Chatter Box

In life I have "learned through life experience"s" with certain people; to have a limited conversation.

First, reason is this everyone has their own individual perception. if not human intentions. And more than often it's prior to every conversation, that people hold in frustration. Are caveat prior to relate the information.  What stands in between reality is 1 opportunity; to speak out loud. To whom they cannot handle. Are wait face to face; to hear who is talking are silently listening.

Second, reason is because of hidden expectations to answer back to the staged perception. In what some people have already calculated up. what they pick and choose not to hear. But prepared to say. In making a point; or pointless in the types of attempts made.

Third, reasoning is often people don't want  to comprehend to what they should of; but not listened to begin with. In knowing acknowledging is showing accountability. In or what what they initially did.

I admit at times being a chatter box; but what I have learned with People is ; boundaries & limitations. To gear from the unexpected irrational behaviors. If not those spontaneous human reactions. 

In what one or the other person, did or not intend to do. But remain blindsided in what I just said or did to you. To justify Confrontational & Defensive actions. These are two words often used in  Conversations & in Corporate America. But what's not on record as being advocated. Of high level caveat. Is how and when do we as human beings; avoid one or the another. With class or just respect. Of not entertaining each other's; jealousy, envy or straight out story tellings.

Nations

Tell the truth; about why our boys in any race can possibly grow-up to be angry men.

Tell the truth; about what we have, or been not told as little girls once hurt by them. How to unfollow them.

Then allow ourselves to be accountable; for the truth of what we were taught, and act as is we do, or choose not to know.

Anger stems from a traumatic occurrence  in all races of life, which brews overtime.  Hindering our focus, hearts and minds. And then we ask; what is wrong with this generation.

Self confidence; is what has been inbedded in our thinking.

Peace of mind; is a freewill to posses. So why is it that people live as if someone else has a hand on it?

Speed Bumps

Life is filled with speed bumps. And just when you think you have crossed the last one; there awaits more speed bumps.

The moral of this passage is we heard of the journey's taken in this life, some decided to rise above the confusion, while others accepted defeat. To accept settling and live in a state of silent misery.

But in the end, judgment still awaits to address those speed bumps of all people who decided; to either avoid or cross over in this life.

Real Power & Knowledge is possessed in the hands & minds of those who controls of it in him or herself.


A lot will say, it's all about me. Many will believe only what they can hold & see. A masses shall fear what has not revealed to them. And the remainder will fight to not sell out of their own preservation to keep a  peace of mind.

Breaking Cycles: Listen

Breaking Cycles: Listen: My mother text me one night; listen to what your children have to say. Even listen to the little things. So one day when they have bigger t...

Listen

My mother text me one night; listen to what your children have to say. Even listen to the little things. So one day when they have bigger things to share; the trust is there.

I text back to my mother; thank you mom, but our children must never forget there was an age they never knew text existed. And some mothers were always around to listen to their children even when their words were not clear beyond just making sounds.

What is a possibility is this; our children will always be our babies at any age. And when life forces them to make real time choices hopefully our children will turn to us in those moments.

One thing about life is this; on any day, at any moment life it will happen. The question is how prepared are we to face it?  

Hate Crimes

How do we measure the value of another person's life? Is also the same measure we should use to place value on ourselves. And just incase we are not aware of what that measure is; then what is the real issue within one's self to describe the hate in which is inflicted on someone else?

Life is precious. And the next time you consider taking someone else's life think twice about how someone who made a choice; so that you with without hate may have a chance to live a life.

Tomorrow is not promised, but today allows us all the time; to plan for tomorrow filled with precious lives.

Cycles of Life

Seeking a savior. Or is it that we often run from our own truth of a past if not our present lives that we allegedly assume; not every human behavior act is out of context. But yet we are quick to judge one another, without judging ourselves first. And being humored if not affected by the behavior that causes real stress.

If a male or female randomly sends you a sexual pic. Then later text "did you like that? Simply respond back "I would like to see  if you can use your brains" a small price to pay at the end of the day.

