Grandchildren II

Good morning to All; grandchildren around the world. Including my own..

We know the pandemic is causing weird behavior. Because we all are looking like aliens. But rest assure you will soon enough; return back into our arms. And maybe some grandparents are ok with the  separation or others not. Its depends on the circumstances just keep praying & working. God knew the reasoning in why people change over-time.

Most than often life happens and people break; in a shift that takes place in the atmosphere. Where relationships grow apart for little petty reasons and childesh communucations in all the adults. And more than often  children are extracted from the love of those willing  grandparents who have been with them since the day they arrived outside of that mothers womb; and a father who still is or the man who accepted the responsibilities.

And what I mean is this; parents make up two people who cohabitated to makeup the bloodline of their children. And in the event the family is blended; there is the makeup of two sides or multiple lines of blood grandparents. But when life happens people get mean & spiteful over selfish issues. The children are wounded only because of the grandparents who chose to be in their lives are now struggling to deal with unhealthy issues of a multitude with people who decided to get involved.

Again; Grandparents rights by law is an option to form an effective alternative of establishing continuation of the children's relationship with their bloodline of grandparents. And for each circumstances is different if you are seeking the guardianship. Just ensure the intention is right. For the interest of these grand children or child. And  the motive is not to gain money for an independent lifestyle on ether either side. Real Love cannot be falsified by intervention of  occupying these children in time with random family members. Or presented with stories of holes around the footprints over time. This is not a competion. These are lives that will be impacted based on our unity & channels of effective communications.

For the record life did not come with a manual it was meant that we learn from one another. And our mistakes if not reckless choices in our behaviors. And for better understanding where in the bible were we promised in humanity there will be no  hardships. And if it takes a village to raise our children then why are they being harbored from the truth of those who always; will ensure to never miss an opportunity to be in their lives are receive a call. Where there are text, curse words and voicemails? Because they maybe tiny today, or to young to tell you their hurts & broken feelings. But tomorrow it will be the pain these children will show you in rebellious ways. For their heartache that has aged.

A grandparents love is priceless; for those adults who have come to reasoning by dealing with the personal issues. And for those grandparents who had to accept change is required on both sides. Life & time only allows us to be "once an adult and twice a child" so when do the children get a chance to breathe & have a peace of mind? But if you missed out on an opportunity to teach, share and love on these grandbabies there is a chance you will leave this world with some or no regrets. And not every grandparent is going to pay for another who chose to stay away.

Why is this a true statement; allow us to uncover the process of life where the pains reflects who is bringing it upon themselves; for some people cannot conceive children who would be loving parents, some people resent their own children  because they were seeking love; before knowing it in themselves. And others wanted this family they could not have in their own personal lives. Or some people are selfish enough to pick & choose who I will love for you. If not realizing the reason why grandparents who fight for these grandchildren had choices to make; for what they see in the absence of a parent or the unnecessary struggles an entire family will deny of their own truth. Over a generation of lies. As those adults who remain comfortable as those babies lack in the knowledge to know & be loved by their other people. That are fighting for them.

Arguments & belittling will not accomplish healing. Communication & work will create a solid foundation. In the end these kids will know & feel they were loved; by all their people who did not give up.

Tongue

The power is in the tongue. Whatever is spoken from it immediately opens up the ears that stimulates the  information into the brain. As the hands quiver to write every word that has been spoken throughout life. Of how our feet trampled from end to end of the earth. And if you had not taken a moment to reflect on your thoughts; enlighten yourself and allow your pallets to rest. While the eyes focus on allowing the eye lids to slowly lower the blinds; from the sun rays or the night lights.    

The writings on this blog, are unique in style. Every word that has been written; has also been spoken from the human tongue. And although we all may not speak different languages or comprehend at the same level of understandings; our existence captures our life stories. On a platform where the world is watching. 

We were all Authors born at birth. How so, it was our life we shared by entering in this world. A life history of how we live or lived. It is in the stories we read if not discuss; regarding our successes & tribulation amongst each other. And not all of those stories will or have turned into a book; or advertised for the world to acknowledge it. However, its our "footprints" we leave in this life. That will speak on stories of every chapter we enter into or leave behind.       

