Relationship Status

In our youth we were advised; to finish high school, attend college or the military. And approaching our twenties we were encouraged to take a trade or start our own business. Why, college is not neant for everybody..

As young women we were mentored or directed in our lives by inspiring people around us. Some mentors advised to not bare children until we are married. Some mentors advised us to obtain our own wealth if not find a good career or established man. Some mentors advised us to make long term investments. Some mentors left behind family wealth that we had or no knowledge of how to manage. While some of our guidance was misdirected and down the line our children grew up in the dysfunctional environment.  Mistaking love & affection for physical altercations and negative verbal communication.

As young men some were taught by the mentors to use their hands in laboring. Some mentors taught to watch the stock market, Some mentors taught to use your skillz to establish a community business, or obtain access to a fortune 500 company. More than enough mentors warned young men to think with your top head, first. The second head will cause you a life of situations. Some mentors saw the future and advised whatever journey you take, establish yourself before making a female your wife. And before you make children are obligate yourself to another mans children in his absence who chooses selected visitations. Prepare to accept not all females are wife material. Therefore if you are not prepared to take on a responsibility of another person that hides the truth regarding their situation. There is a possibility someone is going to be disappointed. Because time was lost on a good intention because of the lack of honesty and effective communication. 

Looking for a mate, partner, husband or wife; until we learn ourselves how can we commit to making promises to someone else? And in doing so who says we cant get it right. Whether you are chosen or not. As a people we must figure out; what is required of growth & change in ourselves. In a life & on social media everyone is seeking to be loved if not accepted for who they are. While placing high expectations on someone else to change. So many hearts young & old are hurting. When time allowed us both to heal if not witness the red flags of issues. 

We are not obligated to one another for our wants & desires. However making a commitment is determined by what we as an individual has searched of in ourselves. To be willing to make of a sacrifice for another in an investment with someone else. And no, not every sacrifice will be appreciated. 

The reality of a promise is this; promises can be broken. We all need room to grow as a people. Where we can make one another happy. But in reality it is impossible to say we will not make more than 1 bad choice or 2 mistakes. Sometimes we waste time in knowing the truth. Regarding how much we allow ourselves, to either settle for one another, attempt to fix of the internal brokenness because of the fear & time it is required of in healing. Are we either try to make-up for; in what we or someone else is missing in our lives of peace  & joy.

Eviction Moratorium

The eviction Moratorium is expected to last until the end of March; thus far 10millions of consumers are affected with rents & late fees, foreclosures and mortgages. So the quesion is crucially being sought of what happens after March. Once the algorithms flow; is no longer working at the leverage for generations it performed.

So the question is the government solving; we, us & them of the peoples real problems? If truth be accepted today over a lie or blinded denial; no one has a real answer above or below in any community around the globe. However plans are underway if not extension dates and pardons to buy more time. Around an algorithm that has finally shifted from being leveraged; throughout generations.

Throughout my blogs; the stories and passages are mature in language written on a platform of people speaking on  topics discussed. That will either impact or improve our life choices. Regardless of race, status and ages in the  interpretation of our collaboration. Of what next is going to happen. Unless we figure out our purpose, perspective and next of plans. Before the forseen forces our hands to move around. In areas we  are not if prepared to be acclimated in; while waiting to be told which way to move or go. 

We challenge ourselves in questioning knowledge & wisdom; by destroying its physical existence. And then we wander & wonder why; common sense is dissolving in the midst around us. In this life every move played, has not been a well thought out plan. When Life has been our greatest mentor the entire time. It has been taken for granted. By a few if not many; by humanity in behaviors  has proven for every cause there is an affect. Now how prepared are we to take a course of action; in the event both vaccination distributions slow- down. In a world of peace makers, disobedience & arrogance. As another surge is slowly onboarding.

The anxiety rises to reopen establishments during a time that is not allowing the process or 2nd doses to catch up. To cure all, and restore life back as we knew of it; to normal. 

Ghost Writer-Dominique White, my son shared an idea. The same steps were his body was shot. He said one day I will purchase this apartment building. Rebuild these splintered doors and bloddy steps & restore a home for  many who seek change. I said to my child; never share your dreams with even a few average minded thinkers around you. And no matter where your feet land. Its what u shared of your plans & vision to grow; a garden that only needed water.

