As people we often do to much. When it comes to pleasing one another.
The truth is the expectations are never going to be limited. The work is going to be noticed, until it's appreciated for wanting not needing more of your performance.
The denial is it's always someone else's fault. Are reasoning to justify why someone else has to pay for another person's personal investment in choices.
And the bottomline is this. If you are serious in needing to see change; start the change in yourself, first.
If you want to stop the blame; deal with your own internal issues.
If you choose to follow other people; stop killing each other and manipulating every situation.
If you choose to Lead; stop explaining to unnecessary people. With no intent to respect your choices.
If you are going to remain loyal to your commitments; be steadfast on you are not obligated to a person or persons waiting on you to meet their human expectations.
Where children are involved. Walk a fine line of crossing into another biological Father's are biological mother's lane. Because life changes our plans. And we were not meant to stay with 1 person. To figure out if we are Growing together, are Falling apart.
The moral is this. Trust your instincts. Unpack your Old baggage. Then Communicate & not always Attempt to Handle another human being; God created us All.
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