Does it really take a fool to learn why love does not love nobody?
Or does it take our personal experiences to cope with our emotions; of how we allowed
ourselves to love someone?
Tomorrow our emotions will resurface, no matter how
safeguarded we are in shielding that beating heart. And what was the point of it all; if we never had one chance to figure out why and who we chose to LOVE.
A young girl in her 30’s said to me. I’ve lived a live not
knowing. Until one day I understood what my heart was missing. I love my kids
and myself. But for a while I did not understand how people used love so freely
with living in one another’s false fantasies. And what she was saying was “time does not
choose who we want, time will show us what we need with that someone”, even
when a fool feels lost. Life still gives him or her; a second chance.
A young man in his latter 40”s said “I love my wife and
family”. And yes, this is my 2nd marriage. But after 20 years with
her, I can see clearly how she does not love me anymore. I said my brother have
you tried to show her why “the fight you are not winning is because she is not
by your side”.
I spoke to a widow and her & he both said, either you
miss the mate or either you become ok at that point in your life. Sometimes in
contentment you miss out on your own journey to finding happiness. And
sometimes you get lucky to find the mate who will stand-up by your side. And
even in death; either way the lesson still lives with the living.
I spoke with the woman in my life; who taught me how to love myself first. I spoke with the men in my life who taught me how to see through what a man is not saying to you. I learned from my personal experience with a man I loved for 20 years, who walked away but returned to say "once a youth and always a man afterwards, thank you for loving me. Even when I did not show you enough love back. I replied thank you for respecting "who" I will continue to be.
I spoke with the woman in my life; who taught me how to love myself first. I spoke with the men in my life who taught me how to see through what a man is not saying to you. I learned from my personal experience with a man I loved for 20 years, who walked away but returned to say "once a youth and always a man afterwards, thank you for loving me. Even when I did not show you enough love back. I replied thank you for respecting "who" I will continue to be.
I spoke with people who say love is over-rated or it was suppose to last a life-time. But if we
had no emotions how would we have known it takes a fool; to learn love don’t love
nobody. To continue in learning why; we continue in working so hard at love to get it right.
