Raisins

If we're always correct, then when are we prepared to be corrected? 

We can all attest that dating is like a game of chess. And even more demanding in a marriage, let it be said. Every season requires a refresh of ingredients.

Therefore I speak in general of substituting a quick fix, to whip-up our own inquisitiveness in inhibitions. Where a scoop of accountability never fails to come up; missing. 

So how can it be humanly possible in a world of dynamics of men and woman; we're alway's trying to figure out. What ingredients are missing out?  

Can we really make it work without any type of substitutions? Meaning what we say to being one another is always “real and straight forward”, and if not then we’re alway's going to be mixed up in one another’s, salad.

The majority of the time we don’t think things through, until we are in to deep to debating each other. Of who will stay, what needs to removed. Are who needed a pass; to step out. Are walk away. To find figure it out.

What? 

The stage of denial are truth. Because it's easier than acceptance.

Of what we all need to hold onto.

The ideas are reality; of each other. Are another.

Is accepting accountability. For knowing. The difference.

Real talk what can we do to satisfy one another. If not completely make one another happy:

If money can’t buy one another’s love, but only contentment. Then how long do you think it’s going to happen?

If we can’t figure out this math together of family growth, paying bills and future plans; who do you think is going to first put up their hands?

If we don’t think struggles is real redundant; then who the hell got comfortable?

If we did step out of familiarity and find something new. What has even changed about; the unity. In me & you?

While we had each other figured out; we allowed our raisins to dry up in the sun.  

 A keen sense of “knowing”, prepares you to plant for a new season.  

Revolving Doors

Our lives are filled with revolving doors. We only need to be prepared to choose; which door we will enter through. And I will not always promise you there is truth in this life. I can only promise you sometimes disappointments are not always meant to hurt you. But to strengthen you.

Today life has another door waiting on us, and the one we choose, to enter through will make the difference.   

Today you or I will be sitting in a holding space, alone or with a companion. Sit still and meditate on the next move to make, and I promise you “something” will fill out of place in our lives. Don’t consume your mind with the questions “of why”.  Either we know the answers or we struggle to process; what is no longer working.

I don’t know to whom I’m speaking to. But I do know this from experiences “Our lives are filled with revolving doors”, and only TIME has strengthened us to open up the next 🚪.