Remember hearing the 1st impression it is either the best or could be the last? Which is often determined by society and the other is non judgmental attitudes. Who care less about determining whether you fit into the social scene, posses good energy or signs of negativity. My advice would be; stay prepared for everything. Because life is destined to change; where attitudes will either adjust or remain the same.
My big day came and I was prepared to deal with a few things, rationally think through challenging situations, heal from disappointments and walk away from toxic relationships to get better acquainted with myself. And properly communicate in the corporate world of foreign faces; Indonesia, Malaysia Philippines, Cairo, China, and Mexico. Were countries that would have only remained a dream. Until I discovered how to brand my contagious personality. That brings me to this theory:
We the people being of the same physical components and senses; collectively if not individually are predestined to be propositioned in this life. And the characteristics we posses will be challenged by other people who exist with their wired characteristics. And you don't need a college degree to make sense out of a statement that people will either believe, see or disagree.
Therefore never limit your self in faith. To be Slim Pickens on someone elses plate.