Sunday

If you rose up out of bed it is a blessing; we, you are them are still amongst the living. "Amen".

If you got the same bills due from last week. "In the name of Jesus, "I am debt free", for there are those in the book of "Haggai" with holes in their pockets.

If that spouse stayed out late if not returned home, or he or she woke up in the same house. "Amen God is still in the deliverance business".

If you are able to use the components of your body and mind to; text, click on social media and follow if not post during this jobless time and volumes of emotional loss. "In the name of Jesus give me understanding in the time I've been granted. To contemplate on my purpose & a new life perspective". For the days are shorter as time is moving forward.

If that grown child is struggling with drugs, prostitution & alcoholism rich or poor in spirit. "In the name of Jesus, these chain are breaking loose, now release my child that is covered with the blood". And lead me to you incase I now need direction from you lord.

If you are feeling to low too pray; keep watch of the company you keep while going through the transitions of life. "In the name of Jesus I don't know every name, I am not perfect and I have made some mistakes. But I know a God more powerful than man. And I can pray along with others; for our amazing grace & mercy. To heal the hearts, bodies, minds, souls and hands to turn back to  Matthews beautitudes. We weap for our love ones that have perished by the Covid-19, suicide, natural causes and Homicides commented out of arrogance"In the name of Jesus healing & vegeance belongs to God". Comfort us in the midnight of these long hours. Feed the hungry; of the first & not of the last, shelter the homeless, clothe the naked who suffer because they dont have a closet of selection. And then work on the minds of those who walk in lust and cover up their brokenness. Bless the small children and child who has their own. But suffer for the others in those same families who dont. Heal the parents who are following the blind. Blessed of those parents  who will reach back and show them love, interest and compassion. And restore the leaders who have sold out are lost sight of the mission of the people. Blessed are the peacemakers who suffer for your name. Dismantle the enemies plan.

Watch over every corner of this earth. This morning the smallest of children are being sold for sin; as some of these mothers, fathers and even families are mentally at peace. If not dealing with their own internal demons.

If your church doors are chained, locked or maybe God is not in your heart. And even if you are not a believer or strayed away from God. Remember in those times you needed God to understand your struggles & circumstances. It was Gods second chances that you are still here. While Satan sits and waits to see whom or road you will choose; to take.

Ghost Writer-Dominique White 1991-Jan. 15, 2020 8:10am.

Gods word "if my people will humble themselves; then I will heal the land", of what humanity has seen that no man can.

Grandchildren II

Good morning to All; grandchildren around the world. Including my own..

We know the pandemic is causing weird behavior. Because we all are looking like aliens. But rest assure you will soon enough; return back into our arms. And maybe some grandparents are ok with the  separation or others not. Its depends on the circumstances just keep praying & working. God knew the reasoning in why people change over-time.

Most than often life happens and people break; in a shift that takes place in the atmosphere. Where relationships grow apart for little petty reasons and childesh communucations in all the adults. And more than often  children are extracted from the love of those willing  grandparents who have been with them since the day they arrived outside of that mothers womb; and a father who still is or the man who accepted the responsibilities.

And what I mean is this; parents make up two people who cohabitated to makeup the bloodline of their children. And in the event the family is blended; there is the makeup of two sides or multiple lines of blood grandparents. But when life happens people get mean & spiteful over selfish issues. The children are wounded only because of the grandparents who chose to be in their lives are now struggling to deal with unhealthy issues of a multitude with people who decided to get involved.

Again; Grandparents rights by law is an option to form an effective alternative of establishing continuation of the children's relationship with their bloodline of grandparents. And for each circumstances is different if you are seeking the guardianship. Just ensure the intention is right. For the interest of these grand children or child. And  the motive is not to gain money for an independent lifestyle on ether either side. Real Love cannot be falsified by intervention of  occupying these children in time with random family members. Or presented with stories of holes around the footprints over time. This is not a competion. These are lives that will be impacted based on our unity & channels of effective communications.

For the record life did not come with a manual it was meant that we learn from one another. And our mistakes if not reckless choices in our behaviors. And for better understanding where in the bible were we promised in humanity there will be no  hardships. And if it takes a village to raise our children then why are they being harbored from the truth of those who always; will ensure to never miss an opportunity to be in their lives are receive a call. Where there are text, curse words and voicemails? Because they maybe tiny today, or to young to tell you their hurts & broken feelings. But tomorrow it will be the pain these children will show you in rebellious ways. For their heartache that has aged.

