Once a father appears at the front door to inspect his princess; choice of prince charming. He will make it a point to let this young man
know, his daughter is his baby girl.
I received several calls from some mentoring men in my life. They said the reason for the call is they had been mentoring some beautiful woman; whose hearts had hardened. Because of every man a woman meets; it does not mean the man is going to meet the expectations that a woman's seek. Then they went onto share with me what real man
should emulate and speak, and how an old dog struggles to change his or her, old dog ways.
I realized when mother's see their daughter’s pain; they only wanted to teach us how to love our
self’s first, because people will confuse you with what real love is. Especially
if they remain broken, and never have experienced real love with a person who reciprocated it.
We all know that not every daddy is going to be around to
protect his little girl. Or either not ever biological mother will be those arms to hold her at night, while young or old we all cry to understand the hurt we can't comprehend. Sometime's
For;
Settling for what looks good on the outside.
Settling in what we hear and not see through.
Settling for waiting on people to be a better person.
Settling to think we can't move on because of the choices we
make.
Settling to stay instead of walking away.
Not seeing the signs every time we took another chance; on
repeated actions.
Therefore,
If we decide to continue to
seek outside of what we have built with one another; it is in our decisions to
forgive, or continue in finding a reason to why we continue in settling.
If we understand the reasoning in keeping this unity for our
family and children; then for what reasons can we not get ourselves together,
to work through the mystery of unclear confusion.
If all we do is loose with another person; it is not the pain other people causes us. It's the pain we keep running; back and forward into.
All people are not bad people. However we do all come with light or heavy baggage.
