When mother's don't allow their boys to grow-up & become men; life trials will eventually break them in.
To a woman; if you desire to become a mother or wife; work on yourself first. And be honest enough to know whether are not; you're willing to build a life with love on a solid foundation; once the lack of money and sickness shake up that relationship not always God in it; but of what man & woman lusted.
To a mama's boy; one day momma won't be around for you to run to her when u fall down. And the reason why she is still here to hold your hand is; to see before she leaves this life if the decisions you're making are mature enough to let you go; into being your own man without looking for her ✋ .
Marriage is a commitment for mature people who are prepared for the good & bad together; at some point we all are husbands & wives. For me I've been a wife the majority of my life. I've cared & sacrificed to show up on time. I've been there through sickness and death. I've been there through life trials of weakness and test. I'm not a chef but I will cook from morning to late night shifts. And some people will say how do you give so much. I say to them "when people are weak in areas they struggle to be strong" they tend to make you feel unappreciated while they feel entitled to what you are capable of giving. And in the end all those mama's Boys will search for her love; but they will struggle to find a woman who allowed her boy to grow-up into a man. Because these woman never stopped talking to God.
To a woman; if you desire to become a mother or wife; work on yourself first. And be honest enough to know whether are not; you're willing to build a life with love on a solid foundation; once the lack of money and sickness shake up that relationship not always God in it; but of what man & woman lusted.
To a mama's boy; one day momma won't be around for you to run to her when u fall down. And the reason why she is still here to hold your hand is; to see before she leaves this life if the decisions you're making are mature enough to let you go; into being your own man without looking for her ✋ .
Marriage is a commitment for mature people who are prepared for the good & bad together; at some point we all are husbands & wives. For me I've been a wife the majority of my life. I've cared & sacrificed to show up on time. I've been there through sickness and death. I've been there through life trials of weakness and test. I'm not a chef but I will cook from morning to late night shifts. And some people will say how do you give so much. I say to them "when people are weak in areas they struggle to be strong" they tend to make you feel unappreciated while they feel entitled to what you are capable of giving. And in the end all those mama's Boys will search for her love; but they will struggle to find a woman who allowed her boy to grow-up into a man. Because these woman never stopped talking to God.
Life is not always filled; with Happy Day's. But not everyday has to be filled with entitlement, grievances & depression. Growing up prepares us all to deal with those past struggles; we have no choice in facing of today. And in tomorrow that is not promised; to any of us.
