Friends

This morning have you received if not placed a call; to an old friend if any at all. 

The first thing we say is "what's up, what you got going if not you ready to get this money". If there is a true friend on that other end in this life. A true friend is prepared no matter the journey that is going to be taken..

Every morning at 10am. I received or placed a call to my bestfriend. And we always began with I'm in position of God's plan, just say when to push the button. Then one day the calls went unanswered and for a seconds there appeared; old, new and familiar faces talking over fast and slow  paces. But not 1 had a plan like me and my bestfriend. But what he left behind will continue in a vision. 

See true friends are hard to find, temporary friends are easy to catch up with. And old friends are always on standby watching.

Plan thoroughly, Alleviate unnecessary weight. Move in silence before u call if not pick up anytpe of call. Other than the one you know who plans is to embrace the both of your  visions. And protect the loyalty & respect in that friendship.

Ghost Writer-#28

Immigration

Opinions belong to All. However these are real lives of children. And yes, even in this country alone; American children suffer as well. Circumstances don't discriminate. However, real life situations will draw mass attention..

If there were perfect people created in the world; there would be perfection all over the world. And maybe All children would know a better life of  conditions. But unfortunately not all are conditioned to know; what our future holds across the world. 

If there were no ethic arguments; would there remain a justifiable reasoning to why is it always children that are exposed in suffering. If not established in a normal  condition of life

If countries of leaders. Were selected on the equality for all people of race, gender and creed; could we finally find peace, end the hate & poverty.  Then all manmade wars would finally cease?

These children called immigrants; divided by border lines of fence & unaddressed humanitarian needs. Human beings in the youngest of children. They walk miles parentless along stretches of danger to seek asylums to cross a line to Freedom. Where America grants immigration based on laws for entrance into this great American Country. But who can attest if roles are reversed and our great country is faced with a situation to save our own children. In a Free land where freedom is also being; challenged, debated and favorably questioned. On who if not what will be the exception in mankind.

In a world of isolated  compassion & a platform of bios & nonbios planning. It's to point fingers. If not care where u are not affected by legitimate if not opinionated reasonings for change. Therefore it's going to happen in a world we struggle to find of normalcy, peace of minds and logic. Where a massive division of debates is the reality of loss in hope if not finding; faith. 

Our visions weigh in on our leaders that will not be able to rewrite those once negotiated agreements. To begin salvaging All freedoms; and save many nation's.

China

To Americans; China's product is the biggest of worldwide consumer demands; but what happens when the respect is disrespected. And the made in China is scarce of what Americans is familiar with in continuance of bargaining, trades and consumer needs in business.

Please explain why is China feeling a certain way? 

Please explain why our business is highly dependable economically on business with China, so enormously. 

Look around the world the writing's are on every Wall; of why Communication & Respect is  on Tak-Time of higher demands.

Priorities

Priorities; no matter who you are. There should be priorities set aside if not the plans in place for our lives.

If we can work jobs; monday through sunday. How is it we fall behind in our own personal priorities?

If we can demand it out of another person; How can we justify what is not being reached in of our own prioritized expectations. According to time invested of what is taken upon ourselves..

I teach my gc & only son. Whatever you do in life put your own priorities, first.

 We are human, and its inevitable to not get off track. No matter your title are race if not associations. The reasoning to why priorities are crucial if not denied. Where our outcome will be determined in this life.

Time to wake up around the world. If the priorities are not set & in place. The goals are not going to be accomplished. So don't grow flustered if not angered aggression towards the reality; someone is prepared where you chose proscratination "in doing your own prioritizing".

In memory of my only son 2020 Dominique, #28", the choices belong to us in what we  disclipline of ourselves to Prioritize..

A Black Mother's Prayer

I pray safety over all my children tonight. Even for the mother of a child who is walking, laughing are enjoying their own families; in the eyes of wrath, hate & danger.

