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Today we will discuss baby momma a title some that does not define all females. Whether young or old we possess freewill in making choices and decisions.

And figuring out human promises is made to be broken. Expectations are overrated. Boys need space and time to mature into men. Females need time to figure out love is an action word. Therefore, men need mental space for themselves; to learn how to communicate, what factor in of their commitment and how to demonstrate an action of showing accountability of what they will make an invested amount of time in to stay or walk away. Children are a blessing. But for every female and male that consecrates it is not a confirmation God’s plan is not wrapped around whether we act in our own intentions.

Therefore every person is not promised to. Why, all people in any relationship are tested in the fire.   And some of us stumble with a glass of water. Marriage is commitment with or without kids. And In relationships people are working in the relationship it to figure out themselves, first. Why, well let’s apply logic to fantasy; how can I find happiness in someone else. If I have yet to define in myself; children add to our lives. Its ups to us to figure out our life.   

And just because our mothers and fathers married or not; we will never know what parents discuss behind closed doors. Marriage requires maturity, trust and work. Because no one can promise I can fix you, if I am broken.

And just because we cohabitate in relationships; signs of dysfunctional behavior exists; such as arguing and harboring the kids from the other parent who is committed vs. the blood parent who responds after “text & voicemails”, then we must ask ourselves a question how can we place expectation on anyone else. So now the perception in aligned let’s dive in to a mental space where we can clean up our own mental and emotional baggage.  

Skeletons exist for a reason. God did not create perfect people; God created a people with a purpose.

Biological Parents: A paternal child is shared between the biological blood parents.

A Baby grows in stages: this baby is innocent, and vulnerable throughout the stages of his or her life. One day this baby will recognize; their hands, tiny feet, eyes, and ears. Throughout their course of life from age day 1 to 99, life has taught us we are born once a child and return back to the developments changes over time. Why, because we all can relate that it takes a Village to raise 1 child, but not all villages teach with the same values, morals and beliefs. Where father time is the cycle we cannot deny of the truth. About our behavior in how we choose to raise our kids. No pun intended we can attest there are times as grown female and men we revert back to our baby ways.  

Woman & Men/Boys & Girls: It’s a joy to be a mother & father if not parents together. It’s a peace of mind to have a plan prior to being a parent. So how anyone say “I regret having kids”, now each person has their own reasoning to why, some people intensely seek to be loved, in another person whose intention; is only to enjoy the pleasure.   

Females: if you are fertile. There is a chance in penetration of a sexual act; of non-contraceptive or protected if not planned. Responsibility will show neg. or positive in less than a 48hr. period if not 9 months to be delivered.

Males: If you are not prepared to sacrifice for another life. And what I mean is even if she is not a wife type. Be more honest with yourself to avoid the next step. But if you are man who is compassionate and honest with himself; safeguard your choices before expressing your values, morals and belief. Why, because again every female is not your wife. But the female is waiting want a fair fight to win your heart.  

Family unity: If a female or male inherits a family of the opposite in this relationship, marriage or heat of the moment. Thank God because not every family is invested in a fantasy family.  What I mean is this people have their intentions behind children. Listen close. When you recognize your own personal issues some people think twice about who they invite into their lives. And when you bare children they either suffer are acclimate themselves into a stable lifestyle.

I heard a story the other day; a young man said I always argue and in jail behind my baby momma. I try to do right by my kids. But this female won’t let me be. I started another relationship and this woman has kids as, well. But I see the potential in both of them. As a young I don’t get how a female struggle with a man who will. And wait around for a man who takes his time.

I heard families say. The young lady took the children away. And it was not because we did not try to do right by the children. It was the baggage our family refused to not carry; of another person not in the bloodline of this family. Now we love our people but when children are involved what is the intense need to leverage the children for. Where a family who will step up; are denied for not being interested in the invited guest who carried old baggage.

I heard a child say; I’m not happy not because I don’t love my parents, mother or father. It’s because one or other cannot get their life in order. And I’m not too small to understand how I feel. I’m too small to understand why they keep making the kids; carry the load of their adult baggage. .

If our parents did not teach of everything at one time, if we can still say I was not taught, or did not know, then it’s time for our village to figure out; what the old baggage is about.

The title Baby Momma was created. But females you don’t have to wear the name validate your choice to be a mother. When a man or boy values who you are; it will not matter where you are (mentally or physically). 

I would like to pay respect to all the woman and young girls, boys and men for enriching our lives with the life of a child or children. But in 2020 we are on stuck on repeat of the history in our families. one day a child will grow up; and wonder how and why did I end up carrying so much of my parent’s old baggage.

If this does not apply to your situation; then step outside and look around some parents and villages remain lost; look in the eyes of a child who is carrying all of his or her peoples mental baggage.

 

SIN

For disobedience in pleasuring the flesh; and consecration without God’s matrimonial permissions it is written during the time of man to rule over woman. And for every woman for every thrust great sorrow will multiply during conception; to bring forth children (a blessing). To replenish the earth once there is no more laughter in SIN.   

Ravage

Peace is optional. Struggles are temporary. Life is the body guard that holds our vessels in place. And Death is the exit door that allows us to eternal peace; after our journey of triumph and defeat.

The Soul of A Man

Identify & Surrender to his body language.

Listen in Silence to his communication.

Respect his Accomplishments and Support his Ambition.

Standby his fears by showing him; we can both conquer our fears together.  

So when time calls; one of us will be prepared for the final test. And the other will rise on tomorrow; to grow our seed until we meet again

Blink of An Eye

Anything is possible in the Blink of An Eye. So be prepared to Lead or to be Mislead.


