the night and only one prescription would make the entire body feel just right. Have you had an infatuation and daydreamed about being without someone. And then later realized it was only your imagination. Have you ever anticipated sharing all of your fantasies with a person that understands your physical needs with no limitations, but yet you will never commit to this person a real relationship? And without religion and loyalty in any relationship people are destined to take a shift. Because of what they want verses what they solely believe: when it involves marriage and vows, husband, mistress and wife with children in our lives.

A married man or woman do not make promises to third parties they can keep. So what is it they seek? And plead with God "don't let her are him leave me"? A man or woman seeking to be in a committed relationship; sometime will settle to avoid being lonely, but fall short in obtaining what they really need. Men and woman who choose sex over relationships seem to be running away from their own change; and will always find an easy fix so they can remain in being the same. And sometimes people are alone by choice, to avoid the drama in their own life. So when a man and woman choose to being together whether it is related to circumstances or with children. We should respect one another. But the reality is that it seems to be a challenge in humanity. Where we struggle to find a balance in what we do, say and believe.

-Angel L

Forever loving myself  

Lottery Winner

Have you ever wondered how winning the lottery would change your life. And what new plains would you initiate to take by surprise? Have you ever wondered how being rich is based on what some people assume your richness is? But the problem is some people lack the intelligence and patience in understanding your sacrifices and hardships. But most importantly have you ever wondered why people have more than one set of eyes on your information. Advertised by demographics based on the average salary. Or maybe your criminal background, public liens or credit history under the law that hinders to protect our privacy and watches clearly to what is happening. So when your lucky numbers hit or it’s just by faith your time is here. Who will be the next level of a threat. And by no means would I insinuate to not take a chance in life on being inspired and reaching higher. What I’m saying is; legally and individually always pre-arrange your family ahead. Because there are familiar people out there with “simple minded thinking" who will return back to your familiar place, and steal your gifts and fortunes away.

   

The media advertised a young lottery winner who wore a proud smile. The news just aired another person who made stardom. The newspaper just dropped another bomb. Another call has been placed for the next candidate to win this years presidential race. And humanity is back on-line; hacking and purchasing people’s private information for a few nickels and dimes. But let’s return to the story at hand.

This lottery winner was interrupted one night. When 3 mask men kicked in his door and threatened his life. As the young man begged and handed over anything of value he had, but there was still no cash. So where did the gunmen get this inaccurate information. And if these intruders would have had better information, they would have known not everyone is stowing cash in their homes. So this young man lost his life and there is unjustifiable reasoning to why. Just the reality that this young man had more sense too stow away; his treasures from where thieves would come and rob them.

One day a performer received a call. To fly out and interview for the chance of a lifetime “performing live” in the presence of mixed companies. A million of this product was sold but not enough for this performer to hold.

One day at business school a young man came up with a development plan. But someone took this students idea and made a profit.  See winning the lottery is not just about the money. The money is just what people want from other people who took a chance of a lifetime to win.

I’m not rich or poor. I am wealthy and wise to what is in my mind and before my eyes. So therefore I have nothing a thief can tangibly take. Because the reality is in this life; there are people who are takers and people who sacrifice.But when it comes to money people show their true sides in the blink of an eye. Because they never found their own fortunes in this life..  

Angel l signing off until the next drop

-A songtress once quoted this message “Aint nothing coming easily in this life. Sometimes you gotta work, you gotta grow and it gotta hurt..

Ghetto Nations

When did it begin. And who initiated it "Turn up, don't turn down". But if you were summon to a real war. The majority will lay down and figure out the rules have changed therefore mercy is not a possibility in this game of dealing with, insanity.

There is a different class of people. Young and old across the globe. And get the facts accurate; everything exist in all societies of the have and have nots. Depending on what people decided they need of an urgency if not a desperate basic need. So continue to assume that you are not affiliated to circumstances. Because of your non association directly with a gang organization. And I'm not limiting my words to pacify how someone feels in this day and new time. Because history did not change. It was the ages and faces with credible street and billboard names, who turned up the once respected, game.

And with all do respect it's not hard to do the math. In figuring out where this new generation is headed before time is out. See greed & hate did not change internally. It just refocused to navigate the thinking on the weak.

See one day I realized how my life had to change. My family and friends did not see me the same. Society  adjusted to operate on que. Computers are raising our children. Math formulas are navigating our currency. The news  is obscure depending on your views. Leaders are dealing with prophecy and some people in every culture or transitioning towards change. But resistance will hinder their fight. So no matter if you are a revolutionist, organizer or presenter on what you believe in. You're always going to be held accountable for your loyalty and commitment. And once your demeanor and attitude sways into this formulation of combined thinking of people on one page. You will be initiated in one day. But remember you will answer for your actions if you remove your loyalty and commitments, from this initiated understanding.