If sex is the new trend in making fast money, or expressing our inhibitions for attention, Then what is the inhuman act; that is allegedly being persecuted when reported as a violation to human beings from country to country. A reminder to all races the plantation continues in every generations.

This is not a gain, there are no winners  in a world filled with pain because of the greed that is invested in broken human beings.  

Do not boast about tomorrow, for we are not sure what this day may bring.

Angel L.

Motivation Tuesday

Whether or not we admit to it; everyone of us living requires support and motivation.

• Motivation: requires our commitment. 
• Motivation: moves in us a sense of strength. 
• Motivation: is how far do we envision ourselves to our next level.
• Motivation: is not limited to a list of requirements.
• Motivation however is what you and I invest in of our individual time; to the advancement of a new level of potential to perform. Which determines what we seek of the final outcome.
• Circumstances can only delay us; Self Motivation elevates US!

Fly in My Tea

There is no allotted time to fly around and plan for oneday to correct things in our life.

In today’s world of compromise we as peeople only allow ourselves time; to keep reviving our past before allowing ourselves to move forward. Depending on the seasons we believe of in ourselves, of whether are not time is allowing us to keep buzzing around.  

Living in a world of compromise, is challenging. Settling into compromise is not living. So today I addressed the past therefore in my life I can move forward and live in the future. If it’s in God’s not man’s will.  

I heard voices say I need to make that money. I said you keep on running behind this money that has no legs or hands. So what or who is keeping you running for what you have yet to catch up with?

I heard voices whisper conspiracies against one another, or someone else. I walked past these voices and said. Why are you so busy creating animosity for some else  with your time? Is life not busy enough to get your own life on track. In a world were perfection does not exist.

I use to struggle with balance and work life.  And the reason why is this; we were always told this is “better than that”, or taught to have something you have to take it, pay more for it, or be better than them. And if we had just taken more time to explore in ourselves, we probably could have sooner than later figured out; in the baggage we ourselves carry around. Of what we keep of picking up of more than laying down; just to not only hope to see a return. But actually land into a peaceful space & settle down.

Advice is good to process, listening is great for more understanding. Perspective can be seen in a broader vision of looking at things. And being a follower does not always mean you have lost your way; just make sure the lead you are following, leads you to a mature level of your own thinking space.

A friend told me you can compromise who you are for any person or thing; but do not ever forget you will only be the person you are; in the color of your own skin.

While drinking a cup of tea with LEMON, I notice how the lemon was breaking down in the black tea, I was drinking. And out of the blue a FLY came buzzing and landed into the TEA as I was drinking. And what I saw was this. It did not take long to see and figure out this flying buzzing sound. That landed inside my cup of tea. Was a fly  that followed a lemon scent. But this fly never flew out again. Maybe we could learn a valuable lesson from this fly. Who buzzed around out of nowhere. Unlike the CRABS in a barrel. We could  better find a safer place to spread our wings. Then fly away, again.

Daycare

Son’s It is easy to find a female; who will tell you yes; it is harder to find a woman who will tell you no.

Son’s the day you realize what the word “no means” will be the day you grow-up into a man.  

One day a female will birth a child or not. And she will eventually figure out herself. Why,

Daughters one day you will meet a boy and he will earn your trust, until you both figure out that time revolves around both of you to grow-up.

In today’s society we assume once a certain age is reached or we experience a life changing moment we are all grown-up. Until we prove to ourselves, or even one another; we need more time to grow-up in places we continue to act out and think as a small child.

No matter who says they respect the truth, each other or themselves. The truth is we are not mature enough; to handle of what the truth requires from us.

It’s time we all grow-up, no more excuses. Life is not a daycare.

ROSES

Valentine day has arrived. Let’s place the high expectations aside to be genuine. And it is fine if everyone is not with someone. Move on to who is available. In sharing a moment through these days and times of which no one has control of; Recovering on tomorrow, that is coming with or without us.

“KISSES & HUGS” in a Time we miss sharing them!