The devices are in place, and what I mean is this. If you thought you had a plan. If you thought you were ahead. If you thought you found isolation and are being singled out. Its time to regroup, process

And,

Enjoy the fruits of your labor in this life.
Enjoy the family you treasure more than riches another person will plan to rob.
Enjoy your freedom in the state we are presently living in.
Enjoy the idea we as a people possess; of freewill.
Enjoy the opportunity to express your religious beliefs.
Enjoy a moment you can still find a quite place to marinate in peace.


Tomorrow is filled with many opportunities. Because today is slowly ending. Therefore remember to enjoy all of the above.

Islands

Whether you have or have not the ability to travel create a place of escape with the intentions of leaving the world behind for a moment in treasuring peaceful time.  Focus on enjoying the labor of your harvest and not on what tomorrow could bring, grasp this moment and focus on more fruitful things. Hug your love ones as tight as you can, eventually they will be torn from your hands. Enjoy the airway while it is still free soon the TSA will be unable to control the air space due to calamity coming its way.

Take long walks around the parks. Enjoy a bike ride with your spouse and kids. Thank god everyday for the educators who are enforcing the fight to end education growth is purely spite. Invest in a passport while there is time eventually everyone will be restricted to their own side. Consume healthy food you would have never tried, eventually it will be destroyed by pesticides. Don’t allow the financial torture to destroy your life, people your more precious than trying to contend with the worldly price. So why wait to plan another day, instead allow the sunshine to brush against your beautiful face. Eventually darkness will consume this entire place.

The news has advertised another claim of attack on Brussels. Although this is a huge concern please listen to what is said from whom you can't hear. It's seems there is war throughout the land. So still travel abroad and safely with travel.gov. Watch the crowds and movement in whatever state or country you are in. And just continue to enjoy the pleasures of life, while we still can. 

In Honor of the family's; who have suffered a great loss in 2021.

Panic Mania

The people have received another wake up call. Another virus is spreading around the world. So the people panic in fear; of what may, or not be clear is near.

                                    Time is what we never had; if we've continued in wasting it. 

I lost my only child. To a man who did not respect the time he had. Unfortunately neither of us can rewind it back, again. And why is this significant. 

Until we learn to have more compassion in this life; many people will parish over-time. Under pressures that are real. Where a lie, cannot hide the truth we challenge inside.  

A wise son once said "mom live, live! Don't worry about what people "say or do". Just because we don't all take the same path's, it does not mean we will not meet up again.


In the end every person gets a turn, to challenge time. 

In memory of my son, and all who cherish Time....

2020

Reality is this; communication will change the world in how we live.

Reality is this; the truth will no longer be quite.

Reality is this; secrets will be revealed that no man or woman can hide.

Reality is this; nations will rise and seek peace; after the war concludes in more death and generations of misery.

Reality is this; lack creates poverty. And greed & arrogance creates more negativity, wrath and confusion.

Reality is anger & aggression stems from; social rejection, abandonment and separations.

Reality is war is inevitable; where peace is not respected and people are left alone.

Reality is a paycheck or financial investments will not resolve; debt in any color of race in generations.

Reality is; divorces will continue until accountability & communication is implemented.

Reality is children will follow ONLINE for answers they seek, but cannot find in a generation that refuses to change their ways, hate and payback attitudes of what should of, could of, but did not happen. Because of what someone could of, and should have done. But no one chose to turn the pages and write NEW ONES.


In we our own this Blog Page it is only because of grace and mercy that collectively made it to see this new day in; 2020.  

Child Safety

In every race of people, is there really a "titled class of people? Or did we as people decided to separate ourselves, from dealing with the own issues in ourselves. And if so then why can't we find a solid answer to "one question" in every racial dispute.

1. What did we learn" in our truth from our generations; to pass on to the next generation of what we did and how did we really lived to survive people and life that changes in real times.


There are three areas of seeds I have sewn into the children I love. The 3 things that only you can control.

1. Your choices.
2. Your self forgiveness
3. Your own directions. 

Therefore when life happens, and people change. Ask yourself "what 3 things can I control about myself", that every people may have or not taken the time to cure within themselves? 

Chatter Box

In life I have "learned through life experience"s" with certain people; to have a limited conversation.

First, reason is this everyone has their own individual perception. if not human intentions. And more than often it's prior to every conversation, that people hold in frustration. Are caveat prior to relate the information.  What stands in between reality is 1 opportunity; to speak out loud. To whom they cannot handle. Are wait face to face; to hear who is talking are silently listening.

Second, reason is because of hidden expectations to answer back to the staged perception. In what some people have already calculated up. what they pick and choose not to hear. But prepared to say. In making a point; or pointless in the types of attempts made.

Third, reasoning is often people don't want  to comprehend to what they should of; but not listened to begin with. In knowing acknowledging is showing accountability. In or what what they initially did.

I admit at times being a chatter box; but what I have learned with People is ; boundaries & limitations. To gear from the unexpected irrational behaviors. If not those spontaneous human reactions. 

In what one or the other person, did or not intend to do. But remain blindsided in what I just said or did to you. To justify Confrontational & Defensive actions. These are two words often used in  Conversations & in Corporate America. But what's not on record as being advocated. Of high level caveat. Is how and when do we as human beings; avoid one or the another. With class or just respect. Of not entertaining each other's; jealousy, envy or straight out story tellings.

Nations

Tell the truth; about why our boys in any race can possibly grow-up to be angry men.

Tell the truth; about what we have, or been not told as little girls once hurt by them. How to unfollow them.

Then allow ourselves to be accountable; for the truth of what we were taught, and act as is we do, or choose not to know.

Anger stems from a traumatic occurrence  in all races of life, which brews overtime.  Hindering our focus, hearts and minds. And then we ask; what is wrong with this generation.

Self confidence; is what has been inbedded in our thinking.

Peace of mind; is a freewill to posses. So why is it that people live as if someone else has a hand on it?