In Memory of the day you were born. In Honor of the days you are continuing to live in. And power in  the tongue for the Author who will share your story in the end.

Our stories will not be far from the same; who has not in humanity lived a life knowing; joy, sacrifice and love exist? Without traveling on a journey of; famine, heartache & pain?

Ghost Writer: Dominique White, 1991-2020

Life Motivation

The seasons are going to change and so is humanity. Our bodies and minds over the years will progress in a transition. Because the mucles & brain is communicating how we have used them over the years of our life spans. And because fear is a factor & humanities greatest enemy; its time to face a transition that will prepare the nature of who we are; internally & externally in appreciating the value in what "our appearances" have become. To continue our positive changes to teaching the next generation of whom we are parenting, mentoring & teaching; to take the Paton to lead on. 

If you are not occupying your mind with positive time; read or enjoy a puzzle. Or take a walk to allow the blood flow. As that Vitamin D is restored. But if your physically unable to move about. Someone unselfishly place a call to check up or in with your people, person or friend. 

Yesterday we had more than enough of time on our hand, for generations we put ourself intentions; first. And every weekday we shove the children out the doors to rush them back into the school doors. As we drove deliriously down the freeways to arrive if not; make payroll checks. Until time stepped in and called to our attention. Today you will be busy with life but not at the multitude you all were runnung through it. 

Today, we will learn to accept change. And in that change we will either grow or be lead in different directions with unclear clarity in storms of; lack, unemployment, welfare, illness, closed doors or out of business, product & demand shortages. And Privileges that still remain an arguement of who has access of what has been created of walls to blind the people from seeing The Sun is out. But until you think & act in the realm of behaviors that are positive; you will fit into the negative. No matter what race you are; or  status humanity has staged of a bar. 

If it was not for the truth in human history; we would always find reasoning in lies.  To justify if not validate the politics; around why, who and what outcome of the postive vs. negative will just take more time to deliver a word carried around "previledges" that was created to unequally balance out the change for them. See why the negative has to exist.  Someone was intensely looking for a "word" to identify us, those or them. Of generational lines of the curse to have life for we continue to deny segregating them by the Have & Have nots.

And reality is this; we as a people did not harvest on the same land. But neither was the land stolen & given back without a high cost to the splintered hands that labored on it.. are neither over history were we all heirs, socially respected, highly educated, and economically advanced if not impacted; it was the lack in using common sense in preparing for a generation of set back. So in the event we're continuing in wasting more time to allocate judgement for the next generation to come. Father Time has clapped back 8 proven to humanity we will grow, progress and process patience.

White Privilege

Lets start with words do not define All; unless the word is demonstrated in a unity of behaviors. 

The word opens up a touchy & emotional topic to speak about; if we can also address speaking on the affect it carry's on the back of racial injustices, social and economical prejudices.

When we speak in a forum of a clash in cultural indifferences without respecting there is problem that has been statismic the history of generations. In accepting the advantage was the access over the disadvantaged being dragged & beaten through mental & physical oppressions. 

Humanity is not just flustered by the "title" itself. The anxiety stems as a whole around the behaviors demonstrated. And worn in pride of the title of White Privileges.

In a generation that is rebellious to internal change & accept accountability; it will stay a situation in challenges of  how did we manage not to recognize over generations how privileges; were utilized in creating an extension of the oppressions. To be later judged as "hardships" than an equal opportunity to a privilege. 

In humanity we can choose selective hearing & listening. Its not a privilege its a choice. As in doing so to communicate effectively to one another. And if we choose to respect communication is a two-way action expressed in our behaviors. We cannot deny equality has not been a privilege granted of access to a minority race. For over the history of generations we continue to argue, fight, die and debate. 

Abandoned

A place of lonliness, anger and disappointment. And if we think about a child feeling abandoned & alone. You have to wonder why & who is allowing them to carry this burden.