I pray we find peace & solid solidarity in All of mankind. But by know means; am I begging any man in race, color are creed. To change if it is not the desire to change in themselves.

I pray in a free country in 2021, we will not repeat the history of our  lenching to guns, choke holds & greed over black people from way back in 1812. There is land with crosses & unmarked graves. 

I pray greed, hate & jealously does not take out the breath of Humanity. I pray one day our own black children if not theirs my Lord; are free. From the choices that were made & taught throughout America and all Countries about this History.

One day as colored men & woman across this Globe; adults in all ages of race will change if not adjust; to a course of reconciliation if not a change to save this world.

In memory of The Days of Our lives; whom shall surrender. Where here we see minimum days of Victory; for debating the survival & life of each other.

Weight

The word comes with a heavy load. And if so who can carry the weight; alone?

In the streets; weight is used as a slang term. And who is moving it at a turnaround time.

In business; weight varies in product and demand. Of what is being carried and transported.

In peoples personal lives; weight is acknowledged as the amount of pressure 1 person or many persons take if not carry in weight. 

No matter what the scenario is; weight is an amount of pressure of aggression in mass movement if not gravity. The weight of anything will force a choice to be made. To alleviate the weight, manage the weight are move the weight to a different space. 

Whatever choices or moves needed to be made, ensure u r mentally built to carry; lesser are greater Weight.

Why, do people say the most disturbing statements when knowing the shallow moves they make. Then justify themselves in saying "you rot in hell", knowing that they are not built mentally to carry real weight?

In memory of D. White, 1991-2020. "God allowed the Weight u carried then managed in life, so one day u earned those Wings". Loved4life '#28'.

Change

If we want to start a mature conversation about change; we All must first, be serious about the change we want are not to see.

If there is always a debated heated conversation about behaviors that cause ruckus and turmoil. If not drama and deceit. How is it really logical a people in All humanity; believe. 

Dating Scene

Prov 19:21

Why is dating so complicated. When in dating people are single & looking to mingle. And for some people they seem to find a justifiable reasoning to say someone else is so demanding. 

Why is it some people wait around. For a phone call are text and always asking do you love me; just to be seen for a sec. To then resume looking for companionship. And I'm talking about in all races and age categories.

I admit as a young girl; I did foolish things, ask foolish questions, and acted out dealing with unnecessary people. Then one day the light bulb came on and I was over waiting and asking redundant rhetorical questions at the age of common sense. To figure out; what insanity is all about. 

If you are looking for love on the rebound; take more than a moment to breathe. Especially if you have children. I often advise young girls and young men; love is not guaranteed from between our legs are producing innocent kids. And married folks need time to figure who is who, where they are going, if not doing what? Especially if it's not together. I know, the truth is a harder pill to swallow. But some people even I struggle with processing; how the grass looks greener on the other side. And the side you already stand on; is slowing sinking in quick sand. Then a good man or woman will eventually come around if not stay on a solid foundation. But be patient in the meantime.. not all people desire to to work as hard; wasting time carrying another person's old baggage.

Dating is complicated. Only if the placement on expectations is on another person; without first working on the expectations some one may want out of you, as well.

Marriage is beautiful, if you're in the ring fighting together. Dating is fun if you both establish a mature understanding. And relationships is work; especially if you force the obligations without first establishing who is committed.

I s/w a male friend tonight. He ask how do you manage being single? I been to the magic show; and seen plenty of characters come & go. And if we listen for more understanding those love struggles would be limited. See we all have experienced some type of emotional chemistry. I heard a lot of things; and watched a multitude of men woman is desperate just to have companionship. I watched people promise one another "I got his are her back then snatch the children and be mistreated by another man or woman. So no I don't entertain what people want from you. And the moment you need; there is a debate over the conversations that created accountability. The truth is some people not all. No matter the status; work on themselve instead of finding somebody instantly to show them how to feel. if not love on themselves. 

