CROSS THINKING

Lately, have you done some CROSS THINKING into how much time we SPEND FOCUSING on situations, things and PEOPLE THAT ALTER OUR clear thinking.

Have you ever prayed for a stranger, family member, child or friend to be delivered from a disposition, unhealthy relationship, complex situation or struggle with change in mental transformation?  And there could be many reasons why people choose or decide not to change in order to help themselves sustain.

Have you ever wondered how some not all young people plan and envision their lives, seek guidance, graduate from high school and finish college, attempt early marriages, pick up bad habits, birth children out of wedlock or maybe some of them just follow who will ever guide them?

Have you ever wondered why some young adults and teenage children disrespect their parents? Then justify it was because of the trials in their lives. And this son or daughter was never a victim of sexual abuse, a tenant to eviction, drug addiction, loss salary, abandonment or physical abuse. But what I can testify to is this; no matter how much you love, give and cherish your kids time will tell what is hidden inside of their “sincere or “stiffened hearts and troubled minds”.  

Have you ever wondered why LOVE brings people JOY and PAIN in our lives? And why we yearn for HUMAN COMPANIONSHIP only to find REAL LOVE, a marriage, or people who were compatible with. While some of us will experience acts of Domestic Violence.

Have you ever wondered why couples split but continue to have random sex because we feel comfortable and compatible with the person who cannot commit to a “relationship”.

Have you ever wondered why men cry in their hearts and women share every thought?  Have you ever wondered why people are so intense to be your new best friend? Have you ever wondered why women seek advice from men who choose to have sex over marrying a wife?

Have you ever wondered who taught our young daughters to financially support a man who is physically fit and mentally dependent but this man is not her husband or committed with any VISION to this relationship with kids.

Have you ever wondered why some people have brilliant ideas, corporate minds, political leaders, motivation speakers, street hustlers, salesmen and pimps, Artist and performers of all kinds”  GURUS and MILLIONAIRES who are real people that initiated time to see what other people would buy into over-time.

Never wonder why all people loose their minds when money is involved. Simply take a lesser risk by sacrificing what you can live without until you can figure things out. I can testify hard times can happen to anyone overtime. Just keep in mind troubles don't last always when you know how to PRAY!  

Do you ever wonder why some mature in age women and men envision being in their youth again? Develop physical relationships with people the same age of their own kids. Then later ponder with; why did this young person leave with little regrets of once made promises.  

Have you ever wondered why family, strangers, co-workers, friends, children and people tell unnecessary lies, prey on the weak, start relationships with broken promises and look for any type of “ATTENTION”, check yourself before judging looking at someone else.
And this message is not intended to fit everyone’s situation.  But we must admit there are several things that need to be FIXED in our personal, business, social, family and friends relationships.  

PREDICATBLE situations and people will never change to UNPREDICATABLE people who value CROSS THINKING?