Deep Breathe

The Gift of Knowing is  powerful. But not so enlightening in areas it causes stress from being dissected with correction. So more than often  FREEZE & BREATHE, then next proceed.

In life Patience manages our Control over the areas; we as human beings in moderation can't handle.

We never think to ask the right questions, so therefore we get round about answers. But once we figure out:

The title itself does not always connect; to the eyes of the observers.

The stories can be told, but there is never a one that a human being has not been heard & been through.

The marriage ceremony and relationships are different and complex. Depending on the viewers idea of possessing it. Or a combination including the level of commitments. But no one has figured out the right key turns with communication. No matter what the Laws of The Land made of a requirement.

There is no right or wrong Q&A; we as a people must learn how to relate. Whether it be through experience, which everyone thinks they have it but choices prove different.  Or sought of knowledge, but some people prey on the exemption of knowledge. In areas that mislead our understandings?

The reality is something NEW happens everyday in our lives, Reality shows are real people portraying their lines. Through viewers dissecting each line. Married people are seeking to build and understand one another, while working on each other. In a mystery of a moment seeking answers outside of one another. For what is dialogued as communication purposes. Really, can other people always have your answers in a made up mind of choices? To recognize if not fix; something time has expired in?

Our formal or informative way of relating to one another will create pressure, and it's not a requirement in every "human action" we need to have a "COME BACK" conversation. Maybe if we "respect the word work is a natural requirement, in dealing with human beings". Be wise where your feet are directed and your mind reaps a small volume to grasp more UNDERSTANDING.

After a long day at work, I decided to work on some advancement details in my life. Immediately I received a call that said "look outside your door". Of course I thought to myself I did not plan for any company. But our plans or not always in line with another persons plans of what they seek over-time.

The moral of this story is a Woman will teach you valuable lessons. And a Man is direct in simply showing you truth in what he is not always saying, but thinking through. Experiences will change you.We have to be honest within ourselves about what we choose to see and hear. Not limited to The Laws of The Land non revised version of their requirements.

So what if life had provided us warning that troubles will come. And people will grow weary with one another at any-time. Would it have made a difference, because life for us, them are other's; either did or didn't?


-Angel L

PUSH DELETE

We can create good & bad habits in our lives, and it's unfortunate they become hard to delete with time.

What if we would have known in our working careers, education or job overtime there was a slight possibility it would not make us riches in Wisdom. But the real purpose was to expand our vision, in taking care of our own personal business.

What if we would had held onto those people who were spontaneous & fun for a moment in our life. Could we of promised one another " personal change" would of not "affected us". Or that our "trials" together we could of handled?

What if we never get our finances sewed up this life is not promised forever, neither is the unexpected coming later. And some of us or selfish to assume; that someone else has time for forever, without sacrificing from their own dreams and goals.     

What happens when our children continue to watch and emulate  everything we demonstrate in front of them? And it's ok everybody was not raised the same in mannerism and respect. Just remember a leader dictates, a follower who is seeking. 

I listen to men say "I'm trying hard to be a good man", without reservations. I said to a man "life has it's own plan, stay true to yourself & pray, then don't over think it for everyone else".

I listen to  woman say I just want to be the best I can be, and find someone to share it with. I said "girl friend look in the mirror everyday, and speak to yourself I am growing everyday" and pray.


See not 1 HUMAN being is perfect in any race, we only seek in one another  uninterrupted "EXPECTATIONS".  And before we understand our own purpose, why not stop allowing other distractions to PLAY in our DELETED section. 

On behalf of this BLOG, I give honor to my mom for teaching me how to push the DELETE button.

Body Topics

The power is in the tongue; so will we ever learn in using it, does not always require us to say anything with it.

The Body spoke using the tongue and said to the mind, heart and soul “allow me some time to rest”, from feeling unappreciated. Eventually the eyes observed the conversation which tickled the ears to make a connection. Stimulating the nerves is when the hands appeared out of nowhere, for the feet to move around unsure of what is going down.

We may not have all the same attributes, but we do learn to manage our bodies and adjust to what comes natural in us.  

We may not move or think alike; but we do respond with an individual mind.

We may or not all have a good intention in our heart; but we can feel what is missing in another.

