Family, Friends & Relationships

The challenge we face is accepting to change the things we do that either affect ourselves or hurt someone else. Because everyone seeks validation and the truth. But not everyone is ready to handle the transformation we must go through.

Families of all races deal with discrepancies. Because of so many elements involved; favoritism between children, death, incest, money, marriages or someone's contribution of excessive responsibilities. And this twist of fate can result in a family dispute turned into a family feud.

Friendships require commitment, patience and loyalty but what I have discovered is not everyone is committed to initiating the truth. And the reason could possibly be; that friend is the self-infliction of  what they refuse to believe of " insanity". And this twist of fate can break a bond because people candidly want to see if you will mentally entertain what they may not be willing to necessarily change.

Married people is a mirror of what a finalized commitment should be. But take a deeper look inside their eyes individually not collectively. You will see the joy or pain of what their fairy tale actually reads, in reality. There is work involved in any relationship but prayer must come first so no person is left behind to struggle mentally in hard times.

Relationships are rare to find but once someone initiates quality time to reveal themselves to you don't be so quick to alter your original plans. Instead search for clarity so that your both on the same page. And if there are children involved make sure you have spent quality time to love them yourself, before sharing them with someone else.

Short testimonials created to salvage a weary mind. Because we can either agree or disagree that people are guilty of desiring to posses wants over God given needs in a mission to sustain some form of  Peace, Unity and their Sanity.

The Interview

Life does not require people to entertain or compromise one another. Life has many lessons and eventually every human being will play a part. Life is like an interview and maybe the reason why we're always trying to sale or prove ourselves to some 1 else.

Q&A

What are you searching for in a relationship? Remember what you say and what you mean are two different things.

The opportunity has arrived to deliver a 3 minute elevator speech. What do you say to blow the masses away?

If you won the lottery today, name 1 council you would call, 1 person you can trust with your life. And 3 area's of interest you would invest to make a difference.

If you were to mentor children in distress how prepared are you to share values, morals and beliefs in which you built your family?

If you could speak globally on human rights and trafficking, genocide and poverty what truth would bring tears to the eyes of all leaders that bargain innocent lives? Then why do people decide not to vote on what may restore our hope. With knowing the exception of red tape; that has taken some Voters rights away.

If someone propositioned you to compromise your values due to unexpected circumstances that forced your hand. What will you sacrifice to not struggle in this life? Because some people will trade their children away for a temporary relief; money.

If delays, denials and rejection lowers your self-esteem, do you continue to pray or give up by walking away?

If love takes time what are the chances it's online?
Love is a gentle emotion but anger is an aggressive expression that hurts another person. By physical and mental abuse. Which is a message that person is not extending compassion and love to you. No person was meant to live or die alone in this life. So why do we mistreat one another while there is still time; to get it right.

Life is like an interview so dress your best, focus and be prepared to perform for multiple test.

Investors

Calling all investors into the loop there is a prospective candidate in search of you. To invest in a diverse avenue which will read extraordinary and new.

The fear of not  knowing what to innovate of something new can be intimidating but simply resolved by finding a purpose and use for us all.

"God's going to put somebody's mind who's in a positive place to restore", what's been lost.

Now run on and keep the faith!

Engineers of the future generation Chemical, Civil, Industrial, Mechanical & Electrical etc...

Billboard

Re: Domestic Abuse r Child Abuse 

To all the victims of domestic violence I would love to share my encouraging experience with you.  As a child I witnessed the pain, fear and abuse you are currently going through and please understand even as a child I had to believe some where, someone else really cared to remove us from the nightmare that kept us running scared. And the truth of the matter was there was help waiting on the other side to heal our hearts and rebuild our lives.

This person who has shattered your dreams, violated your trust, filled your heart with pain leaving you with low self-esteem has no real control over the hell you've really manage to get through. So in this moment were ever you are please  find a reason to fight so your children, family or even someone else may have a future with you in their lives, to live, laugh and love again, but this time expect things to be different.

Our legal system has penalties for violating a person's preservation of life through restraining orders, petitions and felonies reprimanded for acts of domestic violence to be later released and in some cases this abuser is guilty of continuing to prey on the same victim who seeks refuge from systems set in place that should  properly communicate new protocols collectively to ensure the victims rights from domestic violence are not violated twice. Because we the people are governed by laws that should value every individuals freedom, protection and right to live life.

Handouts

Things that are given to people who expect things from others, is never really appreciated. And I'll enlighten you with some of the reasons why:

They don't understand not on your time, but at the convenience of mine.

They don't get the word "sacrifice", they feel as if someone owes them something in life.

