If you are serious about finding a person to share your life with. Be smart, listen closely to what is being said; in a millisecond to twirl your head. And then be even more patient in your options.
People play mind games; and even when they devour and conquer some men or woman will keep it moving. And that's ok for a person with higher than lower self-esteem..
My story, so once my son passed away. People assume they were as smart about me having a relationship. Than I was of more vested in wrapping my mind around this ignorance. I love me, first. Therefore I'm focused on my heart and his children. See how we lose with people in the living. Why, some people dont have a longterm plan. In reality the lord required I return his body back on this date and time in his life. My son had plans with his children. It did not mean after his demise those plans for them also died. Are neither was his mother broken to be a vulnerable weak person..
One thing you have the authority over in this life; is how you protect yourself and show accountability in every move that has to be made. In the process of life, everyone is preying are waiting to be next. Through this entire process because of his murder. I lost alot of respect for people that played themselves; on preying on what they thought was a weakness.
See when you take time with God, and work on those issues in yourself. You can identify with how much you can deal with. And what is not going to be settled for; no matter what angle the conversation is aiming for. Not every single person is suffering for another woman or man. Maybe those people are the ones seeking for something or person they are missing for themselves.
Yes, we all need someone. But I will avoid unnecessary hell and discomfort just to settle. Where everyone has to live with their own decisions. Maybe its not that serious. To always spend time looking.
Married people face enough of their own problems, single people fight each other; to stay or separate from 1 another. And when people ask are you lonely. Your response should be how much time have or how long have you invested of working on yourself; before not saying you are prepared to being responsible for someone else.
Grown people make decisions, needy people wait for attention, lonely people make questionable decisions, horny people do whatever. But a person that respects their own self, struggles and change; not waiting around for anyone to warm their beds. When the time is right, that person is humbled by life. It will be that person who will fall in line at the right time; all things will come together. And you will not ponder and question if this person will show up, are if I have to wonder if they have our backs..
I taught my son; love yourself first, marriage is not just making babies, and being a man too other peoples issues. And rescuing them from abandonment of another person's obligations. Check your confidence level then evaluate if the love you feel in your heart will stand the test of time for another person; who may struggle with loving themselves, second