There are different scenarios in being abandoned. Maybe an economic crises caused poverty & great loss. Maybe someone walked away from a relationship of any status. Maybe a parent deceased and the other survived but did not allow themselves or anyone else to heal. Maybe obligations were left behind without proper communication to who was still accountable. Maybe a friendship was never mended; for a historic amount of reasoning. Maybe a few to many disagreements turned into a final separation. Or maybe people just find themselves alone; because they refuse or cannot accept letting go of the old baggage they clutch on to carry.

Maybe families could not agree in unity.  Maybe the world was filled with to many traveling bags seeking of joy while carrying burdens through generations. Therefore these bags never found a home to rest. So they were never unpacked before being abandoned. 

Inspiration

If you would take a challenge today; whether it be with someone one closes to you. Are maybe you will take this challenge by yourself. Then believe anything is possible. 

Because if we can see & feel the negative; we can believe in anything is possible to change for the positive. 

In challenging times; we do grow weary. Because the weight of life becomes a burden to carry. And with all due respect not everyone is a believer. And it is not rare that even believers loose hope and faith. Because we were not created & birth as perfect people; we were born to serve a purpose. In an imperfect world of circumstances.

My blogs are intense. So the stories touch home. I write each story that even a child could process in understanding. And you may disagree or not. But look at what we have demonstrated in the world that has taught us; about ourselves. And how we have followed one another throughout this life; right or wrong we continue in the struggle to get it right. But not always in ourselves; first.

If you have been addressed as being an enlightening person. Or overly positive if not optimistic. Stay true to who you are. Sometimes it takes a lifetime for people to figure out; how to love themselves. Because of that enlightening person is overly positive & sometimes optimistic when they always can share a part of themselves to love on someone else.

If we loose or never figure out our own identities in this life; how can we trust or live up to; the identity that has been given to us. 

BLOW

If you watch the network airways a leader spoke;and this is what  was said "its not the responsibility of the City  to heal their pain. Are ensure they adjust to change. 

Crimes of opportunity are all around us. And when we think of crime its not limited in the act. Its the idea of who commits the act. And who judges & determines the discipline, infrastructure, and who suffers intensely are abandoned on their own islands of inhabitants. 

In acknowledgement of our cities that remain vulnerable in stereotypes & stigmatisms of a formed opinion in what a culture is judged of collectively in behavior. This same judgment is the real people suffering from Production & Distribution which is a problem for the disadvantaged populations. Along with 2 more stems of viruses moving in from around the world. As waiting list are pending & Hubs are organizing but not enough in areas of those, us and them.

But if you have factored into thinking money can out smart the process; it may surprise you. That money cannot bargain in every race of discipline. Or Time and its own plan for us here on earth. 

The task are challenging. But until we understand disclipline does not have to be our disadvantage. If we work to heal ourselves. When challenges surface our people dont always have to be singled out to suffer or our children lack. 

Prerequsite skills is a requirement to reach another level. Its insanity to sleep on knowledge. And before this pandemic a generation of our children were already behind in knowledge and grades. If we do the math today. Tally those children in with the adults who are parents who refuse to accept constructive criticism or be corrected of what they lack of knowledge; is that of  arrogance or denial that will break the entire family to grow. 

Im in tact of knowing knowledge flows in my bloodline & if not used resourcefully we will fall behind the enemy lines of human distinction. Therefore its crucial if you got people who are willing & capable to reach out & help. What is the egoed insanity & denial about?

Every race  cannot survive on bread alone; the minds & bodies were created with expiration dates. And if knowledge lacks abroad in this Covid-19 in young & old. Of who catches up to read, write and do math our chances of survival are limited. 

The Disparity is the history abroad us in angered aggressions. As we stretch out our arms & legs to change. Denial is a condition we disagree in ourselves throughout humanity. Creating the confrontations; amongst every face & race around the world. 

WHY

In the event you woke up with a question "Why". Be prepared to accept their maybe answers but more than half of the reasoning; is not always going to give you a peace of mind. During this transition of time.

