COLORISM

“Don’t fear failure. Fear the absence of Progress.”

I met up with an old friend to celebrate; a birthday. And during that time we got some things off of our minds one regarding; why do people come in and of out of our lives is when this friend looked at me and said “live your life with an Intention”.

This friend broke down life experiences from a different view and in

So many ways; we forget about ourselves trying to fit into a space with everyone else. This friend had been married at an early age. Finding out later in life people will change their minds. Eventually that 2^nd chance came to start a new chapter in life again.

So many ways people who never resolve their “hurts” often they continue living it by hurting someone else.

So many ways we release and invite people back into ourselves. That resemble the things we are not prepared to release and change.

So many ways we avoid to communicate with one another in mending that “ant pile” that grew into mountains.   

So many ways we miss out on our joys and happiness to struggle in the things and people that remain broken; instead of choosing in us to fix. Of those things we continue to live with.

I also learned in the space we sat of our celebration; how we miss the opportunity to connect because of a state of mind we live in of our own Colorism of confusion. I shared a business idea with this friend of why I write the real stories of Life. And in it all I can see is the Colorism of beauty.  

This friend went on sharing her opinion; in those papers created over generations something was implemented into people of all colors; to live better, if not for people who were taught to work harder, for someone else. With that being said “you can only teach what you know, and allow people to learn if they see room in their life to grow”.

I also took away this; people will hurt one another with intention and demand human respect, for their own choices. People will function in a mindset of what they have been taught or live in.

There is a cycle of circumstances among us. The dynamics are working through us. Relationships are weak in of areas we refuse to improve in us, individually. Our visions are endless once we stop redundant conversations, of who has accomplished what we have a real commitment in. Our monies will either grow if not depreciate because of what we invest in; of our time and vision.   

Divorce rates have increased in every race; and if we study our past family relationships there is an abundance of compromise & secrets, and there is no perfect persons.  

Rewriting history requires our colored feet to move 2 steps forward, not another 400 years backwards. The truth sometimes is hard to digest; in areas we are forced to answer back to ourselves.