Roles

We were not created to perform 1 task. We were carefully molded to perform multiple roles in this life.

A man was not created to just perform one role. This man has a multitude of titles to fufill. 

As a father is the hero & role model. He is the provider and protector. This man of the house ensures it bears good fruit & bread. In order that his his family continues in being fed. 

The man is a best friend to his spouse and children, first. And to his mother he is her first love. Because dad is both their Knight and shining armor. 

The mothers roles requires different hats; as well as skillz. And often some Queens must be reminded of the heavy load they tend to carry all by themselves; Can be shared with that King who never hesitates to offer his Time and Hands just to be in her presence.

The children even contribute a significant role, they are the glue that bonds the entirety of a family; to love in unity. 

See we did not choose our family. Because God knew the plans for our lives not to just turn us up side down; but to turn us right side up. 

And in the event your life encountered a different story; maybe its time to unpack that old baggage & renew your mind. To fill back up a new bag with a new perspective. 

Black History Month

We honor our Black History for life. And in the month of February for 28 Days American History shares the stories of the first famous black; leaders, poets, actors & actresses, trail blazers, educators, innovators and pioneers. That graciously superseded in their successes beyond the years of tyranny, social injustices, hardships & oppressions. 

The Black History of these ancestors; open doors that were not meant to be opened for generations. Contested unconstitutional favoritism against them. And for our generations it was because of our ancestors sacrifices & gracious talented works. Black History remains the makeup of our African Kings & Queens who continue in their footprints to leave our legacies; that breathe throughout this American History.

We honor: 

Emmitt Till; his life was cut short; taken and beaten severely in the midnight hours. For being a young black man at the right place in the presence of hate in black history. In memory of all our black boys & girls; who impacted every area of our struggle.

 "In memory of Dominique White Jul. 1991-Jan.15, 2020" the day they plotted on your body; was the date they also recorded your story in History. For your legacy & the world would one day read.

MLK; for allowing our voices to be heard as those dogs were headed our way. If a man has not found something he is willing to die for; he is not fit to live. 

Madam C. J. Walker; first self made millionaire. A boss of elegance and style. Walker represented by exposing natural & pure black beauty through America History. 

Rosa Parks; allowing us to take a seat at the front; no longer the back of that bus. To allow our black people to rest their worn feet that labored throughout Black History.  

WEB Dubois; teaches us knowledge is a lethal weapon.

Sarah Baartman; sold as a young girl around the world. Her story is unique it was her voluptuous beauty that gain the attention; of those who betrayed her in vanity. Then sold her beauty in a jar; in a museum for viewing around the world.

Malcom X; his courage, and quest to challenge himself. And not fear the challenges he would soon be forced to face. By standing in the mist of betrayal, adversity and silent fights to end; a vision he shared with the fearful for life. 

Mandela; I hear you been looking for me. And even if you confine my body behind these jail bars. My mind remains free; of the chains set in place to bound me & my black people.

Harriet; broke the chains around our mental thinking in Black History. And ran for her life to return back in slavery to set us free; to breathe in American History.

Angela Davis; I refuse to allow you to drag my body through the streets of  our bloody history. And even if you imprison my King. I will continue to speak as a free Black Queen. 

TIME

During this pandemic has really been a setback in more than 1 area of our lives. Its seems like  everything & time is out of whack. But still we must remember to smile & laugh. 

Before March the 16, 2020 our lives were filled with; joy, trials contentment, and more plans. Until life interrupted us without a single warning. 

Again another lesson has been learned. Pay closer attention to continue in planning for tomorrow. As if we were going to be around for that 2 to 5 year plan. And just incase some strange circumstances occur; be prepared for what life is about to expose of the time we no longer have. Of being our best friend are greatest enemy here on earth.

An analogy does not always have to be presented in a long winded sentence. Sometimes its the reality in life that relates back to the analogy. 

One day we said to one another goodnight; the next morning our entire world changed. 

Yesterday our plans were sought out; and today those plans required an adjustment.

The Domino Affect

Whether you, us or them is the player, watcher are opponent; remember the game in any house is either stacked are spread out. With rules attached to abide by. It's up to us, we or them to respect the plays that are about to be made. And it does not matter who gets eliminated in the games being played. The games will still continue as of yesterday, and today. And in the event tomorrow is promised by God, another hand will be dealt and played; once again.

