Working on being a better person, is even more rewarding than being a better friend & or associate.
I care about people who enter my life. But sometimes we have to allow people to walk away. This is my story.
I allowed this person into my space who needed somebody in his life this time. In order for him to say to me "you never really needed me, but sometimes people do need help" , I would always reply to him " you have got to recognize when you need more help for yourself, before giving it back to those same people who always need an easy way out". This person would regress with an attitude of resentment.
Confrontation is a word that is used to identify a human attitude projected in a negative way. I hear it often utilized in the work place. In situations that are often created by people with the intention of hiding behind their manipulative; mindset. And if you do not respond to their authority in a manner beneath their level of communication, then you are associated with responding back; in a confrontational way of what was not expected to be voiced of your logic & personal opinion.
A Relationship is no different. Either we respect one another or create a confrontation to exist; in validating what we struggle with of one another's area of growth in communication. So do yourself a Self service by continuing to teach one another the difference.
I care about people who enter my life. But sometimes we have to allow people to walk away. This is my story.
I allowed this person into my space who needed somebody in his life this time. In order for him to say to me "you never really needed me, but sometimes people do need help" , I would always reply to him " you have got to recognize when you need more help for yourself, before giving it back to those same people who always need an easy way out". This person would regress with an attitude of resentment.
Confrontation is a word that is used to identify a human attitude projected in a negative way. I hear it often utilized in the work place. In situations that are often created by people with the intention of hiding behind their manipulative; mindset. And if you do not respond to their authority in a manner beneath their level of communication, then you are associated with responding back; in a confrontational way of what was not expected to be voiced of your logic & personal opinion.
A Relationship is no different. Either we respect one another or create a confrontation to exist; in validating what we struggle with of one another's area of growth in communication. So do yourself a Self service by continuing to teach one another the difference.
