Tuesday, July 28, 2015

RIGHT & WRONG WAY

Today I met the man of my dreams. He wasn't perfect but the way he treated me was like a queen. And I know what some of you are thinking; you’re either going to get 80/20, 60/40 but never 100% in any relationship. But don't focus on what statistics say. Because when it's your time he or she will find you anyway and love you right not the wrong way.

This man does what I need:

HE PRAYS WTH ME.
HE ADD’S THAT EXTRA SPARK BEGINNING FROM MY HEAD DOWN TO MY HEART.

HE ADDRESSES ME WITH INTELLECTUAL CONVERSATION. HE IS APPRECIATIVE.
HE LOVES AND RESPECTS HIS FAMILY AND WOULD NOT BE WHOLE WITHOUT ME.

HE SUPPORTS MY DREAMS AND BUILDS ME UP.
HE LISTENS TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY AND DESIRES TO ENCOURAGE ME.

HE DOES NOT MIND REAL TEST IN HIS LIFE. HE KNOWS WITH LEVEL THERE WILL BE TRIALS OVER TIME.   
HE IS A MAN WHO TAKES CARE OF HIMSELF. SO WHEN HE GROWS OLD HE IS COMFORTABLE.  

HE WAS OK WITH MAKING PLANS; CHILDREN AND GRANDCHIDLREN, FAMILY AND FRIENDS.  
BUT THEN THERE IS THE WORST CASE SCENARIO; THAT SOME WOMEN DARE TO MENTION SO YOU DON’T JUDGE THEIR DISPOSITION OF WANTING TO FIND LOVE.

HE WALKED AWAY FROM WHAT HE SAID WOULD BE OUR LIFE FILLED FANTASY; A NEW HOME, CARS, CHILDREN AND GRANDCHIDLREN, FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITH THE EXCEPTION OF GOD NOT BEING APART OF OUR PLANS.  
HE SEEMED PRETTY NICE UNTIL WE HAD OUR FIRST ARGUMENT TURNED INTO FIGHT.

HE DOES NOT WORK AS HARD AS ME. INSTEAD HE TAKES FROM ME AND THE KIDS.
HE MAKES TIME FOR ME WHEN HE CAN GET AWAY. FROM THE WIFE, GIRLFRIEND, FIANCE AND KIDS.

HE NO LONGER PRAYS WITH ME. HE PREYS ON ME.
HE DOES NOT HEAR MY CRIES WHEN I’M ALONE WITHOUT HIM AT NIGHT.

HE DOES NOT ASSIST WITH OUR KIDS LIKE HE FIRST DID WHEN WE GOT MARRIED OR EITHER DATING.
HE NO LONGER LISTENS WITH COMAPSSION INSTEADS HE USES HIS HANDS TO BEAT MY FACE IN.

HE NO LONGER TELLS THE TRUTH. HE JUST DOES WHAT HE WANTS TO DO.

HE PROMISED TO BE A GOOD MAN. BUT PROMISES ARE MADE TO BE BROKEN.

HE WOULD ALWAYS COMPLIMENT ME. BUT NOW HE ONLY DEGRATES MY BODY.

WHY DO I STAY; BECAUSE I LOVE THIS MAN WHETHER RIGHT OR WRONG I JUST CAN’T STAND THE THOUGHT  OF BEING ALONE.

Over 20 years of our lives we make some good choices and mistakes. Over 30 years of our lives we mature from being a kid to understanding what being grown-up is.  Over 40’s of our lives we appreciate ourselves more, make better decisions than we once did before, get our business affairs in order, send our kids off to college and embark on our new businesses and relationships. So by our 50’s YOU should have some affairs ‘STRAIGHT” unless you started “LIVING LIFE” late.   

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