I signed my son up for chess. The purpose for it; was to ensure he was thinking. Not so much as what was around him. But first focus on the player against him. 

In life if we do not seek knowledge for ourselves with more depth of understanding; it will be provided to us in an unnatural course. If not rationed in portions. There is no such thing "you can think to much", unless it benefits someone or something else.   

On this journey you will gain & loose. Now what is the value in it; that is determined by you. Not every fight deserves acknowledgement, not every immature act deserves any attention. And not every human being is entitled to your time. However, we should respect one another in our presentations to avoid negative energy. Where our feet will stumble over rocks & stones, and our hands will rise-up if not calmly fold. 

We have reached a heightened point in this Covid-19 pandemic, to figure out what is affective or non-productive; as we bunch up together on a tight journey seeking unity where there is a spreading of division. And until we realize how People will always notice the change in our Attitude towards them. But they will never notice it's their Behaviors that made us Change. In the mist of life's current circumstances. You, us or them did not see coming  

Love & Hugs to my gc. Follow my footprints. 

Money

We were created for a purpose. And pressure was stitched in the plan, if it were not so how are we still standing in the midst of circumstances.

The pressure will break some. Where the endurance will show up in many. We must determine for ourselves if this pressure we are under this moment is a part of lifes process; are is the pressure many if not a few created and placed on themselves.

 It was not meant we endure sorrows for all seasons. And for the love of money is the root of all sources of evils. 

It is not fair we labor by the sweat of our brows; and for man to steal & kill for what he or she has not labored, sacrificed or harvested for. 

It was not meant for food to be created as we eat with arrogant minds; to share with our brothers & sisters left over crumbs..

It was this world created by 1 for all; to grow up in, and multiply our families. While nurturing the land to continue in resourcing our basic needs for human supplies. In order that all people may be equal to survive.

It is unhuman to be enslaved to another human being. It is not natural children are being raised in misguidance on purpose. If not used for pervertedness and financial channels to establish a vanity lifestyle. With no plan to manage it.

It is sad we love are choose how we treat one another; when its comes to this bag of money. Some will beg, borrow and lend. Others will work, sacrifice and invest. While those who will over-spend, gamble and plot. In the name of more or some. If not I want your money; as well. 

If these few things exist in the world of households we live in today; how can money be the issue in those hands of those minds that use the money for selfish pleasures & sinful intentions.

The reality is no matter how hard we work for it; our needs & wants will supercede the math.

The reality is no matter who we are; enough money will never be enough. And no matter who has labored or inherited this money. Its the behaviors and idea intentions we either use against one another, to help each other or just take over whatever. Even to the place of  stealing just to end up; cursing ourselves.

The reality is; with or without money. Change will challenge us to survive or live. The situations are going to happen; ready or not. The trials we are facing today will occur in every household of race. Therefore our attitudes will be adjusted to change. Or else the reality is this, the plan we are awaiting to be redirected in for this generation is going to cost us more to find out a peace of mind is priceless. Where we could of just changed & matured in our knowledge with time. And realigned with the life we dreamed of luxury; for the day it would cost all a bigger price tag.

In memory of Dominique  White, 1991-Jan.15.2020            In order to help one another, we must be in a transition of change to save ourselves; first. 

Relationship Status

In our youth we were advised; to finish high school, attend college or the military. And approaching our twenties we were encouraged to take a trade or start our own business. Why, college is not neant for everybody..

As young women we were mentored or directed in our lives by inspiring people around us. Some mentors advised to not bare children until we are married. Some mentors advised us to obtain our own wealth if not find a good career or established man. Some mentors advised us to make long term investments. Some mentors left behind family wealth that we had or no knowledge of how to manage. While some of our guidance was misdirected and down the line our children grew up in the dysfunctional environment.  Mistaking love & affection for physical altercations and negative verbal communication.

