Things that are given to people who expect things from others, is never really appreciated. And I'll enlighten you with some of the reasons why:
They don't understand not on your time, but at the convenience of mine.
They don't get the word "sacrifice", they feel as if someone owes them something in life.
They don't loose sleep at not, only because they benefit from someone else who manages to try something else.
They are resistant to attempt anything new, simply because it makes sense to wait on people like you.
They believe in the guilt trip; that no one really cares if they live or die.
They will listen to the truth but curse you if they are denied of what they have been accustomed to receive from a giver who has loving hands and an endless threshold of compassion to step in with an alternate plan.
Any person who expresses an act of kindness to another person whether big or small it is a wakeup call to respect the fact that someone else initiates the act of doing something cordially nice without thinking twice. And if we were to change what we indiscreetly over look, we may discover and appreciate how a handout is more than a transition of an object being placed in our hands. It is the gesture one person expresses to another of occupying what was never a solid plan.