We may not all see with the eyes one vision; but we do choose in how we utilize our eyes to see how our feet move in different directions.

We are not made up of one soul; that bounds us to be together for eternity. The soul allows us to connect, while TIME allows us permission.

We may not all value one another or what we have; but we do hear with our own ears who is making their own choices.                     

The hands touch in making physical connections. But if they did not exist; use the body parts that make up for it. To keep it moving. 
 

Someone

How is it right when people want one thing from you and wrong when you need something in return?  We all need a chance to prove to ourselves, knowing we are not perfected. We’re only worthy of having something or someone else.

Trying to find love in a world so insecure and cold, no one is perfect but growing alone in any season eventually gets old. So instead we treat one another like everybody else, instead of somebody to care about. Is it too much for a fragile heart to search for an understanding in our thoughts?  

Who is that person who will not deceive or hurt us?  Who can recall feeling up; in their emotions?

Who has not experienced a stage of acting young in our thinking and conversation? Then figure out growing older did not mean growing up; get's easy?

Who has not did the picking of wrong people in the wrong seasons?

The point is we don’t all have to be perfect. We just need to make one another feel like we both serve a real purpose, instead of giving up; on one another.

 

Coffee

In a world of Freedom of Speech we don’t always agree collectively; about racial topics that silence voices.  

African American people are gracious to watch and bold to touch. And we all know how this race did not spare in their contributions to making us a great nation.

In the beginning the faith of this race was smudged in the long lines of boundaries, worn hardships, grooved chains and bolted down confinement. That remains unrested on crinkle paper in distress. And yes the stain from that coffee still remains fresh as well as the aroma over brewed up conversations. And with all due respect this may be my own opinion. But let’s stir up this old Coffee pot to loosen those grains up, that remain lodged inside of us.

“A mother of all colors once said “twice a child, once an adult", and if you  keep on living you will see what has been planted of generational seeds in their children to strive for “perfection”  “nothing gained, nothing earned” if not “aim for progression” in the REAL WORLD you will experience cultural differences. And where there is no love and respect, people lose compassion and confidence.

This pot is almost half way done. Whether you enjoyed your warm sip or allowed it to get cold. The next time you select a topic while enjoying your coffee conversation; consider change can happen in a split second; over a cup of coffee.

 

 

The Element of Time

Neither one us was born rich. And neither one of us will die poor. No human being will remain young until they ACCEPT growing old. And understanding in the process that a full life is filled with wise decisions & selective choices.

You can improve yourself daily in this life. You can continue to deal with people that cause you darkness if not the demons we all fight. Or we can stumble our fragile feet on rocks and stones. Until we figure out; what our living and purpose is about.

I ask myself what is important about validation in this life.  Well, it's a form of security we all seek from one another overtime.

I walked in my own shoes my whole life. Some people need re-examination of who they are to accept who they are afraid of. While other people have figured it out; that life is going to work itself out.   

But let’s not leave on this note, since we no longer respect the POWER of LOVE in HOPE. Let’s talk about MONEY something we all can debate or communicate, from the beginning of this page.

Entre-preneur-ship

A title connected to; two bad habits that will hook you into mastering a performance in a knowledgeable way. While discovering what you’re capable of doing, in a World Wide quest to project how people re-act “through mass production, inventions, products and services”.

And once you figure out how to approach your next quest, in an effort to being the next Entrepreneur stirring your own ship. Investigate the multitude of information you will receive. Based on the only questions you seek. Until growth & experience takes place in the way you learn to communicate. With diverse people who have done their thorough homework or minimum research.

        

·        Habits are easy to obtain. The one cure is to stay committed & focused in your own destiny.

·        Instant gratification is not always a reality. Don’t sale yourself short to float in a false reality of hope.

In anything work is a required regime. And not everything or person is meant to grow with you, listen closely to why " to your next LEVEL in this life". 

·        Where your feet will move with consistency. You’ve got to identify with; endurance, extra passengers, and possess patience to gain an abundance.

·       And for every abundance don’t always expect it to fit into your hands. One can easily lose a focus to seeing a broader vision?