As young men some were taught by the mentors to use their hands in laboring. Some mentors taught to watch the stock market, Some mentors taught to use your skillz to establish a community business, or obtain access to a fortune 500 company. More than enough mentors warned young men to think with your top head, first. The second head will cause you a life of situations. Some mentors saw the future and advised whatever journey you take, establish yourself before making a female your wife. And before you make children are obligate yourself to another mans children in his absence who chooses selected visitations. Prepare to accept not all females are wife material. Therefore if you are not prepared to take on a responsibility of another person that hides the truth regarding their situation. There is a possibility someone is going to be disappointed. Because time was lost on a good intention because of the lack of honesty and effective communication. 

Looking for a mate, partner, husband or wife; until we learn ourselves how can we commit to making promises to someone else? And in doing so who says we cant get it right. Whether you are chosen or not. As a people we must figure out; what is required of growth & change in ourselves. In a life & on social media everyone is seeking to be loved if not accepted for who they are. While placing high expectations on someone else to change. So many hearts young & old are hurting. When time allowed us both to heal if not witness the red flags of issues. 

We are not obligated to one another for our wants & desires. However making a commitment is determined by what we as an individual has searched of in ourselves. To be willing to make of a sacrifice for another in an investment with someone else. And no, not every sacrifice will be appreciated. 

The reality of a promise is this; promises can be broken. We all need room to grow as a people. Where we can make one another happy. But in reality it is impossible to say we will not make more than 1 bad choice or 2 mistakes. Sometimes we waste time in knowing the truth. Regarding how much we allow ourselves, to either settle for one another, attempt to fix of the internal brokenness because of the fear & time it is required of in healing. Are we either try to make-up for; in what we or someone else is missing in our lives of peace  & joy.

Eviction Moratorium

The eviction Moratorium is expected to last until the end of March; thus far 10millions of consumers are affected with rents & late fees, foreclosures and mortgages. So the quesion is crucially being sought of what happens after March. Once the algorithms flow; is no longer working at the leverage for generations it performed.

So the question is the government solving; we, us & them of the peoples real problems? If truth be accepted today over a lie or blinded denial; no one has a real answer above or below in any community around the globe. However plans are underway if not extension dates and pardons to buy more time. Around an algorithm that has finally shifted from being leveraged; throughout generations.

Throughout my blogs; the stories and passages are mature in language written on a platform of people speaking on  topics discussed. That will either impact or improve our life choices. Regardless of race, status and ages in the  interpretation of our collaboration. Of what next is going to happen. Unless we figure out our purpose, perspective and next of plans. Before the forseen forces our hands to move around. In areas we  are not if prepared to be acclimated in; while waiting to be told which way to move or go. 

We challenge ourselves in questioning knowledge & wisdom; by destroying its physical existence. And then we wander & wonder why; common sense is dissolving in the midst around us. In this life every move played, has not been a well thought out plan. When Life has been our greatest mentor the entire time. It has been taken for granted. By a few if not many; by humanity in behaviors  has proven for every cause there is an affect. Now how prepared are we to take a course of action; in the event both vaccination distributions slow- down. In a world of peace makers, disobedience & arrogance. As another surge is slowly onboarding.

The anxiety rises to reopen establishments during a time that is not allowing the process or 2nd doses to catch up. To cure all, and restore life back as we knew of it; to normal. 

Ghost Writer-Dominique White, my son shared an idea. The same steps were his body was shot. He said one day I will purchase this apartment building. Rebuild these splintered doors and bloddy steps & restore a home for  many who seek change. I said to my child; never share your dreams with even a few average minded thinkers around you. And no matter where your feet land. Its what u shared of your plans & vision to grow; a garden that only needed water.

Sunday

If you rose up out of bed it is a blessing; we, you are them are still amongst the living. "Amen".

If you got the same bills due from last week. "In the name of Jesus, "I am debt free", for there are those in the book of "Haggai" with holes in their pockets.

If that spouse stayed out late if not returned home, or he or she woke up in the same house. "Amen God is still in the deliverance business".

If you are able to use the components of your body and mind to; text, click on social media and follow if not post during this jobless time and volumes of emotional loss. "In the name of Jesus give me understanding in the time I've been granted. To contemplate on my purpose & a new life perspective". For the days are shorter as time is moving forward.

If that grown child is struggling with drugs, prostitution & alcoholism rich or poor in spirit. "In the name of Jesus, these chain are breaking loose, now release my child that is covered with the blood". And lead me to you incase I now need direction from you lord.