It is imperative we identify with our own self denials of acceptance. And continue in  asking for the truth. But when directed or given; it is shut down if not reiterated in a differeny style of communication. So with all due respect if a story is not your own testimony. There is a story that fits the lives we are connected to in some form or fashion. Why, because we are the makeup through generations of our bloodlines.

To start, I want to first honor the grandparents who put in effort to step in and love to raising these kids. So many children are being left out of knowing truth. And sometimes its the loss of a parent in any type of life changing transition.

To the children & parents who struggle to communicate. If you never had to be separated from one another its a devastating feeling. A bond in these uncertain times is priceless. Because tomorrow for either of you is not promised. 

To a domestic violence couple, strippers or drug dealers of any race. People do or deal drugs in every social status & race. Who ever you are; you have children that are watching the dysfunction. However, it does not mean that you dont love them. Its means you need to pay more attention to what is locked behind their tears. So one day you dont have to miss them. Or they dont have to wonder when you will turn the key behind that door; they are waiting.

To the have or have nots. Hell, its all confusing on who is claiming what. At the end of the day Peace of minds cannot be bargained with. And holding one another is priceless.

To our siblings if we cant trust one another; then who is our real enemy?

To the thief, murderer & liar. What happens once its revealed we all conspiring against one another? See until we accept we sleep with the enemy everynight; in ourselves. There will be no rest. But a whole generation of immature, selfish & unnecessary struggling.

Why, did I lose my job. At this point of time.

Why are people in the world so cold, compassionate if not cruel. Maybe an adjustment in attitudes will adjust the dials on humanities moods.

Why did the Covid-19 take so many of our families. 

Why, are the children being denied love & seeing their people. Foster cared for short term period in some houses of anguish. As some people seek to  gain a check or welfare benefits to yell "these my kids".

Why, are the drugs approved. And the courts are stacked with criminal cases. As real people are dying and the profits are marginalizing. 

Why, come he or she dont love me? Stop searching on line, blaming or forcing the process with more created obligations. And invest more time in fixing your mental mindset. Or communicate in that relationship you are already in. If not taking the other person for granted. 

Why, is or their parents always in the business. For the genuises in the world with limited investments or plans to see these children or adults succeed. We stand in between with intervention of anothers persons sneaky intentions. A parent who shows love & discipline without a reservation to step in. Is this child's business for a lifetime with unlimited interest. 

Why, is Satan real & God is the problem?

Again, this blog was narrative written on behalf of a generation of behaviors. Including myself & Dominique White on Kindle "The Burdens of A Heavy Heart, the beginnings of the days of our past & future generations.

Why, do we override the truth with lies and denials. And argue who has been mistreated; first when you put "Trust In God", maybe later, second if not.

A Good Man

Is not hard to find it just takes maturity & patience of understanding his 

Mind: Listen & Allow him to express himself, and re-evaluate his own mistakes. You were not by design created to fix him. Allow him space to bend & catch him when he is falling. 

Heart: Understand when he is feeling low. Why know no one can process what he is going through. Sometimes a mans pride & ego will shine through. Allow him space to fall to his knees. And learn how to pray with him; not over & on him. To a higher power that can lead you both in understanding.

Hands: Allow his hands to rest, tears from disappointments are part of the process. Just allow him your hands to hold & shoulders to lean on. This time so he can rest his weary heart & troubled mind.  

FEET: Remind him why he is not walking on this journey alone; the reality is God carries us all the time. Even when our feet stumble on rocks & stones. Are maybe he is non a believer. Just remember you were the RIB removed from Man; created in this life to be his companion. So at the end of the day. Allow his weary feet to find some  rest & peace. 

In Memory of a son, and many men of Gods own heart.     

Pause

The brain is unique; in how it protects knowledge that is the real threat. 

In respect of our elders; we honor you and respect your successes & triumphs. 

However, in a world of the most brightest of minds, rebellion & arrogance. All that knowledge goes unprotected. And it does not matter who you know or what you have established. In a world of the blind leading the blind there is chance; our fragile feet will end up on grounds of defeat.

