Handouts

Things that are given to people who expect things from others, is never really appreciated. And I'll enlighten you with some of the reasons why:

They don't understand not on your time, but at the convenience of mine.

They don't get the word "sacrifice", they feel as if someone owes them something in life.

They don't loose sleep at not, only because they benefit from someone else who manages to try something else.

They are resistant to attempt  anything new, simply because it makes sense to wait on people like you.

They believe in the guilt trip; that no one really cares if they live or die.

They will listen to the truth but curse you if they are denied of what they have been accustomed to receive from a giver who has loving hands and an endless threshold of compassion to step in with an alternate plan.

Any person who expresses an act of kindness to another person whether big or small it is a wakeup call to respect the fact that someone else initiates the act of doing something cordially nice without thinking twice. And if we were to change what we indiscreetly over look, we may discover and appreciate how a handout is more than a transition of an object being placed in our hands. It is the gesture one person expresses to another of occupying what was never a solid plan.

Why Did You Not Marry

Why didn't you ever marry, you had so much love to give.

Why did you not commit to waiting for the right fit, it would have been worth it.

Why did you give of hope. Did you not know it was you who would make a happy home.

Why did you walk away when trials came. Did you not believe God knew who would stand with you in the rain.

Why did you not replenish the earth with a wife or husband of worth.

Why did you waste so much time in a relationship that was not right.

Why did you choose physical attributes over a long term mate, someone who would care for you when physical attributes changed.

Why continue to deny yourself a fulfilling journey with someone else.

Today is another opportunity to plan a wedding date with a prospective soul mate, just ensure you both work towards what you give and take.

The Art of Love

How many ways can you define love?

Love is committing the time to understanding each other's mind, body and soul.

Love seeks to satisfy what the soul can't deny, to feel alive.

Love seeks to be accompanied never alone.

Love is pure when respected between the two of what you both desire of one another to do.

Love has no limits within it's own lane.

Love is patient but hates games.

Love is nurturing of your mental, physical and spiritual needs.

Love is a connection beyond a physical touch it's a magnetic force that drives emotions, close.

Love requires full attention to satisfy it's appetite.

Love exposes what you try to hide,  deep inside.

Love keeps you awake at night with the overwhelming emotion of holding that person tight.

The anticipation of pressing your head upon a lover's chest, the tingles running down the back of your neck, the protection of knowing that someone else cares to have your back and the smiles upon your face that connect with every jerk is the passion we seek to satisfy the emotions we cannot deny.

The greatest gift in life was given because of one sacrifice. Love can be shown in numerous ways, express it responsibly especially in lonely times when you can't locate a lover or friend manage the fire that burns deep with desire.

A Daughters Prayer

Females & Males may are not always make wise choices. Because maturity requires  knowledge. That will dictate the positive r negative moves they both make.

I heard a little girl say I wish my daddy would, could spend more time. Are either mother could of, should of are ensured we both learned and matured together. In my life today because the real world is an unpredictable place where grownups are not always wise in the decisions we've r we're making. So if daddy could of come around and you both communicate. some of the choices I've made, to follow are unfollow of his lead if not misdirection. Would not of dictated the way either of us deal with of those stumbling blocks, that remain in my way, as a grown woman if not the men we groom face in the world today.

Buried Alive

I had a dream I was being buried alive but the dirt never covered my eyes. And immediately I realized this was not a dream it was my fears buried eternally inside of me. Because I believe God has forgiven me of all my wrong doings in this life, but the question is why haven't I.

Jeremiah 29:11
God knows the plans he has in store for you!

El Fenix

I woke up today weighing the difference between clutter and  options on my plate and immediately I decided to treat myself  first to some good food something we as a people refuse to do when going through.

As I approached the fine establishment the ambience took  my breath away and I know someone will sarcastically say it's not a 5 star place. But the Tex Mex cuisine and customer  service is what made my day.  In a different place of time. Filled with a hot plate of Spanish cuisine, savvy  courtesy and a Spanish dialect that tickles the pallet. And this is a day I can reflect on; because today someone else woke up from another culture to share a common space on many plates; of what is not cold. But alive. To serve food that is warm on a hot plate with a  smile. So whatever was clutter on their plates someone chose an alternative option to keep it moving beyond the struggles of life.  that could of determine whether you give up or continue to try accomplishing a few things in this weary life to survive.

Courage is finding the strength to conquering what is not always a coincidence "life".

Testimonials

Two stranger's oddly meet at the same time God had planned for them to share their testimonies and in that moment both parties would humbly hear one weep to another of their fears. It is when we are going through tough times God is often put on hold to hear a comforting line instead of the truth; that trials are in place to strengthen you before your BREAKTHROUGH..

There are dangers ahead so never be misled that God has or will ever forsake you of the only original blue print plan designed to save you!

James:1:3-4

Confidently Single

Single people opposites do attract but only is this expression true to territorial self confidence and if you're unsure about this statement in it's clarity confirm with the people you meet before climbing in between the sheets.

Get Better, Be Bold, Stay in Control.

Death

The feeling is overwhelming to grasp the thought of holding a person one day and tomorrow there suddenly taken away because our time is limited here on earth for us to cherish and value one another's worth before God decides the world can no longer love us eternally is when we will be  immediately retrieved and taken too a place of peace to sleep heavenly.

Lost Love

If a man or woman spills their heart to you of what could have been of a lost relationship that never developed because of the distance it's only an excuse. Because that person is secure of what they are not planning to do, which is making the "sacrifice" to secure a life with you.

No man or woman was created and  meant to be alone but when the direction of the relationship goes unclear never be afraid to accept the truth of what people speak but lack the vision to do of working towards a committed relationship with you.

Government Assistance

Once you invite the agencies to probe through your private life for assistance to recovering from the economical fight expect to be delayed and patient when treatment does not seem right. Don't allow judgment from other people to control the focus of your goals by allowing  anger to multiply inside.

Instead learn your legal rights because every human being will be tried in a crucial situation and their attitudes will also determine their final destination.

Be Encouraged!