Then one day our children will turn up or turn down what is planted of information into their heads. Unaware of the investments, initiations and associations the adults have made, or how some engaged. Until life changes drastically with increased hate, fatalities and out of the blue catastrophes. But the game never changed. It was simply a breach of human loyalty.

Scientifically no man in the entire universe can promise people. That what we put in place today with money; will work in the future to accommodate all races of humanity,

Angel L. signing off of her rough drafts

Shot Gun

Today was a good day for Friday the 13th. I woke  up in my right state of mind. I was physically able to dress myself and chat with my family. Before beginning my day.

Everyday there is always a new story that has already been lived, but not written from a different perspective, and for ages some writers wrote lighter versions to encourage wars, life, laughter and hope. So yesterday I decided to take the long way home instead of doing the norm. Parked at the movie theater bought a ticket and watched; this writer bring to light what has not been only one theory. But reality in a story line since the beginning of time. Of Manmade creations solely intended to always work within human profit and temptations. So Money will always Matter in evey nation.

One day you will be in a vital position with only time to make 1 important decision. And in that moment the people whom you thought were going to save the world financially would only change strategically. And suddenly bring your soul to shame. If not be the blame of the choices to be made. Now be mindful of who is now the threat because you did not settle for what was not in your "best interest".

So instead of aiming or settling for 1 million to possess some things of human interest in this life. Why not have what is priceless. And I'll tell you why; it will never place limits on whom or what you can buy or neither will it lose face value overtime.

-Angel L signing off until the page of life, is written in real time.

Sex in A Child's World

This passage might be viewed as graphic. Please pardon the beginning of my salutation. I’m speaking to runways, the recipient of a trick, drug users, pill poppers and partners demonstrating unprotected, random and shared sex. I’m speaking with the adults and minors that are involved in one night stands, and promiscuous sexual encounters. Where age requirements and disease carriers little or no liability. Please listen closely.  

The reality is located in our private homes and societies where decisions and choices are being made raising concerns. About if we could have better informed our young people about sex, to avoid this next generation of pregnancies and disease, suicide and child deaths. And before anyone takes a small step and stiffed neck this happens around the globe every second of the day where a new born child is born. Into another young or adult mothers arms. And somewhere there is a possibility of dysfunction that exist involving innocence. And if the situation is not monitored by concerned engagement where people have the nerve to say "mind your own business" these children will most likely end up in grave situations. 

Hell, I understand the condition of a colored male and female, but no one talks about the reasoning to why certain things are only talked about. I understand how a culture clash is a reference to how people live in good or bad conditions. And if you have not figured out the ongoing pattern by now, continue to watch the situation grow in all cultures around the world. I can relate to feeling labeled and left behind in this world. And we have to deal with our young and older people. Who feel under pressure to perform their grown obligation, and when relationships fail to progress and dysfunction progress there is destined to be real problems. But if these types of relationships take a latter turn after the baby or babies are born; someone’s expectations did not get met so now the drama starts all over again

A child is born every second of the day to a mother ranging from 11 years old to adult age. There is a single parent woman or man who struggles to financially support their kids. And yes, I do understand there are some special situations where there is a parent who is deceased are unhealthy mentally, there are parents both struggling with an addiction if not imprisoned. There are some that are world restricted or just not time attentive. And of course there are those parents who take the child support or trust money for granted. But let’s focus on the female anatomy and what happens once a male releases his sperm and the falopian tube is disturbed. There is a 99% possibility around her ovulation date of reproducing a baby. So why is this information necessary because some of us act as if we don’t understand human anatomy, in this rapid reproductive world of babies whom continuously search for both their biological mom and dad, see how promises and those “I love you” and sex, without at least commitment. Don’t always establish long term relationships. So when a male and this female have no further interest than outside of the bed. There is another who will feel lost and damaged.

I hear females say “I’m not going to receive any assistance from him’ so what is the use in trying. And with all due respect did you not know that before the sex.

I hear males say she was a good girl. But I’m not ready to get tied down. With all due respect you should have made better choices and not with the head in between your legs.

In this entire universe any human being is capable or can choose to spread their legs. And pleasure a boy or man, girl or woman. And any human being can make promises that are meant to be for-filled if not broken, even when the words “I love you” are more than often used. And of course a young girl or woman will say “he should have not promised or said; he loves me.  Or maybe some young boy or man will say I did not tell her to open up her legs. And it’s sad to see there have been several opportunities to reprogram the incorrect way of thinking. Because being naïve at the age of making responsibilities; enables the people who continue in thinking this is not always a dam shame but a mind game. I like to play which prompt some extended families to deal with unnecessary stress if not child endangerment.