If you are feeling to low too pray; keep watch of the company you keep while going through the transitions of life. "In the name of Jesus I don't know every name, I am not perfect and I have made some mistakes. But I know a God more powerful than man. And I can pray along with others; for our amazing grace & mercy. To heal the hearts, bodies, minds, souls and hands to turn back to  Matthews beautitudes. We weap for our love ones that have perished by the Covid-19, suicide, natural causes and Homicides commented out of arrogance"In the name of Jesus healing & vegeance belongs to God". Comfort us in the midnight of these long hours. Feed the hungry; of the first & not of the last, shelter the homeless, clothe the naked who suffer because they dont have a closet of selection. And then work on the minds of those who walk in lust and cover up their brokenness. Bless the small children and child who has their own. But suffer for the others in those same families who dont. Heal the parents who are following the blind. Blessed of those parents  who will reach back and show them love, interest and compassion. And restore the leaders who have sold out are lost sight of the mission of the people. Blessed are the peacemakers who suffer for your name. Dismantle the enemies plan.

Watch over every corner of this earth. This morning the smallest of children are being sold for sin; as some of these mothers, fathers and even families are mentally at peace. If not dealing with their own internal demons.

If your church doors are chained, locked or maybe God is not in your heart. And even if you are not a believer or strayed away from God. Remember in those times you needed God to understand your struggles & circumstances. It was Gods second chances that you are still here. While Satan sits and waits to see whom or road you will choose; to take.

Ghost Writer-Dominique White 1991-Jan. 15, 2020 8:10am.

Gods word "if my people will humble themselves; then I will heal the land", of what humanity has seen that no man can.

Grandchildren II

Good morning to All; grandchildren around the world. Including my own..

We know the pandemic is causing weird behavior. Because we all are looking like aliens. But rest assure you will soon enough; return back into our arms. And maybe some grandparents are ok with the  separation or others not. Its depends on the circumstances just keep praying & working. God knew the reasoning in why people change over-time.

Most than often life happens and people break; in a shift that takes place in the atmosphere. Where relationships grow apart for little petty reasons and childesh communucations in all the adults. And more than often  children are extracted from the love of those willing  grandparents who have been with them since the day they arrived outside of that mothers womb; and a father who still is or the man who accepted the responsibilities.

And what I mean is this; parents make up two people who cohabitated to makeup the bloodline of their children. And in the event the family is blended; there is the makeup of two sides or multiple lines of blood grandparents. But when life happens people get mean & spiteful over selfish issues. The children are wounded only because of the grandparents who chose to be in their lives are now struggling to deal with unhealthy issues of a multitude with people who decided to get involved.

Again; Grandparents rights by law is an option to form an effective alternative of establishing continuation of the children's relationship with their bloodline of grandparents. And for each circumstances is different if you are seeking the guardianship. Just ensure the intention is right. For the interest of these grand children or child. And  the motive is not to gain money for an independent lifestyle on ether either side. Real Love cannot be falsified by intervention of  occupying these children in time with random family members. Or presented with stories of holes around the footprints over time. This is not a competion. These are lives that will be impacted based on our unity & channels of effective communications.

For the record life did not come with a manual it was meant that we learn from one another. And our mistakes if not reckless choices in our behaviors. And for better understanding where in the bible were we promised in humanity there will be no  hardships. And if it takes a village to raise our children then why are they being harbored from the truth of those who always; will ensure to never miss an opportunity to be in their lives are receive a call. Where there are text, curse words and voicemails? Because they maybe tiny today, or to young to tell you their hurts & broken feelings. But tomorrow it will be the pain these children will show you in rebellious ways. For their heartache that has aged.

A grandparents love is priceless; for those adults who have come to reasoning by dealing with the personal issues. And for those grandparents who had to accept change is required on both sides. Life & time only allows us to be "once an adult and twice a child" so when do the children get a chance to breathe & have a peace of mind? But if you missed out on an opportunity to teach, share and love on these grandbabies there is a chance you will leave this world with some or no regrets. And not every grandparent is going to pay for another who chose to stay away.

