Grief

Grief, no matter how our love one's departed this life. Remember, those times they needed that well deserved rest. Well, one day God knew their precious bodies needed it.

As we approach the Holidays end. And prepare to enter into a New Year. It's ok to love on ourselves, and sometimes  silence; allow's the mind to find clarity in comfort. But let's not forget that family and close friends who are grieving with us.

Remember the reason for this season. It was love that brought us together in this life. And love will meet us all, after the Grief is ended.

Grief has it's own process, time and plan. Grief appears in several stages. But consider we're not all expressive about our emotions. So, don't feel overwhelmed about how other's might appear; to feel lesser than more of an emotional connection.

1. Shock

2. Denial 

3. Depression

4. Blame

5. Anger

6. Bargaining stage of the; Anticipatory .

Last step is; the acceptance and hope. And believe it or not the Grief ministry, counseling and support is even more affective. If not attempting to process in Grief; individually. Grief teaches; our finished business on earth. was really fulfilled before we were called in our mother's womb. And in a father's heart.

Often it's hard to accept in this life; how we are dying in the land of the living. As our love one's are at comfort in rest. This place of peace of mind, for eternity. If only we could just "Believe".

Beloved "1991-2020, 8:15am". Our ❤️ is forever .

Curl

There is two types of human energy "good & bad, positive and negative". And the reality is everything or person's is destined to change. So what is the secret to "why not speak on it". In the world we chatter about any, everbody & everything. And in every environment of questioning the behavior, the type and who was the sacrifice. Whether the behavior's is a Practice, Cult, Rebellion or Religious belief. The reality is in every inhuman act; a type of evil exist, symbolized, motivated & with the direct intention.

The history of mankind's existence is written. And we know the world has differences of opinions. Regarding Religion, Religious beliefs and finally "sacrificing".

What is alluring is the word "money", and "teachings". What is addictive,? over indulgence in "drug's, alcohol and sometimes each other". What is attracting in the world? each other's "validation". What is sought of each other is "love". What is a life struggle?  finding in one's self "self love". So, yes it happens in all ages.

As we watch on platforms and exchange "conversations". Either you, us are them "agree, if not disagree", about the type of physical interactions we are caught in of Cohabitation. And the actual types of direct communications. 

In life comes a moment, silence is the most Powerful weapon. To tone down the audiences, speculators, watchers and the "perception". Because no one really knows from the outside looking in; what is the motive if not real intention. However, someone is aware of what is being "Gas lighted, educated and communicated", to each other. Lead are follower.

Society, is the makeup of all mankind. It's our division of the behavior in our "Good & Bad" actions and attractions; demonstrated. And decision making is a combination of collaborations, negotiations, followed by, if not excepting of.

To think for yourself, is a challenge sometimes. No one has all the real answers. But allowing other's to think for us; is mental castration .

So we are left probing each other's minds. Digging for information. Investing human time to configure out; how much information has surfaced to the Top.

History of personal experiences in any age of children, young adults and the old. has not changed many psychologically.  it's whether we agree independently are collectively. about the Red flags, we witness in the physical. But in the environment in which the act takes place. Will expose the rhetorical history. 

It appears spirituality & the practices and human beliefs is a sensitive topic. Just recall Sin and the way we cohabitate, existed over generations. Is when Grace & Mercy stepped in, and ask for the accountability; in mandkind's Sin.