The temptation started in the flesh, a process endured over the history of mandkind, let's set the stage beginning with "Sampson & Delilah", and Although the Bible is debated in humanity. It's still based on the human history.
So, what does the Bible read, on "Submission". It is submission of the flesh. And what boundaries are increments. Are we to submit. Unto each other? Whether we feel completed are needing more time to further; our individual if not collective growth.
Once a child is born. Their innocence form during the growth in the womb. And outside of this womb; has the conversation taken place between "male & female". To address have each others; needs, wants and expectations are being met? Until this child reaches not just in age. But mental maturity, what occurs if; first. The development is physical. And who is the gate watchers protecting this child's innocence, during the process of their own individual human transformation. Knowing we ourselves is still transitioning towards; spiritual, mental & physical growth, manifesting within oneself.
Responsibilty, is a lifetime committment. No matter who is delegated or resumes a responsible roll. For we know because in our personal life experiences. There is the obligations or negotiated obligations between each other, and one self.
Reference my entry noted that reads "we are the; leaders & followers, protectors & oppressors", of each other. And in every decision made; it affects US all, including family. Not limited to being single, in a marriage, in a cohabitative state of environment are swinging; around in connections. The reality accountibility is crucial. For it also has a role. That will run its natural course over US all. And during our time span of life; real change is a journey. Over a course; of education, communication, growth & time.
Once marital vows are taken; a convenant is created by these two individuals who proclaim; love for each other. But what occurs once the sacredness is tested. See, where people hold each other accountable; in the committment. Under the statutory law of matrimony. Then plan to celebrate the prospective wedding date or elope. In the presence of a gathering. To validate their united, and together as one. However, during the course of life. The commitment to obide to only each other, is those same prenumptials. That do not change in statutory literature. It's the vows during the life line of the commitment between each other that is tested. Why, people & life changes, us All. And it's the surrendering unto each other; where temptation is inevitable. The same temptation, in life. That is destined to test US All.
Living single is not cohabitation. Domestication is when two people agree to terms of our established living conditions with each other. Including or Excluded of children, blended families are included, as well. The expectations is now each other's obligation; we hold each other; accountable for. No matter of the continuos individual growth needed. So, often this emotion of lonliness in not securing. is a fear to face in our own flesh. Physcologically, what human being on earth can feel their own empty void; inside of themselves. So, yes in the flesh we desire; some form of human connection. However, we must also figure out; within ourselves. And overtime & space. To better understand what is it we emotionally need in ourselves to express the needs & wants; to each other. And work towards sustaining healthier relationships. And for generations; age is a factor. To acknowledge what we can truthfully & independently; both offer. And build on effective communication unto each other.
Often, we overwhelm ourself's. And yes, the youth struggle, as well. To being with each other; in a state of dysfunction vs. healthy is the state of being. How so, we can only answer knowing our own truth's; about these human Wants vs. Needs. To later figure out, considering who & what. we often disregard "considering, over assuming", knowing we either do or not. Have each other all figured out. About each other's needs, before knowing oneself. So, how do we work on our inner self's. Before we attempt to dismantle, and rework internally on each other?
Ghost Writer 1991-2020