Remember not every human being will run at the same speed. Not every handshake is sincere, not every note taker is writing on your page. Not everybody understands your sacrifice and pain.

As a child my grandmother wrote letters every day, was born in the 1920’s. Her daddy was a farmer of his own land. Her mother passed at an early age. She taught her siblings how to read and write. My grandmother was a valedictorian in her life. She served as a humanitarian in every cultural community. She fed the poor & assisted in locating shelter for the dislocated. She encouraged her children and others in continuing education, and career development, and worked humbly for the masses with no complaints. I was blessed to hold her in my life. Most importantly I paid closer attention to TIME.   

Author of Angel L. LIFE pages,

The Burdens of a Heavy Heart, Breaking the Yolk, People Struggles & Stereotypes, and the Writer "author, owner to the words" on this Blog of  "lifelit.org".

Incapable

What amount of time is enough, to accept lesser of what u give of more, to someone else who is INCAPABLE.

Although in the end of this Incapable emotion. Have no regrets that u were capable to cross over an ocean, only to be refused of someone else to cross  over a puddle.

Next time one door closes for you in this life. Peep to see who is behind the other before opening up to; what u r capable of. In exchange for what they refuse. 

BLUSH II

Ladies a man will ask “what do you want in a man” A boy will prove to you “I know you wanted it, too”.   

In either of your preferences Reply with one response: a girl’s way, if not a woman.

I need a man with a pallet of different taste. He will say “what do you mean”.  I need a man who is adventurous but also knows his strengths, vision & weakness.

Ladies some men will not respect, your comfort zone. Unless you show up for either of them in what you will or will not do. And in return is how a man or boy will respect you.

Ladies men are observant, but not always verbal. Watch out of what we over compensate in our woman strength. For either it could be; their ultimate mission. 

Ladies a man want’s to be shown “appreciation”, “submission” & “respect”. Remember in either of them, they also have to know if not grow to learn; it needs to be reciprocated back.   

Ladies we are not always 100% accurate, neither is a man or boy always 50% percent correct. So seeking 50/50 will possibly set us both back, in either of our selections. So allow a hunter to master what he was permissioned to do. And continue in being the prey. Eventually a man or boy will surrender. In what we both will figure out, if not learn together in what our choices and growth is really about. Out of the LOVE we've managed to create; in a WAR we lose both our ways.  

BLUSH

I gotta come down from this natural high. Cause it got me thrusting to grasp  more of it’s gravitating drive. I’m starting to see how to hold onto; what is in everyday being taken advantage of. In human arrogance.

I’m over trying to get pass; all the hard times. I ain’t stressed about; unecessariness. I’m not trying to multiply then divide; who is going to subtract or add to me in this life. Cause I’m so focused now; from the places we all fall. And stumble to stand UP TALL. My heart has also been broken like anybody else. But I refuse to accept “telling pity stories of being down is always changing circustances around”.  

I’m reaping harvest in every season that won’t die; because of  my vision I took some time to groom & nurture my attitude.  

Hardtimes taught me to fight without always utilizing my tongue & hands, heartache stregnthened me in places that weakness is broken. Love & Laughter taught me the struggles is real; but not always necessary to say it is. Tears are always necessary in a state of fearful confusion, love making is a treasure hidden with communication. And beauty is in the eyes of who stands in front of  the mirror.

The entire time on this journey SOMETIMES wandering, weary and worn; this HIGH I have was given by permissions. In areas LIFE's storms were destined to happen. Of every Arthur’s ending of fruits bared and labored rendered.

-Angela L

Limbo

I won't complain; about nothing.

For people will grow weary; overtime.  Forgetting the good shown when they needed it the most. Be confident in knowing; who u can depend on.

Have you ever sought in yourself.  The things that I complain about. Could possibly be that thing that I may consider of a  requirement to change in myself? Why, because we live in an unpredictable place where our choices will evaluate every human move me initiate; to make.

Then once you've evaluated yourself the things you once complained about.  Will seem real small in a large unpredictable World.

Therefore someone else is not always to blame. You are not always a victim of someone else's reasoning.  In areas of ourselves that we refuse to change.

Angel L
I took account of my life today. And I am so grateful to see the U-turn directed in seasons for me.