Psalm 16:5-11
It is not uncommon of what we expose in the world today. It has become common we expect uncommon things.
So what am I saying that you have not heard? Or repeated in expression of; ourselves.
I sat by my elder today. The gentleman was 70 years in age. He said to me my wife deceased 17 years ago. And the Lady I finally married is nothing like her; and I'm lonely spending time on my own. I softly said if you give her your 2nd chance then maybe you can enjoy a future with her. And not the wife of your past.
I later today was approached by a man inquiring direction. I did not look up but I answered his question; with no hesitation. The man proceeded to say "woman are wandering why men are not marrying them for LOVE" today. He also said woman have change the game. I looked in his eyes and said "it takes two" one to teach & the other to learn.
I was asked after all these years by an old friend who said I'm still having fun; dating woman. And then he asked "why are you not married? I said I knew a long time ago people would change, their minds. So I took my years to grow. Instead of entertaining open & closed doors. He said so give me your number and we can talk. I said you're still not listening. Because of what u said; I also heard of what I've outgrown.
In the past years and a half of a dysfunctional relationship; I've learned people can really be lonely even in a marriage. We can be LOST & FOUND; in denial that keeps us comfortable. We can entertain OPEN & CLOSED doors.
But the person who can except their own truth, deal with their own denial. Is the person who will never be alone. Because this person has figured out what their peace & contentment is about.
Happiness is a choice; and acceptance of anything is common. In a uncommon life.
Arthur: AW
It is not uncommon of what we expose in the world today. It has become common we expect uncommon things.
So what am I saying that you have not heard? Or repeated in expression of; ourselves.
I sat by my elder today. The gentleman was 70 years in age. He said to me my wife deceased 17 years ago. And the Lady I finally married is nothing like her; and I'm lonely spending time on my own. I softly said if you give her your 2nd chance then maybe you can enjoy a future with her. And not the wife of your past.
I later today was approached by a man inquiring direction. I did not look up but I answered his question; with no hesitation. The man proceeded to say "woman are wandering why men are not marrying them for LOVE" today. He also said woman have change the game. I looked in his eyes and said "it takes two" one to teach & the other to learn.
I was asked after all these years by an old friend who said I'm still having fun; dating woman. And then he asked "why are you not married? I said I knew a long time ago people would change, their minds. So I took my years to grow. Instead of entertaining open & closed doors. He said so give me your number and we can talk. I said you're still not listening. Because of what u said; I also heard of what I've outgrown.
In the past years and a half of a dysfunctional relationship; I've learned people can really be lonely even in a marriage. We can be LOST & FOUND; in denial that keeps us comfortable. We can entertain OPEN & CLOSED doors.
But the person who can except their own truth, deal with their own denial. Is the person who will never be alone. Because this person has figured out what their peace & contentment is about.
Happiness is a choice; and acceptance of anything is common. In a uncommon life.
Arthur: AW
