Saturday, October 12, 2024

Online Dating

Whether it's online or meeting in person. Who in humanity; has been or not been; affected by not having some human companionship.

Are just a casual call or text to hear or reply back, 'Good morning beautiful, Good morning handsome or gorgeous'. If not one of those naughty pics. 

So, before we get overwhelmed and discouraged; in these human emotions. Because Love or an attraction was not mutually reciprocated. Are maybe time ran it's; course. And the friendship; expired. Are these human relationships continue in Respect or dissolved. Although in our minds. It may have appeared or not. To be an opportunity; forever. Are maybe  some one appeared to be mentally available; for more. Don't forget where it all starts. Is in these mindsets. And before it All happens. Of what is or was unclear. Between non verbal or a verbal communication. If not the physical Cohabitations throughout the world. It's the heart that want's more; from another human. Who either is prepared or unprepared. To submit, commit or not interested. In offering more of one self. Why, sometimes respect reaches being disrespectful; because of human Rejection or the Denial. Or the feelings grow, because their mutual.

Whether it's the state of; being. Are the state of; loneliness. Don't assume All people are happy, unhappy. If not in a mindset of; contentment.

We assume in a world filled with People. Everyone is affixiated on who destined to being; with someone. Alone. Including  who is in Cohabitations of the same sex. 

Overall; it's the assumption in the state of being Alone. For someone is inevitable.

Ever notice, when a person is in Grief, a permanent or short term separation from a relationship. Are maybe a divorce. Why, is the assumption intimacy cures what is needed of mental space. Are maybe time To heal. From the next opportunity to prey on; of one's human vulnerability.

The reality is no matter who is in a human state of mind, or relationships, People are seeking some human form of companionship. Are just casual conversations. Included is long lasting respectful friendships. Then there is this new day of Age in Online dating. It's inevitable that the heart; wants what it wants. But what about how the other Person who also has; feelings? 

There is someone for everyone in this life. No matter the physical features are internal wiring. Or even the distance or time. The main obstacle humans avoid or face is whether; time will connect these human beings together. To ensure capability; is mutual. But Only time will conclude; whether we as humans. Will Pass or Fail; a major test. The test, to figure out. Whether we're really equally Yoked. And where there is children involved; we're still accountable to doing more work in ourselves. Before assuming everyone is committed to settling down.

The one fear; has to be internally addressed. As humans are we individually just soul searching for something deeper; to not fill that emotion of emptinesss in ourselves. Are we at a stage in our personal lives to commit to each other; where maturity & internal growth, requires work. That we both continue to mature. To communicate with each other more; is to respect. Our individual differences comes with ; understandings. 

There is the mindset that also exist. We owe each other; our souls & flesh. While trying to avoid living in a life. Filled with people; searching in each other. For what the heart; desires. But may never find. Of experiencing that 💯% in fulfillment from each other. Without any human; possibilities of emotional disappointments. Before understanding what is half full or full. If not empty; beginning in ourselves.

Where in the Holy Bible does it read every human is going to be married. But if you're not a believer; then who decides who is equally Yoked? However, what is addressed; is no human being is meant to be alone on Earth. 

In a world of civilization humans desire a human touch. It's the human experience between Time & Growth; in ourselves. To appreciate the experience. Is the greatest gift in LOVE. Unfortunately some will never live enough during time on earth. To reach the fullest potential of knowing love. With or Without; each other.

Over time the stranger things are evolving in mankind.

One day, The children, are going to chuckle & admire each other. They are either going to like or dislike one another. As they admire each other. It's in this human nature. Until In this skin, they are taught about themselves. To know enough. Once they feel in their own; human emotions. Until then we are creatures of nature. Attracted to the opposites in sex. But the question & reality is; how do we approach the preparation; stage. In a world of Civilization is these human wants, desires and needs. Even our youngest are acting out; in these over stimulated emotions. Curiousity, of course. Occurs during the early stages of human development. And in our youth. Included is the youngest; of innocence.

The female & male, boy meets girl. In  a world of cultural activities & human differences. It's every race. Filled with Emotions. Is the state of; curiosity, familiarity & society. Is the Internet & and how is every human; really connected over the connections.

Where age, it will reflect overtime. What we as humans are learning from each other. From day to day. In  every public & private environment. 

Just, The other day an older man of Statute ask; are you not afraid of being lonely. Because I am without my only child. My response was how can a person be lonely. In a world filled with; the opportunity to access. A type of human companionship. To be without. Is not a sign that every human is living in a state of; loneliness. But maybe privacy.

If age, experience & maturity was really factored in. During the interviewing of these conversations. One step before the act in cohabitations. We as human beings would discover; who possess real life experience. Are is it the anticipation.  Before embarking on the experience; with one another. Before a deep dive in fact gathering. Of All the details about; each other. 

The other day a female, ask are you single? The question was followed by a statement, 'because I am'. And there is some attractive men, walking around. Well, what is the delay. Or the question ❓ Behind what is not available. For what is it; you're looking for.

The turn key is Active listening. The challenges occur in the types; is patterns of Defensive & Selective listening. Just to name a few.

The younger generation, is sharing. It's hard losing a person in this life. To find another genuine person, for it was that person who is no longer available. Who once Genuinely accepted me as a human; for who I really am. The next question to self. Should start with 'if you expect people to change', to genuinely accept yourself. Then that same change needed; eventually will affect the next person, as well.

The deeper we search, in ourselves. Will not only determine the company we; seek. The responses we expect. But also, how we manage; of company kept. Is a mixture of the right the ingredients 

One day, if we're willing to learn; and tap into more about our inner selves. Before placing these human expectations on each other. Included is myself, of what I found of stimulation was in scripture; that referenced back to the experience with other humans. It broadened in my heart, 'No matter Whatever state I'm in, I've learn to be content. Not confused. Whether in loss & possessing much. So, therefore I've learned to live in a state of', peace. That starts & ends in me.

Where there is order, there is Time to move, maintain and manage of. In one's own Peace of Mind.


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