A grandparents love is priceless; for those adults who have come to reasoning by dealing with the personal issues. And for those grandparents who had to accept change is required on both sides. Life & time only allows us to be "once an adult and twice a child" so when do the children get a chance to breathe & have a peace of mind? But if you missed out on an opportunity to teach, share and love on these grandbabies there is a chance you will leave this world with some or no regrets. And not every grandparent is going to pay for another who chose to stay away.

Why is this a true statement; allow us to uncover the process of life where the pains reflects who is bringing it upon themselves; for some people cannot conceive children who would be loving parents, some people resent their own children  because they were seeking love; before knowing it in themselves. And others wanted this family they could not have in their own personal lives. Or some people are selfish enough to pick & choose who I will love for you. If not realizing the reason why grandparents who fight for these grandchildren had choices to make; for what they see in the absence of a parent or the unnecessary struggles an entire family will deny of their own truth. Over a generation of lies. As those adults who remain comfortable as those babies lack in the knowledge to know & be loved by their other people. That are fighting for them.

Arguments & belittling will not accomplish healing. Communication & work will create a solid foundation. In the end these kids will know & feel they were loved; by all their people who did not give up.

Tongue

The power is in the tongue. Whatever is spoken from it immediately opens up the ears that stimulates the  information into the brain. As the hands quiver to write every word that has been spoken throughout life. Of how our feet trampled from end to end of the earth. And if you had not taken a moment to reflect on your thoughts; enlighten yourself and allow your pallets to rest. While the eyes focus on allowing the eye lids to slowly lower the blinds; from the sun rays or the night lights.    

The writings on this blog, are unique in style. Every word that has been written; has also been spoken from the human tongue. And although we all may not speak different languages or comprehend at the same level of understandings; our existence captures our life stories. On a platform where the world is watching. 

We were all Authors born at birth. How so, it was our life we shared by entering in this world. A life history of how we live or lived. It is in the stories we read if not discuss; regarding our successes & tribulation amongst each other. And not all of those stories will or have turned into a book; or advertised for the world to acknowledge it. However, its our "footprints" we leave in this life. That will speak on stories of every chapter we enter into or leave behind.       

In Memory of the day you were born. In Honor of the days you are continuing to live in. And power in  the tongue for the Author who will share your story in the end.

Our stories will not be far from the same; who has not in humanity lived a life knowing; joy, sacrifice and love exist? Without traveling on a journey of; famine, heartache & pain?

Ghost Writer: Dominique White, 1991-2020

Life Motivation

The seasons are going to change and so is humanity. Our bodies and minds over the years will progress in a transition. Because the mucles & brain is communicating how we have used them over the years of our life spans. And because fear is a factor & humanities greatest enemy; its time to face a transition that will prepare the nature of who we are; internally & externally in appreciating the value in what "our appearances" have become. To continue our positive changes to teaching the next generation of whom we are parenting, mentoring & teaching; to take the Paton to lead on. 

If you are not occupying your mind with positive time; read or enjoy a puzzle. Or take a walk to allow the blood flow. As that Vitamin D is restored. But if your physically unable to move about. Someone unselfishly place a call to check up or in with your people, person or friend. 

Yesterday we had more than enough of time on our hand, for generations we put ourself intentions; first. And every weekday we shove the children out the doors to rush them back into the school doors. As we drove deliriously down the freeways to arrive if not; make payroll checks. Until time stepped in and called to our attention. Today you will be busy with life but not at the multitude you all were runnung through it. 

Today, we will learn to accept change. And in that change we will either grow or be lead in different directions with unclear clarity in storms of; lack, unemployment, welfare, illness, closed doors or out of business, product & demand shortages. And Privileges that still remain an arguement of who has access of what has been created of walls to blind the people from seeing The Sun is out. But until you think & act in the realm of behaviors that are positive; you will fit into the negative. No matter what race you are; or  status humanity has staged of a bar. 

If it was not for the truth in human history; we would always find reasoning in lies.  To justify if not validate the politics; around why, who and what outcome of the postive vs. negative will just take more time to deliver a word carried around "previledges" that was created to unequally balance out the change for them. See why the negative has to exist.  Someone was intensely looking for a "word" to identify us, those or them. Of generational lines of the curse to have life for we continue to deny segregating them by the Have & Have nots.

