The question is who says its always; a man.
Our perception is obscured; only when we limit our broader vision's to the impossible to not being possible.
Have you ever had a human intuition; a bottom of the gut feeling is when you never have been given reasoning; to question a behavior or statement. But out of the blue; a red flag catches your immediate attention.
On a softer note; control what you don't need to be shown. Until your intuition is shown you the real evidence.
Love is blind, quick reflex is only the addrenelum rushing. But a calm nature is knowing the difference.