If these children are suffering from loss due to the stresses of life if not separation in death. It would behoove you to step out of your feelings. To care for the feelings that are being self medicated. In all ages of human beings, struggling to find comfort & a peace of mind.
To cure a broken heart; heal it with the love it is separated from if not missing of what existed in their lives.
Death is not replacing an animal in place of a human affection, are neither is putting on a hardened face. Love is an emotion that can't be touched.
To live, you must be willing to heal. One's self; First.
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