Before we began this passage on Child Support let’s first remove our arrogance and ego's; and refocus on "how was
life" for us before we made one or more choices. Where did we first meet to later discover
that we were either meant to be or just experience one or many moments of sexual
opportunities. In a life that did not change
its original plan. But people made final decisions to barter with one another
in it. Or fell in love with someone in whom they were committed to see if they
were compatible in building a life with. And let’s not ignore the real facts that not every
person or couple is willing to “let go and walk away” so easily. Because of one
or more misunderstandings especially if love is the strength
in holding together that new or old relationship to possibly building a solid
foundation.
Is it proper to say in the world we live in today; that
dating or finding a functional balance in relationships seems more troubling because of our “immature actions
and limit of wanting more understanding” because not every person makes the
same choices in life? Not every person sleeps around in life. Some people manage to negotiate for the best interest of who is most important. So therefore every person
has a choice to make in life. At every stage in our youthful lives we all have taken or will take on many rides. But some of us are not always prepared to take on adult responsibilities in this life. So later
down the line in life we should become more responsible with what we take in and whom
we choose to mate with. Therefore projects don't seem idealistic; just remember these
are real people with different upbringings and characteristics. That will require
more than enough adapting to deal with a different mindset. Once it brings out an attitude with what comes next.
There are no statistics in this area of life. We are dealing
with our human and fleshly side. So sometimes we feel that we can enlighten
other people in a new light. But it is sad to say some people are so bitter
that they become unavailable, cut off and act out a certain way to other people
in this life, through a silent rage. Why, because of real life
situations in which they are accustomed to the drama, disorder, dysfunction, and
manipulation of engagement with another type of people or persons. And then
there are those people who wish they could be the opposite of feeling like this
person in their life. But maybe, just maybe if some of us will make more
room in our own lives of insecure
thinking to grow, then maybe, just maybe we could catch up to a good person who does
not mind “investing some of their time” on what is not seen as being an issue
to add in their lives. I could be wrong but the population reflects we find irrelevant ways
to take from one another. Than we have figured out how to uplift, support and
build up each other.
One day I opened up my space. I met a gentleman who do not
look familiar to me; but he made himself clear to see. His dialect was
appreciated. His bare hands felt like a hard working man. He swear he had no
game, but the truth is what he shared with me about his present situation did
not add up to the reasoning in which he sold it to be. So, I decided to
proceed. Because we all have a story to share until the real problems occur when we think we have sold our best, to the people who have not witnessed our worse. Eventually I found out it does not matter
who you are. Every person has or will make a crucial choice. But not every person
deserves the payback in which you have incurred.
