People
are not hard to find when they often “enter into” and “exit out of” our lives.
Associates
are not hard to get along with. They’re just casual people you chat with depending
on the situation.
Friendships however take time to figure out what a person
is about. So when you decide to invest the time in inviting these people into
your lives; remember how “preconception” plans for them to stay a lifetime. Then
one day this person will change and either stay or walk away. A Girlfriend could be a girl or woman, boy or a man that has your back regardless of your reputation and troubled relations and past. This individual will “stand their ground” and does not mind turning your cockiness into a frown. This individual is not afraid of a “call being delayed”. This individual is not threatened by “your new found friendships”. This individual is not jealous of your new found “relationship”. This individual will break bread when all she or he has is “crumbs”. This individual prays daily for your success to come. This individual also has their own trials in life to deal with; but you will never expect and grasp his or her “HARDSHIPS”. And the reason why this GIRLFRIEND is hard to find is because people would rather live in a LIE than deal with their own TRUTH coming from SOMEONE who sees where you are really struggling to “GROW” through.
Relationships can take form in many ways and emotions are “always predestined “to get in the way” and since people were not created with a light switch “protect your heart” and thicken “your skin”
Spectators are always lurking around to witness you “rise
and prey on your fall down”. So keep your eyes on the prize no matter what
challenges you will face in this life.
I can attest to all these SCENARIOS because God hand
selected me to star in a “MAJOR ROLE” of hardships, happiness and life’s predicaments
with people, associates, employee-employer established relationships, church
members, business opportunities, parenthood, family, unknown enemies and friends. So one day I decided to renew
my “MIND by Taking Inventory of My OWN Life” and I found out what ROLES PEOPLE really
play and no matter what you GIVE of good in yourself it will never be enough
for other people to “APPRECIATE AND RETURN TO YOU THE SAME WAY”.Promise yourself to 'TAKE INVENTORY OF YOUR LIFE" so that you don't always believe you can't survive without people who were predestined to "enter into or exit out of" your PRECIOUS LIFE.