And reality is this; we as a people did not harvest on the same land. But neither was the land stolen & given back without a high cost to the splintered hands that labored on it.. are neither over history were we all heirs, socially respected, highly educated, and economically advanced if not impacted; it was the lack in using common sense in preparing for a generation of set back. So in the event we're continuing in wasting more time to allocate judgement for the next generation to come. Father Time has clapped back 8 proven to humanity we will grow, progress and process patience.

White Privilege

Lets start with words do not define All; unless the word is demonstrated in a unity of behaviors. 

The word opens up a touchy & emotional topic to speak about; if we can also address speaking on the affect it carry's on the back of racial injustices, social and economical prejudices.

When we speak in a forum of a clash in cultural indifferences without respecting there is problem that has been statismic the history of generations. In accepting the advantage was the access over the disadvantaged being dragged & beaten through mental & physical oppressions. 

Humanity is not just flustered by the "title" itself. The anxiety stems as a whole around the behaviors demonstrated. And worn in pride of the title of White Privileges.

In a generation that is rebellious to internal change & accept accountability; it will stay a situation in challenges of  how did we manage not to recognize over generations how privileges; were utilized in creating an extension of the oppressions. To be later judged as "hardships" than an equal opportunity to a privilege. 

In humanity we can choose selective hearing & listening. Its not a privilege its a choice. As in doing so to communicate effectively to one another. And if we choose to respect communication is a two-way action expressed in our behaviors. We cannot deny equality has not been a privilege granted of access to a minority race. For over the history of generations we continue to argue, fight, die and debate. 

Abandoned

A place of lonliness, anger and disappointment. And if we think about a child feeling abandoned & alone. You have to wonder why & who is allowing them to carry this burden.

There are different scenarios in being abandoned. Maybe an economic crises caused poverty & great loss. Maybe someone walked away from a relationship of any status. Maybe a parent deceased and the other survived but did not allow themselves or anyone else to heal. Maybe obligations were left behind without proper communication to who was still accountable. Maybe a friendship was never mended; for a historic amount of reasoning. Maybe a few to many disagreements turned into a final separation. Or maybe people just find themselves alone; because they refuse or cannot accept letting go of the old baggage they clutch on to carry.

Maybe families could not agree in unity.  Maybe the world was filled with to many traveling bags seeking of joy while carrying burdens through generations. Therefore these bags never found a home to rest. So they were never unpacked before being abandoned. 

Inspiration

If you would take a challenge today; whether it be with someone one closes to you. Are maybe you will take this challenge by yourself. Then believe anything is possible. 

Because if we can see & feel the negative; we can believe in anything is possible to change for the positive. 

In challenging times; we do grow weary. Because the weight of life becomes a burden to carry. And with all due respect not everyone is a believer. And it is not rare that even believers loose hope and faith. Because we were not created & birth as perfect people; we were born to serve a purpose. In an imperfect world of circumstances.

My blogs are intense. So the stories touch home. I write each story that even a child could process in understanding. And you may disagree or not. But look at what we have demonstrated in the world that has taught us; about ourselves. And how we have followed one another throughout this life; right or wrong we continue in the struggle to get it right. But not always in ourselves; first.

If you have been addressed as being an enlightening person. Or overly positive if not optimistic. Stay true to who you are. Sometimes it takes a lifetime for people to figure out; how to love themselves. Because of that enlightening person is overly positive & sometimes optimistic when they always can share a part of themselves to love on someone else.

If we loose or never figure out our own identities in this life; how can we trust or live up to; the identity that has been given to us. 

BLOW

If you watch the network airways a leader spoke;and this is what  was said "its not the responsibility of the City  to heal their pain. Are ensure they adjust to change. 

Crimes of opportunity are all around us. And when we think of crime its not limited in the act. Its the idea of who commits the act. And who judges & determines the discipline, infrastructure, and who suffers intensely are abandoned on their own islands of inhabitants. 

In acknowledgement of our cities that remain vulnerable in stereotypes & stigmatisms of a formed opinion in what a culture is judged of collectively in behavior. This same judgment is the real people suffering from Production & Distribution which is a problem for the disadvantaged populations. Along with 2 more stems of viruses moving in from around the world. As waiting list are pending & Hubs are organizing but not enough in areas of those, us and them.