We can learn from our mistakes; we can break in repeating them in redundancy. We can change the  makeup in our history; or we can choose to dress-up with the same makeup. 

We are guilty in humanity of complacency; if only we could of invested more of our time in paying closer attention to what grew out of hands; down the lines of generations. 

In this years election we witnessed a change of Power in leadership at a higher level; and at the same time in a different era, we witnessed adult children act out in rebellion. 

The other day the hood said nothing out of fear; the next week it was the same catastrophe that knocked at their door. And demanded they all fall to their knees and be humbled by what is to not be spoken on.

The masses watched in anxiety, and said this type of crime or change never happens here. Until life said different; today this is going to really happen. 

The mentality behind these government offices of some servies; is a mixture blended of compassion, intent and fixed morals, values and affixiated vendication. If I cant fix my past then why should your situation get a pass. What u shield a child from to suffer for in your choices. It will damage them mentally. And when they grow up to who we become dont ever wonder; what could I, we or them could of done. Every struggle does not have to be our legacies inheritance  of baggage to carry in the next generation.

For evey burden some of us carry of that load; is so the weak at heart wont break in hard times. 

The anniversary of life and death; a year ago on jan 15th Dominique White 28 yrs old was assassinated because of knowledge embraced by leaders such as MLK born Jan 15th assassinated for speaking up in truth, Jan. 5th little Rory 1yr old killed by gunviolence. And Coby Bryant and other families taken away in the blink of an eye on a plane ride. All these souls in January 2020. I remember before my sons demise his heart was heavy & mind filled with images of said so much hurt, deceit & lies, but he never stopped talking to God. Fast forward on March 16th Covid-19 appeared & called roll for over 300,000 & counting.

A young girl said; he was my man, as the other woman glared with internal anger "then yelled I have his child", then 1 day we woman found a platform to organize a conversation. But the intention was slick is the reason why betrayal separated the both of them. And not the man. Why, because of the man who planted the seeds in the both or one of them. Is not the reason why betrayal sneaked inside & denied his bloodline.

One day a father or mother ended of missing, and no one in the entire world knew what could of happened. But before this developing act, everyone that knew of them could tell a story. How unfortunate .

Time ask what is the plan?  Mankind replied figure out what u should of predicted to come; between our disrespectful crossed lines of  informal & selected times of communications. 

The Sauce

On every avenue or in any hood there are establishments that sale delicatessen; for the consumer who is looing for a delight to fill them of pleasure.

If we as humanity cannot make light in all of the circumstances we are consuming around the word; we will forget to act human if not grow cold and bitter with each other. My mother always said to me & I shared this with my friends & family "don't let any 1, or anything rob you of your joy". Because the seasons are going to bring a change, whether you are prepared or waiting for the change to delight your mind frame. And what we can establish together; is not all people are seeking good pleasure. 

I read the news articles today, and unfortunately the truth surfaced. Crime is increasing in Indiana a younger child massacred the entire family of 6 over a parent & son altercation, babies are still dying at the age of 7 due to the gun violence, food is short but the lines are long where real people working with the hands of  compassion, the farmers are awaiting to be approved so we can get some of those fresh veggies back in the stores, the housing market is booming for the 30 bids on that 1 corner the low income cannot afford, while welfare system has allocated an increased line of spending for those unable to stop and re-evaluate what is of our existing priorities in mouths to feed, as the unemployment lines are increasing, domestic violence is screaming in silence. As the children are asking why can't I see my momma or daddy? If not their people, all of us are not being forgotten. Because of our hearts are hurting for the stories we are hearing around us. But inside the heart we know they still love us.

Today, I woke up and looked the world. I saw Twitter pages, FB clicks, and Snap Chat. And no one had a real plan to heal the wombs of our internal suffering. All the news advertises is what & where if never why. All the social media in the world exposes who we are and who we know. And at the end of every pallet we as a people either end with a delightful message, or an ingredient to put back into that sauce of what we have established of our own life messages to the world.       

In Memory of D. White, its what we leave of in our foot prints, for the next generation to wobble if not walk in them.