The point was always relevant over generations.  But yet the same cycle resumes between men and women, boys and girls; of no answers to why "I cannot contact you. But not every unanswered call is a sign that person does not care for his or her child. And no the biological parents are not always promised to remain together. There will be  new relationships established if not blended families.  And expect deranged emotions to start until this person deals with what is in his or her heart. But first people must stop servicing with what is between his or her legs without a commitment, responsibility of obligations, and a resolution referencing the survival and stable home for these kids that feel the burdens of being abandoned. 

Then suddenly out of blue. Over the arguing and fighting we could hear a trembling cry saying "I want my mom or daddy", which should bring tears into our grown ass lives. But some people refuse to communicate in making situations right.  So it becomes about them in this short time frame we have in this life.

Angel L-rough drafts. Now look ahead, for what's ahead. 

Sandwich Generation "game changer"

In this passage there are no charts, get rich offers, investment plan options, Wall Street gargle and Global reports. In this passage it is for all of humanity. That requires more attention and lesser ego when it comes to harvesting your individual monies. And who is waiting to accept the interest out of it.  

I’m well aware there are two classes of people in the world. And most us would like to believe we’re doing better than the rest of the world. As long as we can manage to keep up with; what is attached to our “Benjamin’s”. But not every human being has paid close attention to certain types of investors. The conservatives, moderate and high risk. And those who seek outsourced information from insider observations.

Today pick your class of shares. And in plain English it means for people to “pay closer attention” in financially and burial planning of your investments. Because making money is not complex, it’s trying to find a consistent resource out of it. So when a creditor extends you a line of credit pay closer to the fine print. Before you proceed in exhausting it on 30 years of mortgages and vacation homes, 5 to 7 years of higher car interest rates, leases on items that are only utilized when the sky’s or not blue. Or maybe you’re working to keep up with all your investments verses incoming revenue. Then every time a family member, children or friend calls with the same financial request. You will not hesitate to ask if the both of you could make the time to sit and chat regarding where you are placing this cash but never seeing a return.

This is serious in a generation where the average person does not have enough cash to survive a crisis. But some average rich person will invest more in their child’s troubled choices.  

In a single family household it’s complicated to get ahead. The pay is averaged if not less to keep up with rising inflation. And yes, there will always be sacrifices ahead regardless if you’re rich or poor. Because not everyone is willing to make a sacrifice in having lesser than more in this life. So the statistics may have a point in the reasoning to why they say children make up the worlds poverty in this life. And for every second of the day another child is born into a world where people either plan financially. Or not complete a high school or college degree. And what 's even more troubling people remain unmarried. 

Young adults continue in enjoying your life. But remember responsibilities will force you to pay the price. And one day when mommy and daddy are not around you will be misguided in your investments. By people who will not seek your best interest.  

The sandwich generation is the game changer. A mixture  breed of young and old. Where one generation lacks the interest of taking financial responsibility leaving others to accountability. So why have we not figured out how to live under one roof but instead we unload our responsibilities on others of financial securities. And know this message may never apply to you. But check down the line and figure out who is connect to whom. And rationing out or making space to accommodate all of the choices people continue to make whether it's emotionally and or financially.

Money did not make the choices in our right or wrongs. Humanity invested in “things” and “people” who would continue our legacy of financial stability or instability.   

  

I have lived a life of many struggles. I get it "time will make us accept that our children will outgrow our laps". I have seen the troubles brought into existence by humanities, choices. I have seen rewards at the same time I have witnessed it being taken for granted in life. I know hard work and still lack in provision due to assisting other people in their financial choices. I have experienced access and I've had it taken back. I have been challenged in knowledge but not taken for granted, because I sought out answers.  

We live in this sandwich generation and for most of us; we don’t realize how it has already affected us in every culture. Therefore "segregation" is no longer limited to just color. It's broader focus is seeing the “haves” or “have not” segregated into a net to catch people up in. Who do not wish to seek more of education.   

RAW

Originally I intended this passage to be about the woman and her treasured worth. So instead I’ll collaborate on more than one life topic while I place a spotlight on some of this woman’s characteristics, but before I continue with no pun intended to our transgender men and women. I will resume today in speaking to humanity about the woman who has consumed years of tears & fears, broken and abandonment, domestic abuse & incest performed by her own sex, then next a man's forced penetration. Only to be later attacked with humiliation for fighting back. This woman is a leader and strong therefore she can on stand on her own. But preferably she desires to not be alone right now in humanity that has changed all the rules where “double standards” no longer exist in male and female opposites. Why, due to the choices humanity has made so our laws changed to accommodate certain request but not in areas where there has been generations of suppression.

