Sons

Dedicated to our sons; define who you are in the man you work to become.

I told  my son as a child respect yourself in the world. Of course his tiny eyes glared at me with curiosity. But as time progressed I watched over what my child mentally processed. Of how his mother lived; in his presence.

I knew one day those tiny feet would grow out of my control. I knew one day the baby talk would turn into real words. I knew one day he would seek out his own destiny; is when real life would be waiting.

Sons you will seek a companion in this life to call your own; you will search in one another for guidance and growth. You will make decisions based on your feelings. You will learn in life that the things you trust in to believe are attached to people; that will leave you questioning  "Y". You will learn every gift is not sent from heaven.  Sometimes the best gifts come through WISDOM. But not everyone you meet will hand you a key. To open up the doors of the places you seek of; growth.

Sons one day your life will change in a miraculous way; stay prepared and focus for the night will eventually turn  into good days. Seek your own truth in the paths some people may  mis-guide  you. Find peace in your choices not all mistakes are made. Be strong in knowing how to walk away. Seek for your own understanding; in places you struggle to  prosper and grow. Your destination is not based on other people's approval!

What is meant to be will happen at the right time. Once you work on yourself things & the right people will fall in line, every time.

Self Service

Working on being a better person, is even more rewarding than being a better friend & or associate.

I care about people who enter my life. But sometimes we have to allow  people  to walk away. This is my story.

I allowed this person into my space who needed somebody in his life this time. In order for him to say to me "you never really needed me, but sometimes people do need help" , I would always reply to him " you have got to recognize when you need more help for yourself, before giving it back to those same people who always need an easy way out". This person would regress with an attitude of resentment.

Confrontation is a word that is used to identify a human attitude projected in a negative way. I hear it often utilized in the work place. In situations that are often created by people with the intention of hiding behind their manipulative; mindset. And if you do not respond to their authority in a manner beneath their level of communication, then you are associated with responding back; in a confrontational way of what was not expected to be voiced of your logic & personal opinion.

A Relationship is no different. Either we respect one another or create a confrontation to exist; in validating what we struggle with of one another's area of growth in communication. So do yourself a Self service by continuing to teach one another the difference.

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-“Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records”

I received this quote this morning from a dear friend. And what I shared with this person opened up their entire eyes to be more conscience in this life.

To defeat some hard days of adversity you have to observe; who is the master in this distraction that you allow to keep entertaining; of your attention.

People change every day, and none of us are the same towards one another on any given day. So how will you get through this life filled with adversity that is working through people; who spend more than half of their time trying to figure out what they have not got passed of it; in their own lives?

                                                                             Maximize your Mindset

Until we change how we treat one another, a little adversity will continue in reminding us of “Y” we live on the same page of  four-seasons in this life.