But if you have factored into thinking money can out smart the process; it may surprise you. That money cannot bargain in every race of discipline. Or Time and its own plan for us here on earth. 

The task are challenging. But until we understand disclipline does not have to be our disadvantage. If we work to heal ourselves. When challenges surface our people dont always have to be singled out to suffer or our children lack. 

Prerequsite skills is a requirement to reach another level. Its insanity to sleep on knowledge. And before this pandemic a generation of our children were already behind in knowledge and grades. If we do the math today. Tally those children in with the adults who are parents who refuse to accept constructive criticism or be corrected of what they lack of knowledge; is that of  arrogance or denial that will break the entire family to grow. 

Im in tact of knowing knowledge flows in my bloodline & if not used resourcefully we will fall behind the enemy lines of human distinction. Therefore its crucial if you got people who are willing & capable to reach out & help. What is the egoed insanity & denial about?

Every race  cannot survive on bread alone; the minds & bodies were created with expiration dates. And if knowledge lacks abroad in this Covid-19 in young & old. Of who catches up to read, write and do math our chances of survival are limited. 

The Disparity is the history abroad us in angered aggressions. As we stretch out our arms & legs to change. Denial is a condition we disagree in ourselves throughout humanity. Creating the confrontations; amongst every face & race around the world. 

WHY

In the event you woke up with a question "Why". Be prepared to accept their maybe answers but more than half of the reasoning; is not always going to give you a peace of mind. During this transition of time.

It is imperative we identify with our own self denials of acceptance. And continue in  asking for the truth. But when directed or given; it is shut down if not reiterated in a differeny style of communication. So with all due respect if a story is not your own testimony. There is a story that fits the lives we are connected to in some form or fashion. Why, because we are the makeup through generations of our bloodlines.

To start, I want to first honor the grandparents who put in effort to step in and love to raising these kids. So many children are being left out of knowing truth. And sometimes its the loss of a parent in any type of life changing transition.

To the children & parents who struggle to communicate. If you never had to be separated from one another its a devastating feeling. A bond in these uncertain times is priceless. Because tomorrow for either of you is not promised. 

To a domestic violence couple, strippers or drug dealers of any race. People do or deal drugs in every social status & race. Who ever you are; you have children that are watching the dysfunction. However, it does not mean that you dont love them. Its means you need to pay more attention to what is locked behind their tears. So one day you dont have to miss them. Or they dont have to wonder when you will turn the key behind that door; they are waiting.

To the have or have nots. Hell, its all confusing on who is claiming what. At the end of the day Peace of minds cannot be bargained with. And holding one another is priceless.

To our siblings if we cant trust one another; then who is our real enemy?

To the thief, murderer & liar. What happens once its revealed we all conspiring against one another? See until we accept we sleep with the enemy everynight; in ourselves. There will be no rest. But a whole generation of immature, selfish & unnecessary struggling.

Why, did I lose my job. At this point of time.

Why are people in the world so cold, compassionate if not cruel. Maybe an adjustment in attitudes will adjust the dials on humanities moods.

Why did the Covid-19 take so many of our families. 

Why, are the children being denied love & seeing their people. Foster cared for short term period in some houses of anguish. As some people seek to  gain a check or welfare benefits to yell "these my kids".

Why, are the drugs approved. And the courts are stacked with criminal cases. As real people are dying and the profits are marginalizing. 

Why, come he or she dont love me? Stop searching on line, blaming or forcing the process with more created obligations. And invest more time in fixing your mental mindset. Or communicate in that relationship you are already in. If not taking the other person for granted. 

Why, is or their parents always in the business. For the genuises in the world with limited investments or plans to see these children or adults succeed. We stand in between with intervention of anothers persons sneaky intentions. A parent who shows love & discipline without a reservation to step in. Is this child's business for a lifetime with unlimited interest. 

Why, is Satan real & God is the problem?

Again, this blog was narrative written on behalf of a generation of behaviors. Including myself & Dominique White on Kindle "The Burdens of A Heavy Heart, the beginnings of the days of our past & future generations.

Why, do we override the truth with lies and denials. And argue who has been mistreated; first when you put "Trust In God", maybe later, second if not.