To all of humanism who possesses breathe and transitioning among men and women. Where on one hand were confused about our differences; equality, race, sex and of course religion. And we're quick to swear well be fine all by ourselves, but not until all men and women figure out that quick and easy is not always the way out. And yes it does matter if she slept with a friend. But why do you continue in asking for a threesome. Loneliness will drive a sane man or woman to the edge. Separation will wedge generations while waiting around for one another to figure it out; why is it so hard and long for better days to come.

In a rare situation some people are unfamiliar with; what and who is causing the conflict. In an ordinary affair people are well aware of; the tension that other people keep stirring up in the air. And by now some of my readers have figured out what these Angel L. passages have been all about. As others observing remain in doubt about someone else or themselves. And what the hell or whom is this writing about. See how being lost and bruised in the same places leaves you RAW for life, allowing temptations to rule our lives. 

A young adult ask me what “Humanism is I responded with it is real people and how we live here on earth together as men and women, created from one pattern. Giving into one another through submission, taking one another for granted or enabling each other in our dispositions. And by no way am I implying that all people are lost but some have found out; what is actually occurring live, right now. Which is humanity acting as if they don't care, people roaming around in space if not grasping for fresh air.

There are women who do love hard with all due respect. There are women who will put their hearts at stake for certain types of men; seeking all direction and shelter from a follower who has no ambition in this life. So often it comes down to thinking all women are miserable without a man, or in this new day another woman on her side or in her bed. We should probably think again. It’s because of her heartaches and disappointments that does not make a woman or girl weak. In actuality there are people in all ages of this life who are dealing with some type of low esteem, abandonment and vulnerability. So when a male of any age decides to co-mingle with a female of any age in any type of relationship, there will be always choices made and consequences to deal with. Why, because people are the cause and effect in one another’s positive or negative relationship. So don’t always assume a raw womb is the result of a physical relationship. What's occurring right now gets deeper than that. It is how people of all colors mentally interact and communicate with little or no respect. 

Men and boys of all cultures around the world. When it comes to a female she is not hard to understand in any type of relationship. All she wants is to feel safe and protected just like you want to feel appreciated, and encouraged. So once you the man is willingly to open up your hands; this woman can finally fall back, knowing you have her all of her best interest. 

Merry-Go-Round

To all my ladies and gents, let's chill and chat. It has come to a full circle that women and girls continue to seek more understanding from boys to men. So before we all begin let’s clear out attitudes and remove the egos. In order for a woman to follow this man’s lead; she and he must have their own sense “of being, if not some direction”.

I spoke with several classes of men. And finally I walked away with a better understanding of why some men prefer options, while others are making choices.  

A man has options in what he wants and only takes whatever you’re willing to give. But a man and boy will work for what is not easy to have. A man needs to be heard and not assessed. A boy seeks direction. A man needs to know that you have concrete requirements. A boy likes to experiment. A man does not require two leaders in the household. A boy needs “role models”. A man needs women to know that an ambitious man has it under, if not full control. A boy requires more time to learn, what he has yet to experience.

A man requires a partner and you may not always be on the same page. A boy requires compassion but be aware if mommie and daddy were not in the picture. Some men love to know they own or have a woman who can stand in. Some boys lack respect so you may not get it. Some men automatically assume all women are desperate and vulnerable when love is involved, and some men become too comfortable and arrogant with what is in between they’re legs. A boy will relate to what is brought to his attention; not what is never mentioned. And this is where the Merry-Goes-Round.

You can be with a man for years, live as domestic partners but never marry, while years will pass bye and the escalation of expectations will rise. Because of what has been an agreement for a period of time; an establishment which is open for options.  

A man will never make drastic or changes overnight. Men do hide their emotions inside. And there is a few who are most likely to reveal them to you. Boys and men take notes from the first approach of how a woman or girl carries her-self. And what will this woman allow to be compromised of herself.

Men do love from their hearts when it comes to performing domestics. Now pay attention too if you’re being a mother to those kids, executing domestics on que and an over-time lover in between everything. With the exception of a certain class of women who replace the sex for what they lack until this man can no longer stand it. And young girls please do not take this type of woman's approach because a boy needs more time to appreciate you down the line.

Committed men are more focused. They are seeking attributes that are similar to motherly roots. So remember we all have a weakness. And sometimes temptations are destined to make real and false accusations. 

You will never know all of a man’s truth. Unless he feels there is a grave necessity in telling you. So young girls and ladies think about it again; what it is you need to share and what are your expectations of having this man. Now process the fact; that some boys and men are capable of fulfilling what is between your trembling legs. But not all boys and men are capable of delivering emotional and spiritual connections outside of the bed, simply because men are wired different than women. And packaged with different expectations.