VALUES/MORALS

People can grant you what you want but how many people have a desire to give to you what you need.

We heard of the word “SOUL TIES”, and the meaning in real life experience is this “I’ve allowed you into a physical space and mentally over time I still yearned that penetration and thrust in my heart Soul ties.

People have known to have sexual relationships for years, even while in a committed relationship or marriage, and they don’t place a real title on this; simply because a real title does not exist. But soul ties are real where people have chosen someone else, but can’t find a reason to let go of what they enter back and forward into.

When a couple decides to constitute their relationship does it mean for life we only belong to one another. And if so why do those soul ties still exist; once we both decided to surrender into this marriage?

When a single person gives into their own submission of pleasing the opposite in attraction; can we honestly believe there is no physical emotion that connects and causes that final; explosion. Because not everyone walks away with a relief of stemmed pressured released from in between their legs.

When lovers figure out they can please one another in a physical space, but mentally they can’t figure out how to make it work; then when do we admit it to ourselves?

So that we are not all confused about how “infidelity” starts. And companionship-does not always involve sex” but “loneliness” can exist in any marriage, single person or relationship. Where lust is a title we all wear even if we are strong enough to not perform, it lurks in every human heart.

Deep down inside we’re all trying to figure out what we need to compliment what some of us have in our spiritual, physical and mental connection .

If we could no longer penetrate one another; could we still yearn to touch one another?

If we were no longer submissive to one another; could we still see the value in each other?

If we’re always seeking those soul ties; are we really satisfied with whom we have chosen to sustain with in our lives?

If we have been together and not figured out; what our foundation stands on, is marriage a title we should continue to spend time in; fixing on ourselves   trying to figure out why the peace of mind and happiness still don’t exist?

Again we’re all not meant to be husbands or wives, we’re not all meant to be lovers for life. We’re not all meant to be without companionship; unless we figure out; not everyone is seeking in us one another for forever, When our feet’s and hearts continue to wonder.

  

COLORISM

“Don’t fear failure. Fear the absence of Progress.”

I met up with an old friend to celebrate; a birthday. And during that time we got some things off of our minds one regarding; why do people come in and of out of our lives is when this friend looked at me and said “live your life with an Intention”.

This friend broke down life experiences from a different view and in

So many ways; we forget about ourselves trying to fit into a space with everyone else. This friend had been married at an early age. Finding out later in life people will change their minds. Eventually that 2^nd chance came to start a new chapter in life again.

So many ways people who never resolve their “hurts” often they continue living it by hurting someone else.

So many ways we release and invite people back into ourselves. That resemble the things we are not prepared to release and change.

So many ways we avoid to communicate with one another in mending that “ant pile” that grew into mountains.   

So many ways we miss out on our joys and happiness to struggle in the things and people that remain broken; instead of choosing in us to fix. Of those things we continue to live with.

I also learned in the space we sat of our celebration; how we miss the opportunity to connect because of a state of mind we live in of our own Colorism of confusion. I shared a business idea with this friend of why I write the real stories of Life. And in it all I can see is the Colorism of beauty.  

This friend went on sharing her opinion; in those papers created over generations something was implemented into people of all colors; to live better, if not for people who were taught to work harder, for someone else. With that being said “you can only teach what you know, and allow people to learn if they see room in their life to grow”.

I also took away this; people will hurt one another with intention and demand human respect, for their own choices. People will function in a mindset of what they have been taught or live in.

There is a cycle of circumstances among us. The dynamics are working through us. Relationships are weak in of areas we refuse to improve in us, individually. Our visions are endless once we stop redundant conversations, of who has accomplished what we have a real commitment in. Our monies will either grow if not depreciate because of what we invest in; of our time and vision.   

Divorce rates have increased in every race; and if we study our past family relationships there is an abundance of compromise & secrets, and there is no perfect persons.  

Rewriting history requires our colored feet to move 2 steps forward, not another 400 years backwards. The truth sometimes is hard to digest; in areas we are forced to answer back to ourselves.