“The art of loving making begins with
communication. But a person scorned will do you no good, only harm”
-Naughty By Nature
Once
a woman and man cordially meet the physical attraction immediately brews “HEAT”
but make no mistake about the statements you miss in not mentioning all the
parties involved including the spouse and kids. Because someone one is not
looking forward to risking it all for a temporary sexual fantasy in place of
their reality. And although eye candy is packaged nice and tight it does not necessarily
mean you are going to be satisfied because you try.
How
amazing it is to think people have the perfect life because of a fantastic husband,
gorgeous wife, intelligent kids the biggest cribs and fanciest cars. You would
think someone hit the jackpot of establishing it all. But did someone fail to
mention the “BS” attached to it such as “the long business trips, late night
events, forced alimony checks, missed calls, STD”s are just a few examples of how
the married couple becomes at risk once the spouse decides they require an upgrade
in their relationship by adding Ashley Madison or another set of eyes to witness what should be
in privacy of their HOLY MATRIMONY.
In
the real world you can believe or be deceived in what is or not seen is why single
people can only assume the reasons married couples stray but in reality it could be the simple things that
change if the person they first met feels neglect or deep in their heart the relationship
is really growing far apart. And there are some married people who will stay
committed regardless of their discrepencies while the remainder of married people escape from their own “REALITY”.
I’m not insinuating marriage is
not great just making a point of why people unnecessarily break:
Some
people will marry and endure good and bad times with no regrets, some people
will share their mates, some people seek to entertain other peoples mates, some
people will marry young because they are afraid of growing into their old age and
some people will suffer from loneliness because they waste time attempting to figure out a remedy for a married persons committed responsibility . -Naughty By Nature
