Being a loner; does not mean you have to be alone. Once you discover the things that you enjoy about yourself. Other children will recognize and approach you with a hand of friendship.
Most children are not taught how to extend an olive branch; and what I mean is this. Acts of kindness develop in the smallest of children.
I emphasize the feelings of children, because their feelings count because these children are a blessing. And one day these children will mature in physical & mental development of their own personalities. But not without a personal experience of processing lifes challenges. So we take the time wisely to invest in our children who will one day; mirror us the adults in our choices, rebellious decisions and many mistakes. So the proper guidance is required of a Village to raise all our children.
In reality we cannot denie; some children never grow up. And the generation they lead will struggle. Because of the denial to address our own personal attitudes and issues we could of corrected to save our own children.
One day time allowed us moments with one another. Another day we watched one another grow. And overtime we either invested or wasted the time we could did more with our children.
Hug, kisses and appearance; is encouraging in the childs presence .
Clothes and materials things are nice. But time is pricesless with a child.