I raised a man. He was not perfect, he was boy first. Before he stretched into working on himself and nothing less of a man. He knew was taught how to listen first then communicate, he knew mentally & physically how to fight. Dee knew love, compassion & how to humble himself to receive love; back. Unfortunately agape love is not equivocal to worldly love. If only more people experienced love in themselves; 1st. So many generations would deal in a broader mindset of not making each other feel emotionally obligated for their own choices; to exist in broken spirits. 

If anybody ask; who writes this. Well look around over generations. Who still asking "do you still want r need me, you don't want anytpe of relationship? Are when will u be planning on  leaving him are her with the kid's? Tell yourself; what I accept today. I may end up with nothing & and for what feels like a lifetime of searching.

I read a passage in Jeremiah 17: 9 KJV "the heart is deceitful, who can know it, it's wicked". And If we take more time to work on our hearts and ask God for wisdom in our minds.

In search of Love over generations. 

Violence

Today, another mass shooting occurred. Of the 7th mass shooting in another state of a New Year in 2021. We can scroll through the news, revisit the crime scenes; but the visibility in trust of safety is broken.

Before we began, according to the Law a mass shooting is where 3 are more victims are either murdered if not injured by gun violence.

We All suffer together as communities, schools, families, victims and survivors. And my story began On Jan 15, 2020, I visited the steps of my own child's shooting. And on that day it brought a broader perspective of what is this Gun Violence. Although our loss of love ones occurred on a different day, time and place. In a different race, color and creed. The Gun Violence continues to shatters ALL of our lives. 

No matter, the shooting. It is the intent with that gun that leaves ALL lives affected. Freedom questioned. And peace disoriented. 

In acknowledgment of and respect to all families; who grieve a tragic loss in gun violence. A time will come where every child, woman and man is protected &  respected to have a peace of mind on earth.

"www.gunviolencememorial.org"

Racist

The words draws intense; attention to others and one's self. All over the world in the youngest if not oldest of ages in real people. So how does anyone begin to figuring out what is the hate about. And if we were to be honest with ourselves; who is accountable. And in figuring out what would it even take in rationalization of common sense to find human peace in racism? 

The idea to think one's being is superior of the supernatural to feel an intense desire of hate. In being liberated to justifiably place your hands on another human w/o respect & permission. With the human intent to cause bodily harm. If not inflict on another person emotional distress. And for what? Human edification. 

What do we teach our children; about racism. Who are u suppose to hate and at the same time; love about yourself? And what do we learn collectively as the same human beings that walk, eat & breathe about ourselves. Human beings that sit idly in consumption to destroy another human being; based on the color of their skin. Are the internal issues uncured in ourselves from generations. Yet we cohabitate and judge in the air & space we all breathe.

If there is any healing in the wounds of this word Racism. Who in humanity is going to Lead us unto managing towards ammicable listening if not communicating amongst ourselves a change? And how much more time do we think Time will allow any people; of all colors in races to pause dying. By the hands of another human being who is not choosing to live w/o an intense idea of racism.

Maybe this will disfuse the tireless frustrations of mankind. If there were no people of any race; left behind.

On an average day; families, people, relationships social economics are difficult enough to finding a balance in All races of people. If we are seeking in to prioritize of our own lives. So maybe those legacies we struggle to leave behind will bare better fruit. Than the bitter taste of fruit we continue in baring of our our own undefeated struggles; we denie to ourselves of taking for granted another day & chance. To not be buried in racism. As we rationalize with 1 another to why we can't breath in this new generation. 

HPV

Human Papilloma Virus; kids can even be tested as early in age categories of 10 or 11. Check with your medical doctors. 

The more we educate ourselves. The better we are prepared to educate our children.

Being parents we are not provided with a catalog for life. Are neither is some of us prepared to answer questions we don't know exist. But resources & support organizations do exist. In all cultures of social economics. 

We are not seeking validation as woman are mothers. We are educating ourselves as parents to better guide in caring for our children.