Why is this a true statement; allow us to uncover the process of life where the pains reflects who is bringing it upon themselves; for some people cannot conceive children who would be loving parents, some people resent their own children  because they were seeking love; before knowing it in themselves. And others wanted this family they could not have in their own personal lives. Or some people are selfish enough to pick & choose who I will love for you. If not realizing the reason why grandparents who fight for these grandchildren had choices to make; for what they see in the absence of a parent or the unnecessary struggles an entire family will deny of their own truth. Over a generation of lies. As those adults who remain comfortable as those babies lack in the knowledge to know & be loved by their other people. That are fighting for them.

Arguments & belittling will not accomplish healing. Communication & work will create a solid foundation. In the end these kids will know & feel they were loved; by all their people who did not give up.

Tongue

The power is in the tongue. Whatever is spoken from it immediately opens up the ears that stimulates the  information into the brain. As the hands quiver to write every word that has been spoken throughout life. Of how our feet trampled from end to end of the earth. And if you had not taken a moment to reflect on your thoughts; enlighten yourself and allow your pallets to rest. While the eyes focus on allowing the eye lids to slowly lower the blinds; from the sun rays or the night lights.    

The writings on this blog, are unique in style. Every word that has been written; has also been spoken from the human tongue. And although we all may not speak different languages or comprehend at the same level of understandings; our existence captures our life stories. On a platform where the world is watching. 

We were all Authors born at birth. How so, it was our life we shared by entering in this world. A life history of how we live or lived. It is in the stories we read if not discuss; regarding our successes & tribulation amongst each other. And not all of those stories will or have turned into a book; or advertised for the world to acknowledge it. However, its our "footprints" we leave in this life. That will speak on stories of every chapter we enter into or leave behind.       

In Memory of the day you were born. In Honor of the days you are continuing to live in. And power in  the tongue for the Author who will share your story in the end.

Our stories will not be far from the same; who has not in humanity lived a life knowing; joy, sacrifice and love exist? Without traveling on a journey of; famine, heartache & pain?

Ghost Writer: Dominique White, 1991-2020

Life Motivation

The seasons are going to change and so is humanity. Our bodies and minds over the years will progress in a transition. Because the mucles & brain is communicating how we have used them over the years of our life spans. And because fear is a factor & humanities greatest enemy; its time to face a transition that will prepare the nature of who we are; internally & externally in appreciating the value in what "our appearances" have become. To continue our positive changes to teaching the next generation of whom we are parenting, mentoring & teaching; to take the Paton to lead on. 

If you are not occupying your mind with positive time; read or enjoy a puzzle. Or take a walk to allow the blood flow. As that Vitamin D is restored. But if your physically unable to move about. Someone unselfishly place a call to check up or in with your people, person or friend. 

Yesterday we had more than enough of time on our hand, for generations we put ourself intentions; first. And every weekday we shove the children out the doors to rush them back into the school doors. As we drove deliriously down the freeways to arrive if not; make payroll checks. Until time stepped in and called to our attention. Today you will be busy with life but not at the multitude you all were runnung through it. 

Today, we will learn to accept change. And in that change we will either grow or be lead in different directions with unclear clarity in storms of; lack, unemployment, welfare, illness, closed doors or out of business, product & demand shortages. And Privileges that still remain an arguement of who has access of what has been created of walls to blind the people from seeing The Sun is out. But until you think & act in the realm of behaviors that are positive; you will fit into the negative. No matter what race you are; or  status humanity has staged of a bar. 

If it was not for the truth in human history; we would always find reasoning in lies.  To justify if not validate the politics; around why, who and what outcome of the postive vs. negative will just take more time to deliver a word carried around "previledges" that was created to unequally balance out the change for them. See why the negative has to exist.  Someone was intensely looking for a "word" to identify us, those or them. Of generational lines of the curse to have life for we continue to deny segregating them by the Have & Have nots.

And reality is this; we as a people did not harvest on the same land. But neither was the land stolen & given back without a high cost to the splintered hands that labored on it.. are neither over history were we all heirs, socially respected, highly educated, and economically advanced if not impacted; it was the lack in using common sense in preparing for a generation of set back. So in the event we're continuing in wasting more time to allocate judgement for the next generation to come. Father Time has clapped back 8 proven to humanity we will grow, progress and process patience.