The symptoms are sometimes obvious. But most
of the time people require a diagnosis, or sometime the problem exist where
most people conceal or attempt to manage it. And the sadness begins when you
observe how people struggle with more than they can cope with. And what I mean
is if you're not "chemically imbalanced" but in a relationship
seeking your change from another human being, if you're in denial of your
actions but seek instant gratification through self-medication of alcohol, sex
and drug abuse, are maybe you’re that person who preys on people to always
encourage your "excuses". Then you have a situation on your hands
that requires an immediate self-examination.
I spoke with a mother today who look wore down but did not complain. She said God is going to forever bless me "knowing" in her heart that people use her up. I simply said although we are obligated to "forgive one another" and "help our sister or brother in distress". God would not approve of people taking other people for "granted". And one day when you're gone what will those kinds of people do "on their own"?
Breaking the Cycle:
It's a situation in
all cultural families. But sometimes people refuse to deal with the things in
themselves that require a "drastic change". And I know some of you
were warned to walk away, some of you will burden yourself down trying to
figure out another person’s internal change, or some of you will humbly assist
the best you can, before releasing the strongholds from your weary hands.
Take some advice if
trials turn you away from praising his holy name. If people make you lose hope,
and family members break the barriers of your mind, friends leave you
questioning your commitment over their disloyalty, and when the love for
money has robbed your identity. It's time you change or continue in living with
the generational curses. So plan ahead beyond what you see to be prepared for
anything. And allow God full control, of everything you can't handle.