Today men were having another general discussion. And the topic was 'a woman's independence'.
We'll what is this females role. From the time she is of a child groomed by a mother & father. Or maybe a single parent through being an adolescence, youth and then adult. Now switch the rolls. What is this males role. From the time he is a child, adolescence to a boy, young man into adulthood. Groomed by his mother & father or a single parent? Over generations both male & female face a life filled with challenges; of even figuring out themselves. We were not born with internal manuals. We learn from each other. And over this lifetime. We will All figure out. What did our parents, guardians, environment, or life experiences; actually taught us about real life.
And let's not assume All men are having this conversation. In a derogatory mindset. Allow these men to brief amongst themselves. In their own manly conversations. Then maybe the perception about this male & female role. Could be re-evaluated by them both. According to what the both of them have learned; about being individual humans. And what each is capable of. In bringing into an Adult relationship.
Our young people. And even children are breeded into idea relationships with each other. But until we work on ourselves. There will be test. Once we both discover who is independent or codependant; amongst each other. Verses our weakness & strengths. As humans deal with our uncharted human emotions. And if we're both; mature enough to build alone. Then what is keeping a male & female from; building with each other. And age is a concern. In this life of cohabitations.
Once the physical attractions and time for compassionship; gears in neutral, drive are park. Because it's in our Individuality that sparked; the immediate human interest in our eyes for each other. Before the thoughts in our minds & hearts; became each other's real life challenge.
Think about being human; who as a human being will need more or less of; physical touch, protection, a sense of security. And an emotional attachment to feel a human belonging; to each other.
Being human we're not destined to live in a state of physical loneliness. Man's greatest fear is REJECTION. Of not being accepted by a man or woman; in all age categories. According to our individual human state of demonstrated independence. Knowing we've lived over a history in generations. Of All being single. And in cohabitations. Of this male & female role. Regardless of our human status pro quo.