They don't loose sleep at not, only because they benefit from someone else who manages to try something else.

They are resistant to attempt  anything new, simply because it makes sense to wait on people like you.

They believe in the guilt trip; that no one really cares if they live or die.

They will listen to the truth but curse you if they are denied of what they have been accustomed to receive from a giver who has loving hands and an endless threshold of compassion to step in with an alternate plan.

Any person who expresses an act of kindness to another person whether big or small it is a wakeup call to respect the fact that someone else initiates the act of doing something cordially nice without thinking twice. And if we were to change what we indiscreetly over look, we may discover and appreciate how a handout is more than a transition of an object being placed in our hands. It is the gesture one person expresses to another of occupying what was never a solid plan.

Why Did You Not Marry

Why didn't you ever marry, you had so much love to give.

Why did you not commit to waiting for the right fit, it would have been worth it.

Why did you give of hope. Did you not know it was you who would make a happy home.

Why did you walk away when trials came. Did you not believe God knew who would stand with you in the rain.

Why did you not replenish the earth with a wife or husband of worth.

Why did you waste so much time in a relationship that was not right.

Why did you choose physical attributes over a long term mate, someone who would care for you when physical attributes changed.

Why continue to deny yourself a fulfilling journey with someone else.

Today is another opportunity to plan a wedding date with a prospective soul mate, just ensure you both work towards what you give and take.

The Art of Love

How many ways can you define love?

Love is committing the time to understanding each other's mind, body and soul.

Love seeks to satisfy what the soul can't deny, to feel alive.

Love seeks to be accompanied never alone.

Love is pure when respected between the two of what you both desire of one another to do.

Love has no limits within it's own lane.

Love is patient but hates games.

Love is nurturing of your mental, physical and spiritual needs.

Love is a connection beyond a physical touch it's a magnetic force that drives emotions, close.

Love requires full attention to satisfy it's appetite.

Love exposes what you try to hide,  deep inside.

Love keeps you awake at night with the overwhelming emotion of holding that person tight.

The anticipation of pressing your head upon a lover's chest, the tingles running down the back of your neck, the protection of knowing that someone else cares to have your back and the smiles upon your face that connect with every jerk is the passion we seek to satisfy the emotions we cannot deny.

The greatest gift in life was given because of one sacrifice. Love can be shown in numerous ways, express it responsibly especially in lonely times when you can't locate a lover or friend manage the fire that burns deep with desire.

A Daughters Prayer

Females & Males may are not always make wise choices. Because maturity requires  knowledge. That will dictate the positive r negative moves they both make.

I heard a little girl say I wish my daddy would, could spend more time. Are either mother could of, should of are ensured we both learned and matured together. In my life today because the real world is an unpredictable place where grownups are not always wise in the decisions we've r we're making. So if daddy could of come around and you both communicate. some of the choices I've made, to follow are unfollow of his lead if not misdirection. Would not of dictated the way either of us deal with of those stumbling blocks, that remain in my way, as a grown woman if not the men we groom face in the world today.

Buried Alive

I had a dream I was being buried alive but the dirt never covered my eyes. And immediately I realized this was not a dream it was my fears buried eternally inside of me. Because I believe God has forgiven me of all my wrong doings in this life, but the question is why haven't I.

Jeremiah 29:11
God knows the plans he has in store for you!

El Fenix

I woke up today weighing the difference between clutter and  options on my plate and immediately I decided to treat myself  first to some good food something we as a people refuse to do when going through.

As I approached the fine establishment the ambience took  my breath away and I know someone will sarcastically say it's not a 5 star place. But the Tex Mex cuisine and customer  service is what made my day.  In a different place of time. Filled with a hot plate of Spanish cuisine, savvy  courtesy and a Spanish dialect that tickles the pallet. And this is a day I can reflect on; because today someone else woke up from another culture to share a common space on many plates; of what is not cold. But alive. To serve food that is warm on a hot plate with a  smile. So whatever was clutter on their plates someone chose an alternative option to keep it moving beyond the struggles of life.  that could of determine whether you give up or continue to try accomplishing a few things in this weary life to survive.

Courage is finding the strength to conquering what is not always a coincidence "life".

Testimonials

Two stranger's oddly meet at the same time God had planned for them to share their testimonies and in that moment both parties would humbly hear one weep to another of their fears. It is when we are going through tough times God is often put on hold to hear a comforting line instead of the truth; that trials are in place to strengthen you before your BREAKTHROUGH..

There are dangers ahead so never be misled that God has or will ever forsake you of the only original blue print plan designed to save you!

James:1:3-4