I received some calming news today. People are really getting engaged but not to the other people they entertain; temporarily. And the reasoning is simple to see; how a person can lead another by playing on their trust and vulnerability if not lust. So on this journey to finding a soulmate remember this person will either decide to make you their husband or wife. Or this person will show warning signs; hesitation and procrastination not wedding preparations.
I fell in lust one day. I learned what to share in a moment of time. I learned to respect over time "how trust and loyalty to some people, don't mean one thing" is when I took the quality time to love myself. After foolishly attempting to love everyone else. Then immediately I snatched my heart away from people who made me the example of how "love is just another word spoken everyday" until you express it genuinely.
I witnessed how people either choose young to avoid growing old, or missing out on that baby boy to hold. Or you either marry old to avoid being alone. Or people marry to make a statement. But sometimes people really do take the time to find their soulmates and live a fruitful life.
Everyday I treasure this compliment; why has your heart not been stolen yet". I chuckle and cordially say; over my entire life I made a few mistakes but God had a plan and so did I. By managing to infinitely love so many people at one time. So I was not aware when there was not enough love extended for myself. As I enjoyed loving and pampering everyone else.
A former married man shared with me everyone will not agree of this writing. I responded with this statement "when has man and woman ever equally agreed on all things". Therefore a written life experience can either be someone else's truth because man and woman or destined to decide if they are equally yolked or not in this life.
So before I say yes the first time. I will clarify; that I am destined to be someone's soulmate and not just another wife.
